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writes: i am living in a long distance relatonship for almost 4 years now. my partner is married. we have kept in touch constantly, emails,phone,letters etc etc. but i feel its not the same any more. he shouts most of the time i call to say hi. there is always an excuse that he is in a meeting or busy. he is very ambitious though. there are times i find it hard to believe that he doesnt sleep with his wife. he told her abt me. And they fight most of the time. i love him. i want to be with him but each day he spends with her, tortures me mentally.he says he understands but i dont think he does anything abt it.i am confused as to what to do. we promised before we parted that we will be together some day but im afraid he doesnt try hard. or should i just move on becos he is married?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2005): HIYes, you should move on, you deserve to be with someone who wants to be with you and only you. If after 4 years this man hasn't left his wife then he isn't going to. You are wasting your time. How do you know that he has told his wife about you? I bet she knows nothing about you. You call him your partner, but he isn't really, he is someone else's partner. Do you really want to be with someone who can so easily cheat on his wife? If he can cheat on her, how long before he would cheat on you?Do yourself a favour, get some self respect and find your own man.
A reader, Kiv, writes (7 February 2005): Yes. Let it go. Move on.There is no happiness in either of your futures here. Only Regret.Sorry to sound so negative, but seriously . . .
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2005): Leave him to his wife, even if you do end up together he may do the same thing to you as he is doing to his wife. Karma what goes around comes around. Find a man who is not comitted, believe it or not good guys do exists.
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