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writes:My boyfriend is married and said to me that i am more than just fun to him and that if he was not married that we would be a couple and has told me that he would not know what to do if i was not in his life, my sister told me to get rid of him as she thinks that its just lies and its just sex for him and when he finishes e-mails and texts to me he ends it with a x, does this mean that he loves me or something else, he has never told me that he loves me just says that he misses me when we are not together.
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reader, Brokenv +, writes (3 November 2014):
I was in affair for 3 years. I am married, he was not. I haven't seen him for 3 years. I still love him. He is my true love. I have many reasons why I didn't leave to be with him. He is in my thoughts and my dreams every moment of the day and night. I still ache for him.
Is it possible that he does love you. But how much are you willing to wait, sit and be second?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (1 November 2014):
When your sister told you "...she thinks that its just lies and its just sex for him..." she was absolutely correct. WHY would you think anything else? (Did you notice that he is MARRIED???)
Good luck..
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (1 November 2014):
 When we say love, it's the whole package and what he's willing to do for you in the long run. However some men loves to have fun on the side. He would not know what to do if he's not allowed to have the cake and eat it too. An x at the end of a sentence is a kiss. Whenever a person says "I love you" and don't follow up with a long term commitment then he is a player. He had said he loved his wife and look at what that got their marriage into. He only loves himself. I am not doubting there are loving feelings there, but as far as commitment outside of the affair there will be none.
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