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writes: I dont really know where to begin as all the pain i am going thru is unbearable. i have been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years and they have the been the best 2 years of my life. everything i've ever wanted has been with my boyfriend. it's hard to explain just how good it really has been. right from the start i found out that he was married and has children. he did not tell me, i found out! and small peices of evidence i had found had led me to believe that something else was going on. i confronted him but he denied the lot. i pretended to trust him but deep down i was constantly on edge pushing these feelings aside, until a few weeks ago i found emails to and from various women and his ex wife and some were of a sexual behaviour. when all the time he's told me how much they hate one another. he never talked openly about her, it was always me asking the questions, as always. now the situation is that i'm trying to understand why hes done all this to me for the last 2 years! hes not only destroyed my trust but it has broken my parents' trust in him too. he says he doesn't know why he's done all this, that's all keeps saying, if he knew the answers he would tell me. but there is a reason for everything.... advertising yourself on the net, arranging to meet these women (he says he never did meet them in the end) telling his ex wife sexual things!! why?? he's saying now that he's prepared to do anything to prove to me that this will not continue, oh my god how on earth am i sposed to get thru this. i love him sooo very dearly and have mentioned about going to see a counsellor to find out why he's done all this. half of me wants him to tell me that he doesn't love me anymore and then i'd be free to walk away. ive emailed these women and no response in which im not surprised. please please please help me as i feel soo alone and confused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2005): As i read your problem i had found out that you are a lovable person ready to sacrifice for your love, but sometimes sacrificing is blind. Sometimes sacrificing is not good enough when people you love fools you, it is time to leave that kind of person even if you love him, you deserve someone who is mostly like you. Don't sacrifice too much...
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