New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in October, 2016, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (1), 2 (2), 3 (1), 4 (2), 5 (2), 8 (1), 10 (3), 12 (3), 13 (2), 16 (2),
17 (2), 18 (2), 20 (1), 21 (2), 23 (2), 24 (1), 25 (1), 26 (1), 27 (2), 28 (1),
30 (2), 31 (2),

Archived questions from: October, 2016 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

It's a rocky relationship and I just learned he's been sexting other women! I need advice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2958 days ago

31 October 2016 (F) - Please I need y'all advice. So my bf and have both live here in the U.K. I came here when I was a teenager and he's only been here for 3yrs now. His mum said I'm a good girl so she set us up. He was not my type so I didn't agree. He pursued me ...

I've never had feelings like this before, but I'm getting whiplash!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2970 days ago

31 October 2016 (F) - Ok, so here it is: A couple months ago i met this guy, and it was instant attraction from both sides. Physical attraction that i have NEVER felt before, but what was strange is that there was the emotional attraction as well. We are very good ...

Girlfriend of 4 years cheated, I forgave and she's still cheating! I'm afraid to leave home anymore

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2973 days ago

30 October 2016 (M) - Hey guys, Im new to this kind of thing however i don't know where else to turn to for this so figured it's time to ask here. so right to it... Me and my gf have been together for over 4 years now... we've had our ups and downs like anyone el...

I think I made a mistake moving away and buying a house with my b/f. I don't know what to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2974 days ago

30 October 2016 (F) - I am 42, and currently in a bad situation with my bf of 6 and 1/2 yrs. I moved 80 miles away from family friends etc to be with him. We bought a house last oct'. However things have got so bad already. He is very strict and sometimes ruthless with ...

I've fallen in love with this guy, but after our complicated past together I don't know where we stand. How do I handle seeing him again ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2975 days ago

28 October 2016 (F) - Hi guys... I'll start from the beginning. I have met someone at university two yeas ago who I have a very long history with ever since then. We met in our second year after he just enrolled.We officially met at a party I was throwing in my h...

My cheating partner found out I got my girlfriend married, up and left her husband. I can't believe how she has changed!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2974 days ago

27 October 2016 (M) - Ive got a problem story that I have bought on myself and im not looking for sympathy as I know ive done wrong.7.5 years ago my friend and his new girlfriend came to my house and for some silly reason me and her hit it off from the start.aA few ...

I put a profile on a website and my boyfriend wanted to meet! I'm devastated

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2977 days ago

27 October 2016 (M) - Hi, Really need some advice and help, feel as if my heart is being ripped to spreads. I'm a trucker and met a wonderful gay guy 'T' 6 months ago, his into fantasy and hi viz' etc, I wasn't but went with the flow, trying to please, and get ...

How should I deal with my wife's kinky up and down thoughts? ?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2970 days ago

26 October 2016 (M) - Hello everyone, Thanks for taking the time to read this and offer advice if able. My question is how do I deal with my wife's constant changing thoughts on sex and her naughty behavior. For some backstory, we're both mid 30's, been mar...

BF got caught basically cheating, he hasn't reached out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2976 days ago

25 October 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together two years. We have had trust issues because he got a girls number on a trip, and texted her flirting throughout and I found out about it. He said he made a dumb mistake and blah blah blah if I found out about ...

I cheated, ended things but not sure what to do now

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2969 days ago

24 October 2016 (M) - Im married, with two kids. I did the dumbest thing in my life. I cheated on my wife after 7 years together. I was stupid, feel like scum and have this knot in my stomach that will not go away. To make things worse, I started with a condom and som...

I think my mom's cheating on my step dad

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2977 days ago

23 October 2016 (F) - I really need some advice right now. I think my mum is cheating, or about to cheat on my stepdad. It sickens me to even think about it. Long story short, last year there was an incident where my mum found out that my stepdad was messaging and ...

What are the signs that a partner has had or is having an online affair and or very inappropriate social media flirting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2976 days ago

23 October 2016 (F) - Has anyone had a partner whos had an online affair and or very inappropriate social media flirting that can give me advice on what the possible signs are please?... For a long time Ive been extremely worried about a lot of my boyfriends behaviou...

My friend found my girlfriend on a dating site

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2982 days ago

21 October 2016 (M) - I have been in an 18 month relationship with an extremely insecure girl who has been controlling, needy, and jealous of my past. I have often been aggressively accused of things that just dont exist. In spite of this difficulty, I have rode the ...

How do I rebuild trust with my wife when she's still going to see the man she crossed a line with?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2976 days ago

21 October 2016 (M) - I have been married to my wife for 10 years and thought things were going ok. We did go through a rocky patch in June this year but thought we had got through that. I started to get a bit suspicious of a guy that she coaches who had left his wife a ...

Why would my ex want sex with me when he loves his girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2980 days ago

20 October 2016 (F) - why would my ex bf want to have sex with me so bad when he loves his girlfriend so much? me and him stay in the same hood, he is always with her but he will text me and tell me he misses sex with me and our relationship was not serious as I thought ...

Where to now? Is my married loved a narcissist? I feel I can no longer trust him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2980 days ago

18 October 2016 (M) - I had a year long affair with a married man. I am his tennant in the house that he rents out. He left his wife just before Christmas and came to live with me and my kids in the house. During our affair we had a secret bank accounts, and phone nu...

The girl I'm seeing has a girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2985 days ago

18 October 2016 (M) - Okay where do I begin... I recently met this girl about 1 month ago she is very kind, beautiful and has feelings for me, she says she eventually wants to be more than friends and that she likes me. I looked her up on fb, being a former cop and ...

I saw her first!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2986 days ago

17 October 2016 (M) - I'm so pathetic. Here's why. No better place to begin from, well, the beginning, so I'll start there. I've lived in the same town all my life. For the sake of anonymity, we'll call it Hopetown. (Try and stalk me if you want to, that's not the real...

I don't want to be played. Is he playing me? ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2985 days ago

17 October 2016 (F) - ok i have been dating this guy, we both r still speaking hw says he likes me and has told his parents about me the night after the date I found him on an online dating site at 2am I have been online before that and he hasn't been online as ...

How can I end an affair with a married woman who is having an affair with another?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2985 days ago

16 October 2016 (M) - What steps can I take to end a affair with a married woman that is having another affair. Yes, call me stupid. I deserve it. She is a long term friend and we have known each other for years. We are very comfortable with each other. The other af...

My friend is accusing me of being a shitty friend because I like the guy she was cheating on her boyfriend with!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2987 days ago

16 October 2016 (F) - This is a very complex situation, so please bare with me as this story might be a little long-winded. In August, my friend Leslie started hanging out with this guy, Ian, she met through Tinder. They were talking to each other off-and-on for n...

Is this relationship worth holding onto?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2990 days ago

13 October 2016 (M) - my girl and I were separated but still living together with a baby. I found out she was talking to someone else, she said she never slept with him but did make out with him and came home with a hickey one day. everything is in the open now and she ...

I didn't trust him and it has affected our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2990 days ago

13 October 2016 (F) - I need some advice.... I have been with my partner for just over 1 year but we have known each other for about 3. Generally we get on really well. We both work shifts and sometimes don't see each other for a week at a time. He is 10 years older th...

My boyfriend cant make up his mind!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2992 days ago

12 October 2016 (F) - Me and my ex broke up about 5 months ago. A month after we broke up he went out with one of our mutual friends and of course that bothered me but I just kept telling myself if they are happy then I'm happy. A month into that relationship they broke ...

Being strung by my best friend... who has a girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2989 days ago

12 October 2016 (F) - Hello DearCupid :) I'm struggling with being strung by my best friend. He has a very attractive girlfriend. They have been together for almost 10 years now and I have always respected him for it. He was never an option for me until we screwe...

I am always anxious that my b/f is going to leave me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2992 days ago

12 October 2016 (F) - 'm in a desperate situation. I suffer from diagnosed depression. Almost a year ago I met the man of my dreams and we are still together. In August I found messages to his female friend I had noticed he had a flirty relationship with on Facebook and ...

I'm married no sex with wife but am meeting men behind her back

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2992 days ago

10 October 2016 (M) - I am a married man, 2 kids and have over the last year not had sex with my wife. Instead I have joined a dating agency, gay sex site really and had numerous encounters, which I have fully enjoyed, Truth be told I feel more comfortable with mal...

I love him but I hate him. Where do I go from here? Its officially over but I still have feelings

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2991 days ago

10 October 2016 (F) - I don't know where to start but Ive lost so much over the past year and the losses still keep coming. I'm 38, two sons (18 and 15) and divorced for a little over a year. My sons are great...my oldest is a freshman in college out of state and my ...

I'm dating a girl but slept with another girl. Should I feel guilty?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2991 days ago

10 October 2016 (M) - I've recently been dating this girl and things have gone well we've gone out about four times and we kissed for the first time yesterday. After she went I was going on a night out with my friends and friends of theirs. long story short I slept wi...

Why did he present as single and not wear any ring? Only telling me later? I broke up, but now he's pursuing me. How do I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2996 days ago

8 October 2016 (F) - I'm a divorced mom of 2 children. Single for almost 3 years now. I am tall, thin, athletic, and would consider myself a 7.5 – 8, however, six nights a month doesn’t really allow a lot of free time to date. About 7 months ago, I met a very cute ...

How can I reach a state of acceptance that the one I love does not love me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2998 days ago

5 October 2016 (F) - Hi there, confused to say the least. i am 19 and love a man who is older (about 15 years older) and this male constantly treats me wrong. Doesn't show any respect, love or loyalty. I believe i am very possessive with people and things and it's not ...

My partner is away alot and I've become too friendly with our neighbor

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2999 days ago

5 October 2016 (F) - Okay so, please don't knock me down for this, I just seriously need to ask for help! Me and my partner have been together for 6 years, 3 young children, 2, 3+4 and I have a 10 year old from a previous relationship, my family are my life you know...

I love my husband but sex with older man is passionate!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2999 days ago

4 October 2016 (F) - Hi, I've been married for just over a year I'm 23 and my husband is 27. We have been together for 4 and a half years and ever since we have got married everything has changed even though we have a daughter together and we lived with each ...

Why can't I find someone to date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3001 days ago

4 October 2016 (F) - So about 2 months ago I broke up with my boyfriend. It has been my most meaningful relationship to date, because we lived together. At first it was all a dream. I was crazy in love, we had the chemistry that only happens in movies. And I felt loved ...

Does prior promiscuity / lack of self care mean danger in a relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2999 days ago

3 October 2016 (M) - So.... a couple meets on tinder. They like each other, go for "the test". Turns out person A has an STD but makes out like they were just "unlucky" to have contracted it. Person B accepts and tries to move forward confidently. Person B had a clean ...

Is it possible for your BF to have a tryst in an hour?

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 2998 days ago

2 October 2016 (F) - Likely or unlikely? Possible or not possible? Your boyfriend goes to the Home Depot and is gone for exactly one hour. Is it possible for him to leave his car in the Home Depot parking lot, have another woman pick him up, take him somewhere ...

How do I respond to my wife now I know about the affair she had with my (then) best friend behind my back?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2861 days ago

2 October 2016 (M) - I just found out that my wife had a sexual relationship with my best friend and the best man at my wedding. This happened 26 years ago! We had been dating exclusively for 4 months at the time. Even though it was so long ago, I feel like it could've...

I still have feelings for her. Should I keep in touch? She's about to marry another girl.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3001 days ago

1 October 2016 (F) - So I need a little help. Last year around this time, I started seeing a girl. She was beautiful, smart, educated, sweet. All things I look for in a relationahip. Honestly nothing was really lacking and we were pretty great together. We dated fo...