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Archived questions from: June, 2016 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

How long can I "play" hubby for her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3059 days ago

28 June 2016 (M) - Me [25 M] in love with [26 F] living with her bf for the past 9 years with two kids It's really a tough situation because I have fallen in love with her and she with me. But as is always the case when someone has been with another guy for 9 years ...

Is it cheating if a man, married or in a relationship, has a happy ending occur after a massage?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3059 days ago

28 June 2016 (F) - Hi ladies (and gents), I was searching for some opinion here! Long story cut short, what do you think of a married man or your spouse getting a happy ending after a massage? Would that be considered as cheating? Would you be upset if he told you...

I feel like "Mr No Spine"

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3056 days ago

27 June 2016 (M) - His ladies and gents, long time no post here. The past 4 years have been great, I have met a great woman, and 1 year ago, we got married. We are living with her parents, it can get a little claustrophobic at times. Just for a small amount o...

Is something going on, or am I reading too much into this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3058 days ago

26 June 2016 (F) - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years we get on really well and his family are like my family the problem is any woman that walks past he stares till she's out of sight now he received a text this morning asking saying is this for instance john ...

When is the right time to take an ex back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3058 days ago

26 June 2016 (F) - I have not been seeing or contacting my ex for two years now. He sent me a text yesterday just to say hi on social network. As we text he tells me he is still inlove with me and wants to be the best guy for me. He blames himself for the break up ...

Is there such a thing as relationship anxiety? How do I manage this anxiety?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3063 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I've had horrible experiences with exes. My first love cheated on me twice and both times he choose the other girl over me. That in a sense kind of left me emotionally scarred and since then I haven't had a relationship last more than a couple o...

Will a man in a sexless, long term marriage eventually have sex with another woman?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3061 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I have a question and I am curious about what the opinions are out there. If a man is in a long term relationship or marriage and his wife was no longer willing to have sex (ie. she never did like it to begin with, she no longer likes it) with h...

Does he feel rejected? I'd like to know, how can this be fixed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3062 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I have a weird situation and need opinions please.. Talked to this guy online, Skype, phone for three years(I know I know "you never met him")... But it was budding pen pals to friends to romantic interest. There was a possibility of s...

I probably shouldn't take him back. Is what I did to him worse than what he did to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3063 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I was involved with my ex-boyfriend for many years we are friends first so I've known him a really long time. We know each other very very well. He had some substance abuse issues and during that time cheated on me multiple occasions. When I fi...

Can you please advise what to do? My lesbian partner has been exchanging explicit messages on line with a man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3065 days ago

20 June 2016 (F) - I found explicit emails between my lesbian partner and a man on craigslist. I found some printed copies of her replies to a mans advert on craigslist. The man wanted to meet her for fun in exchange for money. My partner always brags about being ...

Should I feel guilty? I told every one he has a "needle dick" after he was playing games with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3065 days ago

20 June 2016 (F) - Should I feel guilty? Hi I'm Ellie and I'm seventeen years old. In a nutshell, I had this boyfriend we had a thing since september, so about 8 months. I met him when I moved schools for sixth form and we had chemistry right away. In Febuary I fou...

Why did she contact her ex? I sent him a "no contact" email from her account 2 years ago!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3066 days ago

20 June 2016 (M) - Hi, I have been living with my girlfriend for 2 years now. I'm English living in Costa Rica and she's Costa Rican. When we first met I found her text an American man she used to work with. I found out they were having sex,skyping and sending rude ...

His kiss has upset my calm

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3068 days ago

19 June 2016 (F) - I have a bf of over a year however recently something happened with a work colleague. The guy from work kissed me after a night out but now has said we can't talk outside of work anymore as his gf thinks there is something between us. I'm feeli...

Help ! What should I do? He treats me like someone he wants to string along

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3046 days ago

18 June 2016 (F) - I was with a relationship for 2 years. A few months ago i found out he had been two- timing me with his ex (i was apparently the side chick). I broke up. He pursued her like a crazed stalker for a month but she left him for good. Then he came for...

My married man was upset I broke up with him! Was I unreasonable?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

16 June 2016 (F) - I have been involved with a married man for 10 years, I waited until his children were grown up so I could make demands in my lover leaning his wife, they are 17 and 19 so not kids anymore....I asked him last night for us to be a proper couple now, ...

Newly married but feel so guilty about my cheating. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

16 June 2016 (F) - I got married to my boyfriend recently whom I was with in a long distance relationship for 3 yrs. We still live apart as I have not moved to his city yet as he could be taking a transfer to mine. I have dark secret which haunts me even now. Las...

How can this continue with me losing my sanity? I have a wife and a girlfriend who are both amazing.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

15 June 2016 (M) - I've been having an affair with a much younger, beautiful and sexy woman for over three years. I am in a fairly good marriage and we've been married for 22 years. My wife and I are on the same wave length. We've been through a lot together and are...

Am I being paranoid or is my husband a cheater?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

15 June 2016 (F) - I have been married for over 25 years, but am currently separated from my husband due to various issues. One of the issues is suspected cheating, which my husband denies. I just wanted to hear other peoples perspective on this, as my husbands...

Should I accept this? My Boyfriend wants to sleep around and then come back to me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3073 days ago

14 June 2016 (F) - This is my first post so I'll try not to make it too wordy. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. About 10 months ago, I broke up with him because I felt like I needed more sexual experience before we settled down. He was heartbroken and ...

I feel betrayed and devastated that my husband is regularly visiting a brothel. What are my options to deal with my hurt?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

13 June 2016 (F) - after 6 years of marriage I feel everything is falling apart! and I am completely devastated .. My husband is having an adultery, he is a regular brothel visitor. we got married after years of crazy deep love and commitment, now we are married for ...

Do relationships that start as affairs go the distance, or do they fail?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

12 June 2016 (M) - My dad left my mum (who his disabled with MS) for the 'other woman' - do these relationships that start as an affair (lies, deception) typically last? How can his new parter trust him? She must be insecure that if he can do it with her, he will DO ...

Should I just end the relationship as I broke her trust?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

11 June 2016 (M) - Asking is it better to end a relationship if trust if broken??? I did not physically cheat but sexual videos btwn me and a girl got found and then she forgave me not only for me to get caught on a chatting site a few months later ..so she says...

I think this might be a case of 'out of the mouths of babes'!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3051 days ago

8 June 2016 (F) - My fiance has been working as a security guard for asylum seeker and refugee homes for almost one year now. Very quickly they put him onto night shift and now our schedules clash and we don't see each other as much as we would like to, I mean, our ...

Why Am I unable to leave my married lover?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3078 days ago

7 June 2016 (F) - I am seeing a married man. I don't see him often. Once a month but we keep in touch on text / email. He is my friend.. The person who gives me advice. Who is my mentor and my agony aunt. He is 10 years older than me. Married with no children. I have ...

How can I break this cycle of abusive or unsatisfactory relationships?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3080 days ago

7 June 2016 (F) - I have a dilemma the men I have dated or run into have been the cruelest and this has been an ongoing cycle I can't end- I was in a verbally abusive relationship for five years only to end it after I finally woke up from his control. I took some tim...

Did my jealousy push him away? Did I cause him to cheat?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3080 days ago

7 June 2016 (F) - First this is going to be long I'm sorry --I have been dating a guy for a year. He is a very loving affectionate, thoughtful guy who is in constant contact and we see eachother every night. I pretty much live with him. I was cheated by my past ex so ...

She was being cagey about where she’d been, so I checked her phone. Then we had a long talk about it all. Advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3079 days ago

7 June 2016 (M) - Hey, Bare with me this is long but for a bit of backstory... Ive been with this girl for about 6 months and she is great, we hang out all the time and are really close and affectionate with eachother. We have discussed that we would like...

Why am I worried about this one woman in particular around my boyfriend? how can I handle my insecurities over this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3080 days ago

6 June 2016 (F) - So... maybe it's my fault for asking.... but.... Asked my boyfriend of 3 years if he would ^^^k this woman who runs in our social circle IF he was NOT with me. He was not too keen on answering at first but he DID say point blank "YES" if he ...

Does it seem that this type of man would love a girl of this nature? What's the attraction?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

6 June 2016 (F) - Can this guy really be deeply in love with this girl? I have a college classmate/group member who I kind of have a crush on, but his relationshiup with his girlfriend is kind of questionable. Had a friend ask him if he has a girlfriend, and ...

He's dating one of my best friends. I really like him. He keeps asking me out, and I reject him. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3077 days ago

6 June 2016 (F) - So I've like this boy in my year for a while now but he's going out with one of my best friends. However he is still showing signs of liking me after over two years of him liking me. All the time he asked he out I rejected him. We are now really c...

How can I positively identify if my Bf is cheating on me, or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

6 June 2016 (F) - Hello. How do I know, I mean REALLY know if my boyfriend is cheating on me? His office is mostly women employees. And I met him that way. He owns a small business. He has about 10 women who work there and only three men, all of whom are older...

Can the love that once existed be rekindled between us or are we done?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

6 June 2016 (F) - i have been married for 23 years and been with my husband since we have been 14 years old. I just recently found out he had an affair on me with a younger woman recently and has been seeing her behind my back for 7 months. I really want to work on ...

Could my longstanding friend be cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2813 days ago

6 June 2016 (F) - There are times when i feel my longstanding boyfriend must be having an affair judging by his sometime cavalier attitude to mean! Then i feel emotionally exhausted and as if everything i have done has sumply been to prop anothercouple up. I would r...

I'm no longer sexually attracted to my husband

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

1 June 2016 (F) - I am no longer sexually attracted to my husband. He does not know this and I don't know if I should break the news to him or keep it to myself. I know the reasons I am no longer attracted. He was unfaithful and I haven't been able to forgive ...

Drunken night woke up in bed with former FWB. Do I tell my boyfriend? I don't know what happened!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3085 days ago

1 June 2016 (F) - Jack is a guy on my course who I used to have a little crush on, basically at the start of the year we slept with each other a few times but then he stopped talking to me and left me a little upset. After this I met a guy called Tom who I really ...

Did he cheat? If not, what is this all about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2721 days ago

1 June 2016 (F) - Hi. I am in long distance relation with a guy, I live in Germany in the north and he is down in Munich. We sometimes dont see each other as much as we would like because work is so hectic for both of us and we have to coordinate holidays with our ...

What should I do? He lied to me. I feel so bad, knowing that his Gf is probably not going to find out

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3085 days ago

1 June 2016 (F) - I had a one night stand the other night with a guy who I have met a few times before. When I saw him recently he tried it on with me in a bar but I turned him down because I knew he had a girlfriend. He then told me that he was on a break with ...