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Archived questions from: February, 2005 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Can I trust him not to cheat again next time we argue?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

28 February 2005 (?) - Hello, I had been seeing my boyfriend for 2 years. He has cheated on me twice. Once when we very first started seeing each other with his ex, and last weekend with some girl he didn't even know and can't remember what she looked like. We had, h...

Can we fix the relationship after I cheated on her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

22 February 2005 (?) - Dear cupid I recently cheated on my girlfriend of four years! For a while she went through a state of depression. She had been cheated on in every relationship before me, and i was supposed to be diffrent! I dated the girl I cheated on her wi...

If we don't have sex, is it still an "affair"? He says No.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7208 days ago

21 February 2005 (?) - As a married woman i "fell" into an affair almost 2 yrs ago, although we have never had sexual intercourse, we have done most other things, he seems to think that if we dont have intercourse we arent actually having an affair and are doing nothing ...

He thought I knew about his longtime girlfriend. Can I get him as mine, alone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7211 days ago

21 February 2005 (?) - I went out with now my ex-boyfriend for 3 years before we both moved to different countries and then communication broke down. Now we live in the same country but he is living with his new girlfriend, I am single. He comes around to see me and we m...

We broke up after I slept with someone else, but I want him back, badly!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7211 days ago

20 February 2005 (?) - i have been in a relationship for three years, recently we broke up, due to me sleeping with somebody else. However, i do truly love this person with all my heart. It has been six weeks since we have broken up, and i want to get back with him...

He doesn't work & he's in a relationship, but I think I love him anyway

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7065 days ago

20 February 2005 (?) - Hi I am in love with a guy who is in a relationship. I am married myself, but we have been talking of breaking up. I have been married for 22 years now and he has been in a relationship for 3 years. They are living together, He has problems with an...

He broke up with me, now goes out with my best friend...and they both want to be my friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7139 days ago

19 February 2005 (?) - My boyfriend and I split up last week, and now he is with one of my best friends! None of my friends think this is wrong and cannot see it from my point of view! I cannot understand why my own friend would want to hurt me like this. They didnt ev...

She didn't waste time finding another guy. Do I forgive her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7214 days ago

18 February 2005 (?) - Hi. I've been with my gf for 2 years now and we broke up a few weeks ago, but on valentines day we decided that we both love each other and were going back out. Since then I found that day we broke up she went out with another boy. They broke up the ...

He calls me names & he's had an affair because I'm "irritating"...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7213 days ago

17 February 2005 (?) - Please could you tell me if im the cause of my marriage problems? The situation is I'm 25 and this is my first marriage and my husband's 2nd. We have 2 children, a 3yr old and a 13 month old. I do everything that a housewife does and I also work. My...

We have a chemistry together, but he says he doesn't want a relationship right now

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7217 days ago

16 February 2005 (?) - My boyfriend has left me after nearly 3 years. I love him more than anything in the world, and after talking to him he's madly in love with me too... he just can't be with me! I don't really understand this. He says he just can't cope with a r...

He cheats and cheats, and lies and cheats... but I still love him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7214 days ago

15 February 2005 (?) - I have been with my current partner for 6 years. The mother of his daughter does not know we are together but he has separated from her. After 2years of being together he cheated on me for 9months. When I found out he promised to put things r...

Lunch with a client turned into a temptation...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7205 days ago

15 February 2005 (?) - I am in a relationship of 20 months. He helped me through my tough divorce. I now live on my own and we see each other a lot at weekends and make contact in the week. I like living alone and would not want us to live together. Where i work a...

As soon as we slept together, he said I was "too close" & dumped me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7219 days ago

14 February 2005 (?) - When I started working in my job about 4 years ago, there was a guy who tried it on with me, as I'm married and I hardly knew him I brushed it off,but then he became really nasty towards me. This carried on for about a year, I didn't know why as I ...

He tells me that he "can't really say" where we're headed. Is it just sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7220 days ago

13 February 2005 (?) - I have been in a relationship with a man for a little over 2 years now. We work in the same place and he would write me notes, things that made me feel good about myself. At that time I was still married. I have since divorced. My divorce was not ...

Slept with his best mate! Now I think I should tell him. How?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7222 days ago

10 February 2005 (?) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for a few years now, and I did the worst thing in the world! I slept with his best mate and now I want to tell him before his mate does. But I don't knoq how to say it. I dont even like his mate. I'm so cunfused ...

I took him back, even after his affair with my sister

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7223 days ago

9 February 2005 (?) - My Husband Has Been Having an Affair With My Sister I have been with my partner for almost 7 years, but we have only been married for 18 months. Everything before we got married was rosy. We have been extremely happy and almost never quarrel ab...

I love my wife...but feel so tempted by another woman

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7224 days ago

8 February 2005 (?) - Here's the story, I'm a 21-year-old married university student. I have been married to my wife on 25th Dec 2003, she is 29 and let's call her Joyce, with whom I am now resided. I love her so dearly that I would do anything for her. But I met this ...

Her attraction to women I can understand... but now, it's other men, too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7224 days ago

8 February 2005 (?) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 2 years now. I always knew she liked women on some level, and I was happy for her to explore that side of her sexuality. Then one day I learned she had intercourse with a girl-friend of mine, she ...

Got drunk, slept with a guy, then told my bf and lost him for good!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7224 days ago

8 February 2005 (?) - I was with my boyfriend for nearly two years. Just towards the end of our relationship, things started to go wrong. It didn't seem like he wanted to be with me, wouldn't let me sleep at his house, we were arguing etc and he decided to move back to ...

In love with my fiance's best friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7197 days ago

8 February 2005 (?) - I'm 20 years old and engaged. Trouble is, I'm in love with someone else: my partner's best friend! I have been with my b/f for 2 & a half years. I started talking to his friend a few months ago. We were just texting at first then we met up a couple...

Texting his ex...are they getting back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6258 days ago

8 February 2005 (?) - Im really confused! My boyfriend of nine months has been secretly texting his ex, who is pregnant by another man. He went out with her 2 years ago for 3 months and they never did anything. He asked her things like what is she doing that night and ...

He says there's nothing between him & his wife. But does he love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7225 days ago

7 February 2005 (?) - i am in love with a great guy. we had great times together as a friend, lover, work mate, everything. until he moved overseas. he is married, no kids. we have been in touch constantly. luvmaking between us has been amazing. he was the first ma...

If he's told little lies in the past, could he be telling me a big one now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7225 days ago

7 February 2005 (?) - I've been seeing a guy for 4months now, all great, never been happier and all that. he has told a few white lies along the line but nothing major. we work in same building, same floor, different department. there was a work do the other week f...

Can't help thinking they're more than "friends"...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7201 days ago

7 February 2005 (?) - I have been with my bf for 5 years, we have a 2 yr old son together and everything seemed so right. For the past 6 mths hes been distant. Almost like he doesnt care anymore. He works all the time, doesnt seem to mind being away from me. I just rec...

Things are going downhill. Should I leave him to his wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7226 days ago

7 February 2005 (?) - i am living in a long distance relatonship for almost 4 years now. my partner is married. we have kept in touch constantly, emails,phone,letters etc etc. but i feel its not the same any more. he shouts most of the time i call to say hi. there is...

I cheated with a younger man, now I feel awful. How do I get the spark back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

6 February 2005 (?) - i live with my partner of 4 years. 6 months ago we bought our own place but we had lived together for around 3 years before this. my feelings seemed to have changed, he is the most wonderful, caring and supportive man but i feel that there is no...

My girlfriend is not nice to my lower-class friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7227 days ago

6 February 2005 (?) - dear aunt, i am a 22 year old bloke in a one year long relationship. the problem is that my girlfriend is from an upper class family background and she tends not to really associate with people of lower societal status. the problem is i don...

I thought I was the only one, but he has kids, a wife...and other women, too!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6902 days ago

6 February 2005 (?) - I dont really know where to begin as all the pain i am going thru is unbearable. i have been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years and they have the been the best 2 years of my life. everything i've ever wanted has been with my boyfrien...

His girlfriend is pregnant, but he says he wants me. What now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7176 days ago

5 February 2005 (?) - Where I used to work there was a bloke in another department, straight away we clicked and there was a lot of sexually chemistry between us. It was obvious that we fancied each other, texted each other all the time. We joined the gym together...

I can't stop thinking about the bloke at work... Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7195 days ago

5 February 2005 (?) - I've got a boyfriend at the moment and I love him a lot, but I've got feeling for some one else. It's a bloke I work with. I met him 3 yrs ago and I had an affair with him. when I got pregnant by my husband I stopped seeing the bloke at work. F...

Cheating boyfriend is so sweet I keep forgiving him... even after a move on my friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7228 days ago

4 February 2005 (?) - I'm in love with my boyfriend but he's been cheating on me. Anytime he does he always comes back to ask for forgiveness and i always take him back. we made up after a break up and i left for a vacation. now he's making a move on my close friend and ...

We're cheating on our partners and I love him, but we've been sprung!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7224 days ago

4 February 2005 (?) - Well about three and a half years ago I moved to my new home with my boyfriend where I met the local caretaker in which I took a liking to but didn't pursue with anything or do anything about it until about a year ago when we started seeing each ...

I am obsessed by a guy... Not sure my drunken husband would be impressed!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7229 days ago

3 February 2005 (?) - When I first saw this guy I felt instant attraction, and since then it has not gone away it has become much stronger! To the point I almost feel obsessed, no matter what I try and do I cannot get him out of my head! The problem is I met this guy at ...

We had a wonderful relationship... Until I found his cheating emails

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7214 days ago

3 February 2005 (?) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, we had such a wonderful relationship, fullfilled it in every way apart from not completly trusting him, just little things made me parinoid and i was constantly on the look out for signals. i found evidence ...

Got drunk and cheated on my boyfriend I care about -- but hardly see...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6990 days ago

2 February 2005 (?) - Hi there. I need some advice. I have been going out with my boyfriend for four months now. I have really fallen for him but the problem is that I hardly ever see him because he is very busy with work etc... I put up with it because I really...

Help... Am I being treated like a doormat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7229 days ago

2 February 2005 (?) - I find myself in a very confusing situation and I'm not sure I can trust my feelings anymore. I'm a 27yo guy who had been dating a 22 yo lady for about two years. She left for four months to study overseas and came back home for a weekend to break ...

How can I stay friends with lesbian couple when I am sleeping with one of them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

2 February 2005 (?) - I'm a 24-year-old lesbian. I've been out on my own for ten years, and so I often find myself associating with much older people. I have been friends with this lesbian couple about four years now. Last January, I went overseas with one of the ...

Is it wrong for her to have male friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7212 days ago

1 February 2005 (?) - My girlfriend and I are quite close although have only been together for a few months or so. She is very attractive and gets lots of attention. She has a male friend called James, who she has known for a while, who used to fancy her,(Im not sure if ...