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Archived questions from: March, 2017 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

I slept with my business partner. Have I lost him as a friend? now he does not even reply to texts

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2785 days ago

31 March 2017 (F) - I made the stupidest mistake in getting reluctantly involved with a married man. We made love and after sex after that fatal night he stopped talking to me then he said he was just wanted to be friends. I was okay with that being business p...

An old Uncle muses

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30 March 2017 (M) - My style of posting has been going through some changes and I thought I should share what's going on and why these changes. I'm rapidly moving into empty nest. I have 2 Daughters still living at home and they are both looking for their on place. ...

Her parents insist we don't talk for 5 years! They disapprove of our relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2785 days ago

30 March 2017 (F) - I had been in in relationship with my girlfriend for 7 months. She's 18 and I'm 17.We just so in love with each other. We chatted all day, we share our everyday life ,topics and stories. We greet each other good morning and first thing in the ...

We still see each other and its just like before, but without the romance. Is there any hope for us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2786 days ago

30 March 2017 (F) - Hi everyone, I've never written on here before but I kind of have ran out of options. A little over two months ago, I was placed in an art class at my high school. I noticed a guy in the class who I had never seen before in school, he was very att...

Is he a commitment-phobe? Is there still a chance?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2773 days ago

29 March 2017 (F) - Hello! I'm a 39 yr old female who was dating a 38year old male. We dated for four and a half months and he broke up with me almost a week ago. I was on the verge of suggesting we take a break but he beat me to the punch. Sex was enjoyable ex...

Should I tell her that on our break I paid for sex?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2786 days ago

28 March 2017 (M) - Hi, my and my gf of 5 years have sort of had a bit of distance come between us, on my end mainly. She was always so insecure and sort of clingy and although I loved her it chipped away at me and I felt I needed space. We took space and things were ...

Was I being used, by her ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2672 days ago

28 March 2017 (M) - I was dating a girl for 5 weeks – I felt there was something special there and every time we met there was always at least one point where we both laughed so hard we were crying. We even had cute pet names for each other (I called her peach). ...

I stayed through fear, now worried my life is over and his is just beginning again

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2672 days ago

27 March 2017 (F) - Ok I need some help to deal with something that I know is really silly so I need some support here please . I've been with my husband and father of my children for twenty years . Over the course of our marriage he has had a problem with pirn and ...

I'm dating someone new but don't think I'm over my ex. Should I let the new guy go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2782 days ago

26 March 2017 (F) - I am 28, In November I was dumped through whatsapp by my ex who I was madly in love with I was only with him for 4 months but I felt so much love for him after one month I got pregnant and had a n abortion and it totally messed me up as o didn't ...

I broke up with boyfriend, then changed my mind and now he isn't responding!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2786 days ago

26 March 2017 (F) - I broke up with my bf 2 days ago, we had fought very miserably. He was pleading until last night to patch up. However, I decided to save the relationship, but today he didn't call up or text even once. I called him and left him a message that "I ...

Going silent on me after I asked him how he felt about me by telling me he would talk to me when he is ready.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2796 days ago

26 March 2017 (F) - Hi. I don't know what to make of my bf's behavior. I asked him a week and a half ago ago who he felt about me, because we are in a long distance relationship and do not get to see one another very often. I don't know how he feels about me, th...

Please confirm my doubts

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2787 days ago

24 March 2017 (F) - I've been with my bf for 2.5yrs (living with him 1.7yrs).I've noticed that on his Facebook, he has lots of females "friends" (as he calls). I haven't used FB and had shut it down years ago as I prefer Linkedin. His account has been open to me but ...

I'm over his drama! How do I end this relationship for good?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2787 days ago

24 March 2017 (F) - Sorry for this long post in advance. I just left my super obsessive and manipulative boyfriend of two years. Towards the end of our relationship, he started doubting me for talking to a particular old friend of mine. I had no feelings whatsoever for ...

Should I be waiting on this guy? He acts like we are a couple but we are not!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2787 days ago

24 March 2017 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for longer than a month and we have both admitted that we like each other lot, but here is the catch: We live in different states. We have talked about going to see each other, meeting up but we both don't have the ...

Did he ever love me? Was there any other girl in the picture? Or was I right and he really is a narcissist?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2787 days ago

23 March 2017 (F) - I was dating a guy for a year...he fell in love with me but i didn't feel the same. It's only now since our argument and split that i realise how much i care about him but now he wants nothing to do with me. We had one serious argument in the ...

Is it really worth it to file for child support? I got pregnant 3 months into dating him, then he disappeared

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2787 days ago

22 March 2017 (F) - The baby's father isn't in the picture. I have tried to reach out to him during this pregnancy, but nothing. I kind of am considering to file for child support, since I'm living with my mom and don't make as much at the moment. The only thi...

We broke up. I know I still care for him. should I talk to him about my feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2791 days ago

20 March 2017 (F) - I was in a long term relationship with this guy for almost two years and we just kept bickering, small petty arguments and I'm not afraid to stand up for myself. It turned out he was messaging one of my friends and it turned out she wasn't very nic...

Should I admit I messed up and try one last time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2792 days ago

19 March 2017 (F) - My ex and I were dating on and off for the good part of a year. There was a period where I was speaking to him as well as another guy and chose to be in a relationship with the other guy for three months – this really hurt him. Months later, we ...

Is my hubby just starting his mid-life crisis?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

19 March 2017 (F) - Dear aunts and Uncles, is my hubby just starting his mid-life crisis? He was always athletic and eat well so I can't say that all of a sudden he changed his life style, but he seems more interested in these areas. He picked up a new hob...

I want to be her friend and be there for her, but I don't want to be a problem for her and her new boyfriend if she still has any feelings. Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2794 days ago

17 March 2017 (M) - Dear friends This may take some time to explain, so thanks in advance. I broke up with my ex-girlfriend last august, but i had wanted to end the relationship since the previous february. In total we were together for about 1 year and 3 ...

Can a true relationship be achieved without the affection and the touchy part?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2794 days ago

17 March 2017 (F) - our sex life has slowly deteriorated. He blames it on my weight gain but many people including male friends and family have advised me that the weight is not the problem. He won't see a doctor cause he blames it on me, however he is 11 years olde...

Should stay or leave our relationship? I think we have different goals and different attitudes to handling our money.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2794 days ago

17 March 2017 (F) - Dear cupid, I don't know if I should stay or leave my relationship... myself (almost 24) and partner (almost 23) have been together two and a half years and I feel like we are going no where at the moment... We have been living with each other...

I said "I love you" but he's not at that point and now I'm hurt/confused and wondering if I should break things off

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2794 days ago

16 March 2017 (F) - About two weeks ago, I found myself (regrettably) drunk after a super fun night out with a group of friends and my boyfriend, who I have been seeing for nearly 6 moths. The BF very sweetly took care of getting me to my house, getting me into my ...

Am I justified to break up with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2794 days ago

15 March 2017 (F) - I'm going through a mixed phase right now with my bf. Recently, I've been reflecting on our relationship for the past 5 years, and I'm wondering whether I should just move on because I just don't feel happy anymore. We have been dating for 5 yea...

Why can't I quit him? Heart says yes and mind says no?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2794 days ago

15 March 2017 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for a good month now and we were getting pretty flirty and didn't think about the future. He had to move back to his family in another state for work and he told me he couldn't do LDR, even though he likes me a lot, ...

How can I stop caring what he thinks of me? Is there anyway I can repair my image in his eyes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2807 days ago

14 March 2017 (F) - I'm 23 and my whole life, I've been cautious of who I get intimate with. I had always wanted to be intimate with a boyfriend if I ever had sex and I don't get into relationships for the sake of being in a relationship. It's not often that I get a ...

I think my best friend is trying to be me. I cannot handle her behaviour any more. What can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2799 days ago

13 March 2017 (F) - I'm on a very difficult situation lately. I've known my best friend for 7 years and we've been through ups and downs but this time, I had enough. A few days ago, I was thinking about my friendship with my (best friend) and I've realized that I'v...

What do you think about guys who body shame women?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2799 days ago

13 March 2017 (F) - I recently broke up with my boyfriend. He was the type to cancel on a date on me and get angry for small things or worse, make the topics that don't concern him, his own problems. He never wanted to take me out. After breaking up with him...

Is this normal? I have never been so happy about ending a relationship.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2800 days ago

12 March 2017 (F) - Hello. I have a very short question for those who have enough knowledge about star signs(if you don't you may google info). Short story: I am a capricorn female (21) my boyfriend (now ex) is a Pisces (23). Our relationship was full of drama bu...

My ex refuses to acknowledge that porn played a part in our breakup

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2806 days ago

11 March 2017 (F) - Hi there, I recently had suspicions that my partner of 8 years may be suffering porn related ed. he was being secretive, defensive and only capable of having sex when he could act out his fantasies(which he didn't share with me). No intimacy...

Should you remain friends after a break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2806 days ago

11 March 2017 (F) - Hi .If you just broke up with lover who is also your best friend and he wants you both to remain best friends what should you do?Is it harmful for u both to be best friends?or can you both stay away for a while and then later be best friends again...

What are my options to protect my privacy? Do nothing? Or contact the company and flag my concerns?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2811 days ago

9 March 2017 (F) - A year ago I split with my ex partner leaving behind an abusive relationship where my ex had been given a suspended sentence for assaulting me. I've moved on with my life and am a lot happier. This week though I discovered that my ex has a new ...

Why do I feel like I lost out after the break up with my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2813 days ago

9 March 2017 (F) - So its been probably a month post break up. My ex and I were in a long distance relationship. I really love my ex and care for him immensely, despite the fact that he is directionless, has no goals/ambition, very lazy in everything and he was/is ...

He said we should just let things go. What did I do wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2806 days ago

9 March 2017 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for 4 months now and everything has been going on just fine , we never really labelled what we were but he made sure that we hang out a lot and talk a lot. We met on tinder and at first I used to cancel until we actually...

My Long Term girlfriend has just been diagnosed with Herpes. Should I bail?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2811 days ago

8 March 2017 (M) - The question i'm posing is whether or not i should leave my girlfriend of almost 5 years. I know that herpes can lay dormant for a long period of time, and i know there is a POSSIBILITY that either of us could have had herpes with no symptoms for ...

He's looking to stray.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2807 days ago

6 March 2017 (F) - Hi I've been with my fiance 3 years but this past few months I feel like he's getting bored of our relationship. we have a one year old daughter together and i have a older daughter from a previous relationship. last weekend I caught him browsing...

I just want to know if this is all due to him being bipolar or if I really am just stupid enough to not see that he was just using me all along.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2816 days ago

5 March 2017 (F) - My boyfriend (now ex) is bipolar. I have been with him for more then a year now and I do love him, but also know it's past time to throw in the towel. So I just want to make it clear that this is not a question of if I should get back with him. I ...

Do I gave up on her or give her a chance? She visited her ex and relegated me to the friend zone.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2781 days ago

5 March 2017 (M) - First of all, sorry for my english, I am not a native speaker. So I was seeing this girl for some months (september to december) and we had such a great time together. It never got into a serious relationship. Probably I was not ready for that, ...

I missed the boat and it's breaking my heart. I wanted to be a wife and a mother. Will I ever get over this?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2808 days ago

4 March 2017 (F) - I don't see how I can ever be happy. I LONG to be a wife and mom. I want it so badly that it breaks my heart. Realistically, I know that it can never happen because everyone knows that men aren't attracted to a woman who is over thirty. I'm i...

Any words of advice on how I can negotiate to achieve more respectful better relationships in the future?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2811 days ago

4 March 2017 (F) - Sometimes I feel like I should just tell a man from the very beginning: "I am looking for a purely physical relationship, the kind that begins and ends in your bed, and I don't meet your friends, and we don't share our lives with each other. Or...

This is my first breakup and I'm scared and sad! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2817 days ago

4 March 2017 (F) - I broke up with boyfriend last night. I don't think he took it seriously though. I have been thinking about breaking up for awhile, but I was afraid or scared and when I knew in my heart we are not meant for each other I would think about the good ...

Am I wasting my time hoping something will eventuate between us? So far he's ignored my texts, shouted at me, and told me it will not work between us

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2808 days ago

4 March 2017 (F) - I met a guy 6 years ago he was going through a divorce and I a separation. After couple conversation we had words and he said that we will not add up. Sometimes I would message him and he would ignore my messages. I recently moved and last ...

Did I lose my chance with this guy because we met on T

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2808 days ago

3 March 2017 (F) - I am a fun, bubbly, warm, funny, kind/caring, and positive young woman. I know it sounds silly to say, but I made a Tinder earlier in the year thinking that people used it to find relationships and stupidly, I found out most used it for hookups. ...

Does his behavior indicate that he's an emotional abuser? Should I breakup with him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2809 days ago

2 March 2017 (F) - 1-) In life, we should have certain words filtered, my boyfriend does not seem to have one. I am upset because, he has this tendency of referring to woman as bi***es, ”oh tha b*tch does this or that, in a very despotic way, he does not say this all ...

I hacked into his email and discovered he'd applied for another flat! What do I do next?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2787 days ago

1 March 2017 (F) - Hi! Me and my boyfriend have been dating for over two years now. Two months ago we moved together in a new city. Two weeks ago I did something horrible, something I can never forgive myself. I hacked, literally hacked into his email account. ...