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Archived questions from: June, 2015 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

How can I resolve this problem? My trust in him has gone as I have a suspicion that my husband may have taken nude pictures of me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3422 days ago

30 June 2015 (F) - In the past my husband has snapped pictures of me in the shower and changing. I told him to delete the pictures each time. I have told him he can't take nude pictures of me without my consent. This all started after we got married. Recently...

Am I nitpicking or are these various issues, such as her very bad breath, deal breakers in our relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3461 days ago

30 June 2015 (M) - Hiya Agony Aunts. There are a few things that nag at me about this girl I just started dating, and I'm not sure why. As y'all are likely older and more experienced than I am, I'd like your perspective. We started dating about 3 or 4 week...

Is there a chance that I can convince my ex Bf that I've changed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3461 days ago

30 June 2015 (F) - My ex boyfriend broke up with me just under 2 years ago. I had liked him for a year before we went out and when we finally got together i was the happiest person around. Around 7 months after the very awkward breakup, we started talking again ju...

Was this breakup just a rash decision? Might he change his mind about breaking up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3462 days ago

30 June 2015 (F) - Last night my boyfriend of 4 years and I had an argument and he broke up with me. Then he texted and said he loves me, etc. But i haven't heard from him today. We have a great relationship 95% of them time and when we argue he sometimes makes rash...

Should I quit my job...and look elsewhere for a relationship with a girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3462 days ago

30 June 2015 (M) - Well this may sound pathetic and funny but after breaking up with my last girlfriend 4 years ago...its been very hard for me to find love... It sounds cheazy when a guy says it ...but i really do feel that i need help. I was nt that bad with gi...

Should I wait for the "one"??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3462 days ago

30 June 2015 (F) - Hey aunts I want and need advice. A little background about me, I'm soon to be a 24 year old college student who works like crazy. Who's nice,funny and loves to shop. I got my 1st real boyfriend a couple months ago and wow is all I can say. He ...

How do I end things gently after 3 dates?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3463 days ago

29 June 2015 (M) - First date - coffee and dancing. Second date - drinks, dancing, and kissing. Third date - (impressive) dinner at her place, and couch make out session. How do I end things gently as soon as possible? I'm 32 and she's 33. While I had fun o...

Was it wrong that I wanted to share a dance with him? He's unhappy with me. My friends say I should leave him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3464 days ago

28 June 2015 (F) - Hi all, so lately my friends have been telling me I should leave my boyfriend.. We've been together for a year and a half.. So this is what happened. We graduated and we had a grad ball for us to celebrate and have a good time. So a day before ...

I know he's my ex. So should I be wanting to know all about his current life and what he's up to? How can I move on and not obsess like this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3464 days ago

27 June 2015 (F) - How do I stop being suspicious about what this girl is doing with my ex? My ex left me after a year, for another woman, 2 or 3 months back. It hurt me terrible and my ex stopped speaking to me over it. The thing is - I can't stop obsessing ove...

Things seemed fine, then he blocked me. Should I just continue on with my life, and if he ever returns then ''so be it''?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3463 days ago

27 June 2015 (F) - I've been talking to this guy and we really hit it off. We went on a few dates and immediately had a connection. He met my family and they liked him and we planned for me to meet his family next. As we got closer, we talked about more serious thi...

How do I take this slow enough for my co worker, but also let her know that I'm interested ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

26 June 2015 (M) - I very recently left my wife (less then a month ago). I realized I had feelings for a co worker. Since the breakup between my wife and I, my co-worker has admitted that she to has feeling for me but she is afraid of a relationship. She is only 20...

How could he go from being the (I thought) love of my life to marrying another girl five months after we broke up and leave me when I was feeling vulnerable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3463 days ago

26 June 2015 (?) - Hi, I went through a terrible breakup in December. We were in a long distance relationship for 4.5 years at the time of breakup. Last year while I was finishing my masters I got placed at the first company that visited our campus (Top company in ...

Should I still go on seeing this man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3464 days ago

25 June 2015 (F) - I am recently widowed and have bumped into a man I met about 30 years ago who is also single and an OAP like me. The problem is I do not trust him, we have been going out together for about 18 month now and we have become intimate. He likes ball...

He sent this woman sexual text messages but he said he did it because he thought it was a friend of mine I sent to play a trick

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

25 June 2015 (F) - Hello i am a 37 year old woman and i have been in a relationship with this 50 year old man for two years. We've gad some rocky times but overall its been nice, we love each other and we had plans to marry, but last night i was on the phone with him ...

She says she will not sleep with anyone while we are "actively working on our relationship" How am I supposed to trust her ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3467 days ago

25 June 2015 (M) - A little background on my marriage, we've been together for 10 years and married for almost 5 and we have an almost 6 year old son. Before this we had only ever been intimate with each other. Back in December my wife and I seperated. I was...

Advice on getting my lover back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

24 June 2015 (M) - Hey everyone, this is my very first post and I would like advice and tips on how to get a long term ex girlfriend back. My best-friend of 4 years, girlfriend of just over 2 broke up with me over a month ago and I would like to get back with he...

Am I right to feel a little scared about a man I had a brief fling with?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

24 June 2015 (F) - Am I right to feel a little scared about a man I had a brief fling with? The thing is - he was lovely to start with, in the beginning, but then we fell out and split up due to his continual flirting with other women on FB. I called him a pl...

Why would he discuss plans and say he loves me, yet soon after he blocked me?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - Why did he want something serious and then disappear and block me? I met this guy online. We hit it off and had an instant connection. After talking for a month, we met in person. He met my friends and hung out with us a few times. We connected an...

How could he throw in the towel and walk away like that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - My recent ex bf is 49 and I am 39..we have been together a total of 4 1/2 years with a 1 yr break in between because he thought the grass was greener.. After making him wait I took him back and we dated another 2 1/2 yrs. we broke up almost ...

He's now come to terms with the break up. Why do I feel I've made a mistake?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - In short, My boyfriend broke my trust by stepping over boundaries we agreed on. Even though we're long distance he told me anyway. He denied saying he cheated just that "he we across the line with another woman" even though we agreed before hand ...

He wants time apart after our years together. Does this suggest that he's already seeing someone else?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - Why would my boyfriend after 22 yrs tell me that we need time apart ? i feel he has been seeing someone else he always makes me feel like im nobody to him ...

How do I get my head around the fact that he's rejected me because I have a child?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3467 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - My ex and I were together for a year and we've been broken up for 4mos. He came back a month ago wanting a second chance but then changed his mind. He says that he doesn't want to be with me because I have a child. I'm trying my best not to cry w...

It's been two or three years since we broke up, so why am I just now having recurring dreams about my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3470 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - It's been 2 or 3 years after my ex dumped me. I don't remember exactly how long. I do sometimes think about him, but we stopped all contact 1 year ago. I haven't dated anyone after we broke up. I don't know why I dreamed about him a lot recently, ...

Has my girlfriend moved on? She doesn't return calls or texts

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

22 June 2015 (M) - Let me preface this by saying that she has gone into hibernation or "no contact" mode for days or a week or two before on several occasions, but this time around I have a feeling that she could have "moved on". We've been dating for many years b...

My friend says it's emotional blackmail. My mother says breakup with him. He's my first ''proper'' relationship. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3470 days ago

21 June 2015 (F) - So I've been in a relationship for 2 years, I just turned 17 and I have known him for goodness knows how long, we went to primary together and I know people say going out with you best friend never work but I genuinely thought we did, until the last ...

How do I choose new boundaries when in the process of breaking up with someone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

21 June 2015 (F) - I feel it may be time for me to break up with my boyfriend, even though I love him, because we're incompatible in finances and maturity. It hurts me to think of doing a cold cut from him, especially since he's my longest relationship. When you...

Why is this ex trying to turn friends against me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3470 days ago

21 June 2015 (F) - Why is an ex trying to turn my friends against me? I had a brief affair with a guy who was a bit of a player - chatting and flirting with women etc. I told him I didn't think I could be part of his life like it is and told one of my friends that ...

Why did my husband react so strongly to my remarks? Is there more going on that I'm not seeing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

20 June 2015 (F) - My husband and I went to his brothers house for a small family cookout, and of course they were drinking. That was not a problem. My problem was that he was in the corner with his nephew and his nephew girlfriend and they were talking about going to...

Should I break up with him entirely instead of waiting on him to fix his finances?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

20 June 2015 (F) - My bf and I have been together over 2 yrs. He's a good person but lacks maturity and impulse control in important areas, like finances. I He hid the condition of his finances til recently. He owes over $20k. He rationalizes his debt and overspe...

How can guys be so insincere? I was dating him for 2 months, but now I find he already has a Gf?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

19 June 2015 (F) - I was dating with this guy from work almost 2 months. He told me yesterday and the day before he likes me and misses me. Today I asked him where he was at last night. He said he was in his gf's crib and that he was horny. I said, ^^^k him and d...

How can we save our relationship? He's controlling, has a temper, takes me for granted and he's not the man I fell in love with

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

19 June 2015 (F) - Hey there, I hope this won't be too long but I'll give a little back-story. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years, and I used to be crazy about him. He was in the military for the first 3 years, then moved back home and found a job - it was our ...

How do I learn to love again after a 15 year toxic relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

19 June 2015 (F) - I am 36 and I am finally letting go of a toxic relationship, Im afraid it will not be easy but I'm leaning on others for support and reading a lot online that offers helpful suggestions He was an active alcoholic which made the relationship int...

I get that he doesn't want this relationship to end, but why is he ignoring me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

19 June 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up about a fortnight ago. Last weekend I ask if we could give each other our stuff back and he agreed saying he'd come over that weekend. He never came. He then called and text me twice through the week with how lonely and ...

Ex-wife has alienated my daughter, please help...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

16 June 2015 (M) - My ex-wife and I were separated for almost a year before she filed for divorce. I realize in hindsight that she was using the "threat" of divorce to make me see what I was going to lose in hopes that I would come crawling to her. However, I didn't ...

Wedding and friend issue: Am I justified in still feeling so angry and hurt? Why should I forgive and forget as she wants me to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3477 days ago

15 June 2015 (F) - Struggling to move on after best friend break up. At this point, I feel like my friendship with my BFF is basically over, or at the very least, has become a simple, yet strained acquaintance-ship. In a nutshell, bff and I have been bff's for 20...

Why do guys keep fading away from me so quickly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3476 days ago

15 June 2015 (?) - Hello, I am a single female struggling to navigate dating in this hookup age. I have tried online unsuccessfully and did not like the unnatural feeling of it. I'm also shy with men and struggled with that. I recently practiced talking to gu...

I know that I have to move on and find someone else but how do I deal with all of these feelings of guilt, regret and jealousy in the meantime?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3477 days ago

15 June 2015 (M) - Bit of a long and I'll admit quite a convoluted question here. A while back I told one of my friends that I liked her as more than a friend and she was super cool about it but she said that she didn't feel the same way. Anyway, we stayed friend...

Help me get a second chance!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3477 days ago

15 June 2015 (M) - My gf and I were together for over 6 years, and although we had our problems we were happy. I'm 2 years younger than her (29/31), so for that reason she was always asking me for more commitment. I asked her to move in but that wasn't enough ap...

Sometimes I just want to know how she is!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3475 days ago

14 June 2015 (M) - i feel like an idiot but sometimes i wish me and my ex still talk. its been years, dont think i want to get back together because i know i can find better but she was at the time my best friend. sometimes im cuirous at how she is doing like a friend ...

Has he really changed, should I give him a second chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3478 days ago

14 June 2015 (F) - For a year, I was in a relationship with someone who I loved, of course, but he didn't seem very dedicated. He never told his parents about us. He was never as eager as I was to talk or go out. We didn't see each other every day or even each week ...

I said hi to my ex and regret it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3477 days ago

14 June 2015 (F) - Am I stupid ? I dumped my bf 3 weeks ago! It was a short one of 4 months He was cheating on me and dating others, he was stingy, liar , opportunistic and so sensitive , always uses me , always he has no money But loved him (I hate my heart) ...

My husband doesn't want to move back home, are we headed towards a divorce?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3478 days ago

14 June 2015 (F) - My husband and I live apart and he does not plan to come back home. What is going on? Should we just get a divorce? It all started when my husband got out of the military and was in search of a job. His job took him overseas where he reside...

She's my ex and yet she's still being demanding? What should I do for the best?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3479 days ago

13 June 2015 (M) - Over a week ago I found my (ex) girlfriend on dating sites. It`s not the first time by a long way. Sometimes she lied about it, other times she blamed me for neglecting her, which I dispute and she would never explain why. In fact, it broke up...

How can I get over this? The girl I was one question away from proposing to is gone, and I don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3479 days ago

13 June 2015 (M) - My girlfriend of 3 years broke things off with me the other night and I am absolutely devastated and need help dealing with it. Let me start from the beginning. We met 3 years ago and I immediately fell head over heels for her. Her family didn'...

My Bf discovered I was flirting with guys on Tinder.So we broke up. How can I convince my now ex-Bf he is the only one for me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3365 days ago

11 June 2015 (F) - My long term bf has found out Ive been harmlessly flirting with guys on tinder without wanting to meet them. It was just harmless. We had a bust up over me going on dating sites and we were broken up for for a month. I never wanted anybody else...

How did we date for 2 years and not see that we weren't compatible?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3481 days ago

11 June 2015 (F) - We broke up tonight because we're not compatible. Our views on things we deem important are not the same, we keep arguing about them over and over again, and just cannot and would not come to a compromise. He says I should forget his wrong doings, ...

I foolishly let him go, realized my mistake but now he says the feelings he had are gone. I want him back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3481 days ago

10 June 2015 (F) - I desperately need help to get the love of my life back. About 3 years ago we started dating, just casually at first but it became something more. After about a year he wanted to set up home with me, see me constantly and just generally have mor...

Should I contact her and tell her that I know its her? Or just leave them to it? She's clearly playing some sort of game but should I rise to the bait?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

10 June 2015 (F) - Mod note: OP is 27, the account predates the requirement for age information. >Dont know where to start....such a mess....basically my ex finished with me 2 months ago after a 3 year relationship. I found out that he lied about stuff and we had been...

Should I Stay or Should I let her go ? Should I be stressing about some family issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

10 June 2015 (M) - Ive been seeing this girl for about almost 2 years now. It all started in school, you know first think she weird, then some how get her number and start texting and become friends lol Anyway this girl has been truly a blessing to me she keeps me ...

I need help coping with betrayal by my longterm partner, as I'm stuck living with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

10 June 2015 (F) - I am looking for some advice... I am a 29 year old female, I've been with the same person long term for years now, having lived together with eachother for the past almost three years. In January of this year, after some investigating, I caug...