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writes: Hello. I have a very short question for those who have enough knowledge about star signs(if you don't you may google info). Short story: I am a capricorn female (21) my boyfriend (now ex) is a Pisces (23). Our relationship was full of drama but also relaxing when the drama was over. We enjoyed each other's company, supported each other's dreams and are both ambitious. We only had arguments over the phone and never when we were face to face. The sex was very good too plus he is the only guy I ever slept with. I love him. We couldnt stand eachother when the arguments became too personal for him. He would take small issues like when i asked him to call me more instead of always buzzing my phone. He took it too personal and brought in his financial problems that i knew nothing about. He never forgave me after that but we met face to face spoke about the issue and he said he will change. Lately he has been postponing our date on the same day of going out always keeping me waiting only to find that he changed his mind or is not "interested" to go out that day. I saw a pattern of lies, unreliability, untrustworthy and lazy behaviour in him so i broke up with him last night. I feel more releaved after that as if my problems are over. I mean we broke up at least three times before it was not the same as now. Now i am completely at peace with letting him go. He said he wanted to be friends after breakup (we were friends years before dating) I said No we are not friends then blocked him. Question: Is this normal? I have never been so happy about ending a relationship. It seems like there are other girls he is communicating with which form part of his excuses because really his ways of leading us to an argument or changing plans suddenly without alerting me were not making sense and confusing me. We have been together for ten months now. He said he still loves me but i just didnt care even when he said he was sorry it meant nothing to me i have had so much of that from him.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (22 March 2017):
 You are happy because he was not giving you what you needed from a relationship. You both grew apart, it happens.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2017): Yeah that's a Capricorn... always wanting or having the last word; No we are not friends. Then block him from having the last word.
Try saying good-bye over the phone to a Goat and you'll be there for infinity cause the last word has to come from their mouth!
Pisces on the other hand can be a bit of a dreamer and fall into the lazy category pending on which direction they are of the 2 fish. One goes up stream the other fish down stream, so Capricorn can give Pisces a nudge in the right direct to support Pisces dreams into reality. Yet there's no denying they're WOW between the sheets, and sensitive.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2017): Of course it's ok to be happy that a relationship has ended!In fact, somtimes, it's only when something has finally come to end do we really understand what problems it caused. The relief is amazing!
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reader, Garbo  +, writes (12 March 2017):
 It is normal. It happened to me with my first GF. I was regretting the fact that I have ever met her. Finally when she stopped calling me I felt relief as though my life has come to be normal. So enjoy your feeling ... and astrology most likely has nothing to do with it.
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reader, N91  +, writes (12 March 2017):
 Where do star signs come into it? Not that it matters as they're completely made up.
Why wouldn't you feel relieved? He was messing you around and now you're free from it, be glad you feel this way, make the most of it and be happy whilst moving forwards.
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reader, RubyBirtle +, writes (12 March 2017):
Is it normal to feel happy/relieved at the end of a relationship?
Well, I've certainly flt relieved in the past and I'm sure lots of other people have felt the same.
Perhaps some of what you're feeling is a sense of empowerment. You've stood up for yourself and said "Enough! Stop!" to negative influences in your life. You've treated yourself as a person worthy of respect and that can feel GREAT. You've boosted your self-esteem.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (12 March 2017):
 Horoscopes can be fun and interesting to read, but that's it. There's no actual basis behind them. They are written by people as "entertainment", not fact.
There are only 12 zodiac signs and there are over 7 billion people - that means 583,333,333 people would be almost exactly the same. Horoscopes are not serious and are useless in life, other than for fun.
As for your relationship, be happy to leave; that's okay. Let go, be happy and move on. It's not bad to be relieved.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (12 March 2017):
 I have to ask myself why this is important to you.
If you feel good about ending the relationship then feel good. You don't need permission or endorsement from anyone.
I can understand that perhaps they is an element of catharsis about writing in. Could that be it?
I also think the astrology element isn't a valid basis on which to begin or end a relationship. As a famous psychiatrist said: 'I don't believe in horoscopes but always read them'. If you start organising your life around the stars then you are going to complicate it in a detrimental way.
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