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writes: i live with my partner of 4 years. 6 months ago we bought our own place but we had lived together for around 3 years before this.my feelings seemed to have changed, he is the most wonderful, caring and supportive man but i feel that there is no excitement, no lust or passionam 29 and he is 33. he was very into partying and slept around a lot before we got together-i have been in monogomous long term relationships. i wanted to get married around 6 months ago-but he said he doesn't want to and that the thought terrifies him altough he wants to have children next year...i would prefer to be married if i were to have children etc but now i am more scared he will ask me than not. mind you the chance of children woudl be incredible seeng as we have had sex twice in as many months..i cheated on him with a 19 year old i just met. he was so exciting and young and i now feel terrible. i was very drunk at the time and it wasnt planned. i dont know anything about this person apart from his name and occupation and there are no plans to see eaxh other again (i am dreading runnning into him again). i feel so guilty i cannot eat or sleep and i dont know what to do.
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (4 February 2010):
 There is a rule of life. Mistakes are meant for correction. Do not allow mistake, that lead your life permanently, because it will invite more and more mistakes, and at the end you will see life full of mistakes. So, be firm and decide and go ahead.
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reader, Sarita +, writes (28 December 2005):
 you can't undo the past, so you better forget it, and move on with your life. enjoy the wonderful man you have and just don't think about it anymore. good luck!
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