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*eezy41
writes:I was dating with this guy from work almost 2 months. He told me yesterday and the day before he likes me and misses me. Today I asked him where he was at last night.He said he was in his gf's crib and that he was horny.I said, ^^^k him and deleted him on fb and ig.I just do not understand why he just told me out of nowhere
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (22 June 2015):
 OP,isn't this the same guy who texted you telling you that he wants to PUMP with you because it feels so good etc.etc.?
Honestly, what explanation do you want, and what did you / do you expect from him ?...
Unluckily ( but luckily for you !, he sounds like no prize at all ) - he sees you just as " pumping " material, that's it.
I think there are two possibilities.
1 ) he does have a GF, and , while you considered him your boyfriend,... he considers himself the other lady's boyfriend,- and only a "pumping partner" for you , and eventually decided to set you straight, because you were getting the wrong ideas
2) he des not even have a GF - but you wanted too relationshipy or coupleish things from him, and this was his way to make you back off.
Eother way- no explanation necessary, you just got played. Keep ignoring him, and next time be a bit more cautious in your choices. As you have seen, trusting people whom you basically don't know from Adam, based on their WORDS only, may be a risky business. Talk is cheap....
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reader, deezy41 +, writes (22 June 2015):
deezy41 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe texted me saying he does not have any girl and someone was messing around with me. Since i am a strong hard headed woman, i will not hear that.
when he told me, he was in his gf's house, it was 8 am on that day. Plus, you can only access his phone through fingerprint.
So should i believe him or not?
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reader, deezy41 +, writes (21 June 2015):
deezy41 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey all, dating does not mean commitment but it also does not mean you can have a gf and date/sleep with another person.
Unfortunately, i trust him too much w his words. And he let me down.
He texted me yesterday and asked me if we can talk. I did not answer then he texted me on fb and I didn't answer him at all.
Because i am still waitiing and explanation
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2015): Since I really don't know what you two agreed upon when you started spending time together, I can only assume that since you said you were dating him instead of we've been dating for 2 months, leads me to believe it's possible that only you felt that there was a commitment between you two and that in reality he didn't feel that way but was only going out with you because you were available when he needed you. because actually dating doesn't mean a commitment dating is more or less spending some time getting to know someone a little better, sounds like you need to be a little more aware of guys you may want to go out with next time.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (20 June 2015):
 He told you, because you put him on the spot and he figured you'd back off if he mentioned the GF.
Sounds like you dodged a bullet - why waste any more time on him and what he think/does/say? Make him IRRELEVANT in your mind, heart and life...
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