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Archived questions from: November, 2013 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Everything is going wrong right now .....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - How do you handle it when everything seems to go wrong and you are under so much stress? I don't want to get into too much detail but over the past few months I have gone through a whole lot. My parents have never been there for me and don'...

Should I forgive him? Can we work through this or do I write off the last five years?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - Hey guys I really need some advice. So here goes ... I have been together with my boyfriend *dave ( not his real name) for about 5 and years and a half. We live together, we have a dog we have joint bank account I mean everything we are basically ...

He flirts and it irritates me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

29 November 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf of 3 years often flirts with his immediate boss or co-workers, someone or other. Its not that he flirts with everyone, he picks a person for a time, flirts with them until he loses interest or they lose interest and then move on...

Trying to end the affair but he won't take no for an answer

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

27 November 2013 (F) - It's been 4 yrs since I have been friends with a married man. We are not sexually active but we like each other a lot. What keeps me from having sex is the fact he is married and 36 yrs older than me. It bothers me that I care about him. It even ...

I'm pregnant with his child. Should I tell his girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3987 days ago

25 November 2013 (F) - just over 4 years ago I had an affair with a man who was married, it was very brief and it only lasted a few months. I then moved on and met a man who I eventually married and we had a son together bet we split up a year and a half ago. A few mont...

How could his kissing someone else have helped with my trust issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

25 November 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year. In this time I have suffered a bit of anxiety which has led to me being insecure and distrustful and spying on him and his internet history, accusing him and being quite needy and creating drama in ...

I have a chance to be with someone nice and I don't seem to want it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

25 November 2013 (M) - I'm sitting here and i hope that i can get some advice as i don't know who to ask. I'm 26 and apart from a 3 year relationship, i'm just being honest, i have been with a lot of women. I look after myself and am good looking and i love going out t...

Should I marry a girl I love and have had a five year on off relationship with but has cheated and lied to me in the past, but has now said she has changed, or should I stay with my new girlfriend of five months who I have a steady relationship with

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

24 November 2013 (M) - Hi guys, Anthony here, I am looking for some advice please as I ‘ve go myself into something of a dilemma! Should I marry a girl I love and have had a five year on off relationship with but has cheated and lied to me in the past, but has now said...

Am I being unreasonable to want to keep this friendship? Or is my boyfriend right?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

24 November 2013 (F) - Ok I have an issue with my live-in boyfriend (of 5 years) that I need some advice on please. I have a female friend at work. We work in the same department and we have become quite close and have started seeing each other outside of work a bit to...

Girlfriend says she wants to sow her wild oats

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

24 November 2013 (M) - I have been with the most wonderful girl for 3 years now. She is a good complement to me and I to her. We moved in together 2 years ago and we have talked of marriage and having a family. However, there is a problem and that is that our sex lif...

How can I be friends with an ex lover ????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

20 November 2013 (F) - I am unhappily married, live under the same roof as husband but we each have our own bedrooms. I have been having an affair with a man in his mid 40's for 3.5 years. He also is married but separated, he lives very close to me ( within 5 minutes...

Girlfriend cheated but then chose me but I'm wondering if she should have

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

20 November 2013 (M) - Me and my gf of 3 years have been have a rocky couple of months. 1st of I suspected she was cheating on me and after checking her whatsapp message logs I found out she was seeing this guy and even having sex with him. The guy knows about us and she ...

My boyfriend lied and cheated for over a year and got another woman pregnant. Should I dump him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3323 days ago

19 November 2013 (F) - Should I dump my boyfriend he has fathered a child with another woman and lied and deceived me for nearly a year he was having sex with both ov us but I had no idea he was cheating neither did the other girl know about me. He told me cause I caught ...

New man that is too protective? Or ex who left me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

19 November 2013 (F) - Please help,I have a child by my first boyfriend. He cheated and left me when I got pregnant. After a year, he came back and we got back together. After six months together,I left him for because he did not call me for weeks. I have a new boyfriend ...

How do I move on after a divorce which husband cheated and got married so quickly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

19 November 2013 (F) - I had been married 17 years when my (now ex) husband notified me of his intention to file for divorce through a solicitors email while I was overseas for a week. We had been having a bad time and I had tolerated emotional and some physical abuse ...

Went through boyfriends phone and found messages to other girls. Is this cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

19 November 2013 (F) - My bf and I have been going out for almost 7 months now. I've never gone through his stuff before but he left his phone behind today and I got curious. I honestly wasn't expecting anything, maybe just a couple messges from his girl-friends. Wha...

Slept with a married work colleague

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

18 November 2013 (F) - I have worked with this man for a year. We flirt all day everyday and for as long as I've known him iv been attracted to him, hes also attracted to me but hes married. On friday we had a work party and i stayed in his hotel room and we had sex. Ther ...

He said he was single, but now I find out about his terminal girlfriend

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

18 November 2013 (F) - I've just found out that this guy I have been getting to know has a girlfriend and that she is terminally ill. I confronted him and he says he just needs someone to support him through this time. I feel sick to my stomach because we have kissed a ...

It feels like we've changed over the course of the relationship, and I'm not sure we should continue

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

18 November 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have had a mostly happy and strong relationship going over the past 3 years, however over the past few months I have become increasingly unsure that this is the right guy for me. The reason why is because I feel like we have both ...

Should I trust my boyfriend that he didn't cheat?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

18 November 2013 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend rarely goes out drinking but he was out on Saturday night with his (single) friend. I have trust issues and I can get a bit paranoid and jealous.i did the wrong thing and looked at his mobile phone call history.(we live...

Why can't I stay away from trouble or settle down with a man who truly loves me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

18 November 2013 (F) - Have to ask myself why I am incapable of having a proper healthy relationship? Ever since I started dating about 3 years ago my whole relationship catalogue is a disaster (all my fault), so what is wrong with me? It started with a guy I dated for ...

Sister-in-law propositioned me, and I'm tempted ...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

18 November 2013 (M) - Hi I have a dilemma, I don't get on with my sister in law, she is an obnoxious self centred person, a habitual liar, thief and cannot be trusted even slightly. I have tried in the past to give her the benefit of the doubt but have always had my ...

He deceived and cheated. I have regrets. Do you have any tips on how I can forgive myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

17 November 2013 (F) - About 6 months ago, I discovered a man I was seeing was not all he said he was. He was cheating on me with multiple women and deceived me on a level I never imagined possible. He broke my spirit and my heart. I had never felt so low. With lots...

Sleeping with my ex-teacher who wants to leave his wife.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

16 November 2013 (F) - I'm a 20 year old girl from the UK and 5 years ago met a new teacher at school. He was 28 at the time (now 32). I was in my final year and he was new in the last few months. We got very close etc. and to cut a long story short, after my 16th ...

So my dilemma is should I tell him about the other guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

15 November 2013 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 7 months now. We are in the same class(both 19) and in march we started dating! We used to be best friends before that, and I liked him for a couple months before we started dating, and I ...

Does it make any sense to forgive him and try to move on together?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

14 November 2013 (F) - I have posted here before..I really need my awesome aunt and uncles help again. My boyfriend and I just got back together. We were split up for two months. We split up because one day he just wouldnt return my calls or texts. 4 days go by, I delete ...

Why is divorce a problem for a liar cheater wife?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

14 November 2013 (M) - My wife started cheating on me around the year 2000. I confronted her and she was extremely sorry, so she made me believe. A few years later she was cheating again and after all the wasted effort I put into salvaging our marriage I knew it was over. ...

My deployed boyfriend cheated! I need advice!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

13 November 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend been going out for 2 years we were plaining on getting married and everything we'll before he deployed I found out he cheated when he went home on leave 4weeks before deployment I flipped on him and wanted to break up but he ...

Hypocrites who justify cheating.....what's going through their minds?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

12 November 2013 (M) - Help me out here. How can a woman accuse her husband of cheating and then justify her own affair as a form of retaliation, or as a means to quench her insatiable thirst for attention? She gets all bent out of shape when she suspects that her husband ...

Am I wrong to be angry about the benefit fraud a person close to me is committing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

10 November 2013 (F) - What would you do if you found out someone you are close too is committing benefit fraud? I completely disagree with people who do this. I believe benefits are for people who are in real need of them. But what I have found out, that this person...

I feel like I've done everything I can to get over him. What else can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3855 days ago

10 November 2013 (F) - I love someone I cant have and I don't know how I can get over him. I was with my boyfriend for 8 years. I started working in a new job last summer. There was a guy there who I immediately hit it off with. We had so much in common and we instantly...

My girlfriend is a liar, bad mouths me but would not let me go.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

10 November 2013 (F) - My girlfriend is nothing but a liar and i resent her for it. I recently noticed she had made our relationship status on Facebook hidden, to which i asked her why and for whose benefit, she became agressive with me because she knows she got ca...

My mum's a selfish evil cruel gameplayer. I don't respect her at all!!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

10 November 2013 (F) - so it was about a year that i knew bout the fact that my mom was cheating on my dad. their relationship was AWFUL. they tried to get divorced when i was 5 but they didnt becuz my little brother came along.well according to what my aunt said they ...

I trust him, but I worry he will cheat on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

10 November 2013 (F) - I trust my boyfriend but last time he went out with the boys he got drunk and slept another woman. Now he's out again and I'm afraid it will happen again. I want to trust that he will make the right choice this time. I just can't make myself stop ...

I found a HIV-test. Did she cheat on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

10 November 2013 (M) - I have a steady girlfriend from past 2 years. Before I came in her life she had around 5-6 men in her life. But I am sure that from past 2 years it's been just me. I moved to another town close by - 2 hour drive from my current place for a work ...

Dealing with workplace infatuation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

10 November 2013 (F) - I have been with my partner for 5 years, we are in it for the long haul I believe. Some complaints here and there, but overall happy and a good couple. We've been planning to get married as soon as we stop moving around. Built a nice nest egg ...

Does this sound like a happily married man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

9 November 2013 (F) - I am 35 single female never married, has a crush on a manager 35 (he is married with 2 kids under 7) in the same office building. We connected on linkedin and after that it was non stop emails from him to me telling me about at first how he(only he ...

I can't get over my husband cheating with this awful woman!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

8 November 2013 (F) - I had marital problems last year, long story short my husband was cheating on me with an actual whore and when I mean who're I mean this nasty person cheated on her x-husband for the 17 years of Thier marriage she found my husband and found him to ...

Why do abusive men cheat?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

7 November 2013 (F) - I just got out of an abusive relationship. Not only was he physically and verbally abusive but now I found out that he had been cheating on me our entire relationship. He always had accused me of cheating and now I know why because he was the one ...

Unsure if he is "The One"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

6 November 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for two years, living with him for one. 95% of the time it is perfect and he is a great guy but I go through phases where I feel maybe he's not 'the one'. I feel like he takes me for granted, rarely wants to make lov...

Husband had an affair and then tells me "I chose you". What does that mean?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

5 November 2013 (F) - Hello, To the ladies out there, if a man had an "affair" and you only finds out about a couple of years later, and he says to you, "I chose you, didn't I?" How would you perceive that? To the men, what exactly do you mean by uttering those w...

How can I remain strong once my lying cheating ex begins his apologetic stage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

3 November 2013 (F) - Hello and thanks I just broke up with my bf yesterday and I'm feeling saddened that it had to come to this. We were together on and off for 3 yrs. We had issues yrs ago when I caught him cheating with two different women online one woman was hi...

Should you reveal what you did in the past?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

2 November 2013 (F) - What does everyone think about revealing a shameful episode of cheating on a previous partner to a future partner? If cheating took place in a long , supposedly committed relationship, and went on for a few months then is this something that n...

My friends girlfriend is cheating on him... Do I tell him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

1 November 2013 (M) - This is a bit of a strange one. And to some it might sound bad on my part. I want to try to set the scene so everyone has a better understanding. A few years ago my next door neighbour moved in with his girlfriend. We both stay in semi detach...

My gf has a friend, and apparently they like each other. How should I react?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

1 November 2013 (M) - my gf and I are in a long distance relationship for a year and a half now. We love each other and so far we have been very happy together. she met a guy in university who has been talking to her and messaging her on fb. he has been asking her to h...