New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in January, 2016, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (1), 2 (1), 3 (2), 4 (1), 5 (4), 6 (1), 7 (1), 8 (1), 9 (1), 10 (1),
11 (1), 12 (2), 13 (1), 14 (1), 16 (2), 17 (1), 18 (1), 19 (1), 22 (3), 25 (1),
26 (4), 28 (1), 29 (3), 30 (3), 31 (1),

Archived questions from: January, 2016 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

What is wrong with me that I get involved with a married man? Why am I such a mess?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3216 days ago

31 January 2016 (F) - What is wrong with me?? Please tell me what's wrong with me. I am ending an alcoholic marriage and am getting divorced. It has been very sad for many years and then i get involved with a married man for the last 18 months cos he was kind and car...

Should I face this now? Or wait, to avoid the stress, until baby is born?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3216 days ago

30 January 2016 (F) - In the next 7 week I will be at my due date with my first baby with my boyfriend. Over Christmas my brother fell out with my boyfriend, and my brother kept telling me to dump my boyfriend as he wasn't what I thought he was and I'd be better m...

My wife of 22 years has no remorse over her cheating. Should we divorce, or do what we want?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3216 days ago

30 January 2016 (M) - I just found out that my wife cheated on me and not the first time and she does not even feel remorse. We have been married for 22 years, both in our 40s. She looks amazing for her age. Men always liked her. we have a grown child and empty nesters....

I am feeling sorry for myself, and sorry for the wife of my married lover since we broke up. How do I get over this break-up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3217 days ago

30 January 2016 (F) - I broke up with a married man two weeks ago. While I am dealing with that and trying to let go, I am also crying over the fact that I will no longer be friends with his wife either. Please don't judge and tell me she is better off without frie...

Seems he's been messaging her non-stop. Is my boyfriend cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3214 days ago

29 January 2016 (F) - Okay so I know some people may judge me for this but about two months back I snooped on my boyfriends phone. I saw he had been exchanging lots of messages with this girl he goes to university with who he is actually going to be living with next aca...

I feel everyone will hate me if I see more of this guy. What do I need to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3215 days ago

29 January 2016 (F) - I have been going out with my current boyfriend for 3 years now. We have had our ups and downs but for the last few months we have had a smooth patch. As we starting going out quite young (ish) the relationship has sometimes made me a little i...

I walked in on my wife while she was performing oral sex. Should I end the marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

29 January 2016 (M) - Me and my wife have been married for 12 years now.I never expected this from her.One day when I got home from work I walked in on her giving head to another man.He immediately ran out of the apartment,didn't even have time to get dressed.In our ...

Why does an extra marital affair last 3 years and still going strong?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

28 January 2016 (F) - What are the reasons an extra marital affair lasts going on 3 years?? Do most of them not end sooner? And realistically how much longer can it continue? Why does a married man stay this long with another woman? Surely it isn't a lapse in j...

Having an affair with my friend's husband

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3220 days ago

26 January 2016 (F) - I m 22 years old n i love a guy he is 23 and married to my friend.we have known each other since 1 year ago before evwrything was ok but since 4-5months we are regularly talking with each other and meeting secretly.we both have feelings for each ...

Why did my guy betray me and stop being loyal while I was busy supporting my Dad during Dad's terminal illness?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3221 days ago

26 January 2016 (F) - I have had the worst year of my life due to my dad's terminal illness. This has took a lot out of me waiting for the outcome to happen. I had what I thought was an amazing man supporting me. I've now happened to find out that through all these ba...

He lied to me..he was cheating on his wife with me. Do I tell her?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3221 days ago

26 January 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid I was dating a guy for a month, I was not attracted to him physically but sounded a nice decent person with a great job and everything. I asked him so many times whether he is single and he said he is and he never married since he...

Boyfriend left me for my best friend. Just found out they're getting married.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3220 days ago

26 January 2016 (F) - Sounds straight out of a movie I know. I was with my ex from 2010-2013. We were both 23 and met at a party. We hit it off right away and started dating. I personally thought we had the 'perfect relationship' we never fought, we always knew exac...

My retaliation hook-up has been weighing me down with guilt. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3223 days ago

25 January 2016 (F) - my.boyfriend and I have been together almost 6 years. we have a 3 and 4 year old. when we first got together I had just gotten out of a bad relationship. in a bad place. anyways, he and my best friend had hooked up and I found out. I forgave ...

Why is he still keeping in touch? Even though we are no longer having sexual relations?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3222 days ago

22 January 2016 (F) - I did a bad thing. I was in a a relationship when I met a guy through a mutual friends. We exchanged phone numbers and started texting. After going out as friends for drinks, we ended up sleeping together. After that, we have done a few more tim...

My husband left me for another woman. When does the shock go away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3224 days ago

22 January 2016 (F) - My husband of 7 years has left me for another woman and I'm very upset and not sure how I can handle this. My husband had been acting strange the last month or so and I've been worried, but when I ask him what's wrong he would always say he's ...

Fighting for something that will never happen

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3225 days ago

22 January 2016 (M) - Okay, so I've been trying to go along this by myself lately but I have asked around but my damn heart keeps pointing me to wrong direction it seems. I'll cut this huge timeline/story but I've gone out with my ex for 1 year and 8 months but I bro...

I know girlfriend is cheating behind my back, why didn't she just let me go?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3227 days ago

19 January 2016 (M) - I found a piece of paper with several male user names and names of certain free dating sites, on the bathroom floor, but however much she denied it - I know my girlfriends handwriting. It got the best of me and I became quite obsessive about finding ...

I love this man but I don't trust him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3230 days ago

18 January 2016 (F) - Ok, so I posted on here not to long ago but I seem to be having a problem... A few months ago, back in september, around my fiance and i's anniversary, I caught him online talking to other women, calling them beautiful, making sexual remarks and ...

He's married but he still calls me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3229 days ago

17 January 2016 (F) - I was seeing this guy for about 2 years to come to find out his married the horrible part is he met me two weeks after he got married and I didn't find out until my co-worker noticed him on Facebook which I don't have a account but how can a man ...

Threesome that I initiated leads to my wife having a 2 year affair

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3230 days ago

16 January 2016 (M) - My wife and I are in our late 20's, married 5 years..One night about two years ago after too many drinks at my single friends apartment, don't ask me why, i said lets try a threesome..probably the alchohol talking..it was totally my idea, and my ...

Should I reveal all to the wife of my ex? My Bf will leave me if I fail to tell her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3230 days ago

16 January 2016 (F) - Hi, I recently started dating an amazing guy, everything has been great and we are thinking about getting married. While talking about our pasts he found out that up until the day I met him I was still friends with an ex boyfriend. The...

Confused after discovering her sexting: is she going to rekindle an old flame? Do I leave her or make it work for the kids?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3232 days ago

14 January 2016 (M) - I caught my wife of 13 years sexting an old "friend" from her old neighborhood. I accidently received a pm from a social site (she used the site to sign into a music app on my phone and didn't sign off) and it contained explicit details of her ...

He's hurt and deceived me - please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3234 days ago

13 January 2016 (F) - Hello everyone. I really need some advice as I'm completely devastated. My boyfriend of 5 years confessed to me about a week ago that he met another woman a couple months back and that he's fallen in love with her. Not only that but my boyfriend is ...

Should I go with the good guy or do I stay where I'm comfortable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3235 days ago

12 January 2016 (F) - About a month ago, my life got a little messy. I have been in a faithful, committed relationship for four years. My boyfriend and I have an apartment together, we own three cats and a dog. We've had a long history. We've been through everything ...

Why would a married man keep in touch with his mistress while on vacation with his wife?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3235 days ago

12 January 2016 (F) - Why does a married man who is on vacation with his wife keep in constant touch with his mistress while he is away? And tells her he misses her and can't wait to be with her again?...

Did my boyfriend intend to send this email to another woman?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3235 days ago

11 January 2016 (F) - I have a very big problem and it's been eating away at me for the past few hours but it's been ongoing. I know the fine people of DC will be able to provide me with the best possible advice and that is why I am here reaching out to you. My boyfri...

But why the sudden blanking...what does it mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3237 days ago

10 January 2016 (F) - I split up with my ex a year and a half ago. It was pretty messy he ended up going to prison for being an idiot, all alcohol related. He has a problem with alcohol. It was over because I couldn't deal with the stress of it anymore. We didn...

Any advice to stop this vicious cycle? Am I right to believe he did lie?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3234 days ago

9 January 2016 (F) - Hey guys.. It's a long one so bear with me please. I am in a long distance and for reasons things can't change for sometime. We need to be in different cities. We end up meeting 4-6 times a year and talk everyday. In the end of 2014 I did a mi...

Does a cheater cheat on everybody they are with and are they always cheating with multiple partners at once?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3238 days ago

8 January 2016 (F) - Everybody always says cheaters are cheaters and will cheat on everybody they are with. Like it's gospel. So if you are with a man who has cheated on a partner in the past, it seems to be guaranteed he will do the same to you. Is this right? A...

My partner abuses me and accuses me of cheating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3240 days ago

7 January 2016 (F) - i am in a relationship but my partner always suspect me just because before i did some mistakes like my ex dont told him but within 2 month i told him that i have allredy in relational but this not good relation thats i dont told you he always abuse ...

Should I continue to carry on with this married man? Or walk away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3239 days ago

6 January 2016 (F) - I met a guy last year and we clicked instantly.as we got to talking he told me he asked if I was single and I said yes. He told me he was married but wars us to have a relationship.he told me his wife is in another country and doesn't live with ...

I lost the two most important people in my life in a span of 2 months. How am I supposed to rebuild?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3241 days ago

5 January 2016 (F) - For the most part I am a positive person and try to give off positive energy to others. But the last few months have been hell for me. I feel like I'm going to have a mental break down. 2015 was a horrible year for me. I lost my father on thanks...

He says one thing but phone record says another

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3242 days ago

5 January 2016 (M) - I've been with this guy for just over 4 months now. He's very insecure due to his previous 3 year relationship. We didn't meet in good circumstances as I left my boyfriend for him. It's going really well and I love him so much. He tells me he l...

I need some guidance with this 'unhealthy' relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2947 days ago

5 January 2016 (F) - I have posted here once before, and received some great feedback! However, I wasn't ready to make changes in my life!! Now, I am asking again for help with a relationship which I consider to be unhealthy, but very addictive. I have lived with my ...

Now we've split should I try to win him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3242 days ago

5 January 2016 (F) - Hi people... I split up with my boyfriend of 2 years on the weekend. He broke it off with me over an argument we had. I've posted questions on here a couple of times since and just need some advice now on how to deal with the situation now I ...

Boyfriend of 5 years has been cheating and left me for the other woman. I'm not coping well!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3243 days ago

4 January 2016 (F) - My long term boyfriend of 5 years completely destroyed me tonight. He and I have been having some problems the last couple weeks but tonight he decided to end it. He confessed to having been cheating on me for a month and ultimately was going...

My married son is going away to meet up with a woman he is attracted to. Do I tell his wife?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3242 days ago

3 January 2016 (F) - Hello. Thank you for reading this. I am having a problem with my son and his wife and I could do with some honest advice. My son has been married for 3 years to his wife. Prior to the wedding they had dated for about 7 years. They now have tw...

LDR boyfriend has been seeing his ex the 3 years we have been dating. Advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3243 days ago

3 January 2016 (F) - Have been in a relationship/known a man for 3 years. It's different to other relationships I've had and hasn't always been straightforward. Despite all that has happened, I do genuinely love him and feel a connection with him. My main issue is th...

My fiance and I broke up. How can I get through this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3245 days ago

2 January 2016 (F) - I was in a relationship for 4 years and we were engaged to get married in the summer of 2016. I really loved him I was so looking forward to marrying my best friend. We talked about children often, and he was just my whole world. Every time ...

Is my guy having an emotional affair with this girl he calls his "friend"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3245 days ago

1 January 2016 (F) - I'm really needing some honest opinions as I don't know who to turn to. The last month has been hell for me because of the problems in my relationship with my boyfriend of 4 years. I truly believe my boyfriend has been having an emotional aff...