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Archived questions from: November, 2014 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Why? Why is she not into me anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3673 days ago

28 November 2014 (M) - So I have been with this girl for almost a year and at first she seemed so interested then she went on a little vacation sort of speak and while there I would talk to her on the phone and write each other letters. She told me that her old behavior...

My husband's explanation is not convincing. Is he cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3677 days ago

26 November 2014 (F) - Last night I was going through my husband's phone which he constantly updates and deletes stuff from. I happened to click on the "notes" and the only note I found was from a week ago. It said: "It was good seeing you today, I never knew how dazzling ...

Boyfriend cheated -- what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

24 November 2014 (F) - First, thank you so much for reading this, I really will appreciate any advice! This happened a couple of weeks ago. My boyfriend (of about 10 months) told me the morning after it happened. He and his friend, his friend's girlfriend, and ...

Stupid for wanting him back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3683 days ago

21 November 2014 (F) - I am stupid for wanting my husband back after 23 years of marriage? He left 7 months ago and said it was over, moved to another state, had a fling, that didn't work out. What ever happened really messed with him He thought about trying to work it ...

Why do women cheat?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3681 days ago

21 November 2014 (F) - I don't mean to sound sexist or come off as judgemental I'm just really curious as to why married women cheat? I mean I can understand why men cheat, they produce sperm like every freakin day of their life so of course they're gonna wanna let ...

Is my daughter having a second affair?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

20 November 2014 (F) - I am concerned about my daughter, I will give you some background information she has a child with her former friends dad who was married at the time. I don't need to say why they are no longer friends. This is all came out when the baby was born. I ...

Images of him sleeping with her are driving me mad! Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3685 days ago

19 November 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf of 3 years has gone to Europe for a seminar. He is there for past 1 week, will be back next week end. He went along with his coworker/boss with whom he has a crush on. She is married with kids. My bf is kind of lean towards ...

Am I wrong for always thinking of him? even though he's hurt me so bad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3685 days ago

19 November 2014 (F) - So me and my boyfriend just broke up AGAIN for good, he was the first guy I've ever loved and it hurts like hell. But theres a story behind it all..the first time we broke up was around March after spring break where he started talking to some ...

I had a feeling he was texting other girls, and he was! How do I approach this as it will reveal I went through his phone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3686 days ago

17 November 2014 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 15 months. Recently I haven't been feeling the same, like I still love him but I get the feeling he doesn't. Things have changed a little over the weekend and I don't like the way it's going. I had a feeling he was ...

I need to end this affair

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3687 days ago

16 November 2014 (F) - I need the big push to end my 9yr affair with a single man. I'm wed. A bad scene to be sure. If I cared that much I would have left my marriage and If my lover cared that much he would have asked me to! no sex with husband great sex with lover! Help ...

If there's another woman she doesn't deserve this either

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3687 days ago

16 November 2014 (F) - I have been with the same guy for six years. In this entire time we have gone out two times as a couple. Most of the time it's just the mattress mambo and nothing else. I have spoken to him about building a more solid relationship together over the ...

Is there any way to track texts, numbers and messages on an iPhone that is not yours?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

15 November 2014 (F) - Is there any way to put a tracking device on an iPhone? How can I do this? I need to monitor my husband's phone for evidence of cheating. How about a GPS tracking device for the car? Can anyone help me? How can I do all this and where can I ge...

My fiance and father of our child has revealed that he has fantasies about having sex with other women. How am I supposed to cope with this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3687 days ago

15 November 2014 (F) - What would you do/think if your fiance who you just had a baby with says he fantasises/wants to have sex with other women! One of the woman he sees around work and talks to. Hes never cheated as far as i know and says he only would sleep with oth...

How do I continue with this relationship with my married boyfriend when I have periods of doubt creeping in around his ability to be faithful to me?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

15 November 2014 (F) - Hello DC Friends. I could use your advice. Not judgement or answers which predict future behaviour and outcome. None of us knows what will happen with certainty. And let us remember that not every man is the same nor is what they do nor is every ...

I found out my husband has been cheating and won't talk about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

14 November 2014 (F) - Me and my husband has been together for 16years.ive reacantly found out what my gutt has been telling me all this time to be true hes cheated on me for sometime now hes not denying it however he claims hes not doing it any longer and hes sorry but ...

My widowed mother is sleeping with a married man.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

12 November 2014 (F) - I am a seventeen year old Indian girl. My father passed away in December 2013. Since February this year my father's best friend, Max, who is a married white man has been visiting us at least twice a week and sleeps over. He is a salesman for a large ...

My friend tells me she's in love with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3693 days ago

11 November 2014 (F) - I've met this woman and we have became really close friends and she says she loves me like her husband.but not in a sexual way but now I've fallen in love with her and I told her she said it's ok I decided to end our friendship she broke down in ...

I do love my boyfriend but I'm tempted by the other guy

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3692 days ago

11 November 2014 (F) - Hi - any help would be appreciated. I am on a total mess. My best girl friend and I went away last year and met a couple of guys. Both of us are in long term relationships but nothing happened with them. We spent a couple of nights out getti...

How do I go about this when I have NO PROOF if I suspect he is/had an affair

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3694 days ago

10 November 2014 (F) - I am living with my boyfriend. All I can go on is my suspicions. I've read numerous articles about spotting behaviors that would point to a man having an affair, but those behaviors don't show in my boyfriend. He has talked about marriage with me...

I'm in love with my married lover

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

9 November 2014 (F) - I've been in a relationship with an older married man for a year. In the last year, my feelings have grown for him, and I am in love. I know it's selfish, but I want more of his time to be spent with me. He insists that it will get better, but I'm ...

I can't leave him until December. How do I stay strong until then?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

9 November 2014 (F) - I am coming here because I need advice on how to stay strong. I feel like writing this all out may help as well as receiving advice from others. I have been with a guy for seven years and he is leaving me for the same woman he has left me for ...

Am I paranoid or is this a good gut feeling that he's cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3694 days ago

8 November 2014 (F) - I've been with my bf over a month now met over the internet. i'm 24 , hes 25. Everything is going, treats me like a queen. We've been on two weekends away (already i know) and met up in between. Thing is he normally msgs me every morning, ...

I found my wife cheated for 10 years, but I'm staying for the kids. Any advice?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3694 days ago

8 November 2014 (M) - My wife and I dated 4 years and were married 10 years and 2 months when I found out she was having an affair with the same man the entire time. We have two daughters, now 4 and 7. Turns out the other guy was married and his wife found out. Tur...

Boyfriend has cheated to be with me. How can I trust he is not cheating on me now or will cheat on me someday?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3695 days ago

7 November 2014 (F) - I came out and asked my BF if I am his only girl... because of past trust issues. He cheated to be with me and we have been together for about 14 months. I have asked him this a few times before with no concrete evidence. Just fear maybe because he ...

Boyfriend was holding ex and kissing her on the face. Did he cheat?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3696 days ago

7 November 2014 (F) - I have been with my bf for about a month. He is my coworker and he left his live in gf of over a year to be with me. I found out that he talks with her either by text or call everyday still. And he still see's her once or twice a week. Works on her ...

My husband has been meeting women for sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3696 days ago

7 November 2014 (F) - Well I have been so upset since 2am this morning. My husbands phone rang and I checked it because he was sleeping and it was an email from a girl at a sex hookup sight. I read it and looked at the pics she sent and started crying. I'm so broken. I ...

Does my crossdresser boyfriend have multiple personalities?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3695 days ago

7 November 2014 (F) - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-common-for-crossdressers-to-have-multiple.html Dear Cupid, I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years within the first 3 or 4 months of our relationship I knew that he was hiding something so I precede...

I have fallen in love with my mistress but I still care for my wife. What do I do?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

7 November 2014 (M) - I have fallen in love with my mistress but I still care for my wife. I did not set out for this to happen. When I first met my mistress, I knew instantly I was head over heels for her. It started out as mostly physical as she is beautiful and mu...

Cheated on and now stalked

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3684 days ago

6 November 2014 (F) - I broke up with my on/off bf of 5 yrs in mid sept. He was acting weird so I let him go. I found out in Oct he cheated on my with at least 2 girls this summer. We still were hanging out and he wanted to get back together but after finding this out ...

I want what's best for my daughter and myself

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3698 days ago

6 November 2014 (F) - I was a few months away from getting married when I found out my now ex had been cheating on me with a mutual friend. She was going out with a friend of mine, and my ex and this guy were like brothers. Basically it all came out when her boyfrie...

He used to do his own laundry! Is he cheating on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3699 days ago

5 November 2014 (F) - Is he cheating? My boyfriend of 4yrs and 11 mnths . nowadays constantly takes his clothes to the dry cleaners where his ex works.but before he used to do his own laundry. Is he cheating?...

My gut is telling me he's not faithful!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3696 days ago

4 November 2014 (F) - Lately, I've been rather doubtful of my fiancé's loyalty. I caught him liking other girls photo on facebook. And suddenly I get all jealous. He wasn't normally like this. For weeks My gut has been telling me that he's not faithful. He gets all ...

Should I give him permission to go out dancing while I go to sleep? Or will it lead him to cheat?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3699 days ago

3 November 2014 (F) - My husband and I are on a 2 week cruise. I do not like to dance but my husband does. Every time we are on a trip, he goes to dance. Is it okay for him to go to the disco on the ship once or twice to dance? Seeing that he likes it and I do...

Addicted to feeling desired/wanted???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3701 days ago

3 November 2014 (F) - 2 years ago I moved 100 miles away from my hometown to be with my my partner after being together. Crazy I know but it worked! Until February this year when he left me and broke my heart. I'll admit the relationship was hard towards the end but I ...

I want so badly to move past our past, but I don't know how to forgive and forget.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3701 days ago

1 November 2014 (F) - This is a bit long, but I need help.. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly two years; I am 25 and he is 24. We went through long-distance for eight months and then he moved away from friends, family, a job he loved, and his home tow...

I cheated my girlfriend and she found out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3701 days ago

1 November 2014 (M) - Ok so I've been dating my girlfriend Karen for two years, I'm 24 and she is 23. But about a month ago, I did the worst possible thing I could've done, I cheated on her with her best-friend Eva (not they real names). I knew that Eva had a thing for ...

He's never said he loves me -- does he?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3702 days ago

1 November 2014 (F) - My boyfriend is married and said to me that i am more than just fun to him and that if he was not married that we would be a couple and has told me that he would not know what to do if i was not in his life, my sister told me to get rid of him as ...