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writes:Mod note: OP is 27, the account predates the requirement for age information.>Dont know where to start....such a mess....basically my ex finished with me 2 months ago after a 3 year relationship. I found out that he lied about stuff and we had been rowing for a while and I knew he wasnt happy. So we split up and 2 weeks later he gets into a new relationship with this horrible girl with 4 children who has just split up from her partner herself. This detsroyed me and I begged him back but he was not interested. Said he didnt love me anymore though I found that hard to believe because he had asked me to marry him a week before he left. I was forced to go NC and i didnt have nothing to do with him for 6 weeks. No calls texts etc. I changed my number. However, I needed to contact him recenly because we share furniture which was in his name and instalments coming out of his account and I wanted it changed to my account. I phoned him but he was so rude and angry to me and didnt want to talk. So I then texted him my bank details and asked him to transfer the debits to my account. At the end of the text I said that the number i was texting was not mine as I did not want him to have my new number. Anyway, the very next day I get a missed call from a strange number. I find out the number is his new girlfriends. I text pretending I didnt know who it was and she made out she didnt know who I was. I phoned my ex and asked him why she rang the number and he had no idea what I was talking about. He swore he didnt give her the number as he had no reason to. This obviously means that she went through his phone when he was asleep or not there and I began to laugh at him. I hung up. Then later on he text me saying that he did give her that number because they didnt believe that it was not my number! I think he's saving face because hes probably embaressed that his new GF does not trust him. Either way, I just find the whole thing bizarre. But my question is should I contact her and tell her that I know its her?? Or just leave them to it? She's clearly playing some sort of game but should I rise to the bait? Im 28 and they are 27
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2015): I really don't understand why you even care if she trusts him or not?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (10 June 2015):
 Eh why BOTHER paly this pathetic games?
He is your ex. She might be horrible, so what? Sounds like those two deserve each other.
Move on honey... And btw.. giving your bank info? May not be a smart move on your behalf...
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 June 2015):
 oh let it go.
leave it to them he's not your bf and he's not your worry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2015): Forget it, leave them to it. Contacting them is not worth the drama.
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