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writes: I find myself in a very confusing situation and I'm not sure I can trust my feelings anymore. I'm a 27yo guy who had been dating a 22 yo lady for about two years. She left for four months to study overseas and came back home for a weekend to break it off. Naturally, I'm majorly in love with this girl. So I find myself in complete weakness around her.What she did not tell me was that there was another guy. After coming home and having many heart to hearts on the subject, she's been acting very romantic towards me. We've had our "moments" together. She had told me that she had broke it off with the other guy and that she loves me. While this has been slowly happening she's still been in contact with the other guy. She then drops the bombshell that this guy is coming to visit and stay for two weeks. We naturally wouldn't be able to see each other during that time since he's staying with her. We have talked on the phone and email. She has told me how stressed she is with him and having a misable time while missing me.Now, I'm not sure what to believe. I do love her, but I'm not sure I trust her. Why is this guy here? Basically, am I getting played. Am I being treated like a doormat? I just don't know what to do. I'm so clouded by love, because I miss being with her. But, is this unhealthy and something to worry about? Please help...please Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2005): Sweety, sorry to break it to you, but you're being used plain and simple. If it were true there was nothing between them and you came first, he would not have been allowed to come, or at least he'd have to meet you. I mean, from her standpoint, she has you who's totally devoted and this other man. She's taking advantage of the situation because she can, plain and simple. I suggest to leave her, before you get hurt further.
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