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Archived questions from: July, 2010 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

I'm pregnant but I don't want to get back with him. How can I make him understand that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - okay my boyfriend and i were going out years and we broke up and then i found out i was pregant and told him he cried saying he wasn't ready for this but he'll be there, I told him i'm not a bitch i have no problem with him seeing the child and ...

Have you ever dumped a girl because you suddenly felt that she was not in your league?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - This is kind of a poll. Guys please be honest here. Have you ever dumped a girl for another girl who was better looking than your ex but not as interesting. To be more blunt have you ever dumped a girl because you suddenly felt that she was not ...

Why did she just diss my feelings that I still love her and want her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Me and my ex girlfriend have been broken up for about 5-6 months already. We were in a long distance relationship for that time. We had an amazing bond together best friends, lovers we just got along so perfectly. Now during this break up I have ...

Opinions. If he wanted to break up he'd tell me, ignore me or be slightly rude right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I've posted before.. but i cant seem to relax.. im constantly thinking. I realized when guys are sick theyre big babies (well some). I'm used to being needed when a bf is sick but because my bf has his mom nearby/her friends to get him things.. he ...

Is it a break if we are still talking...or should I take a total break...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I recently made a post on here...and I received lots of great feedback and thank you all for that. I have one last question and situation to share with you all...I need help because I have been given advice from friends but I need unbiased or ...

He needs time... all the while I am unravelling.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Hello friends, I need some advice. My bf and I had a big blowout a few weeks ago, it was my fault, I lied to him about a few things and he found out. The lies were white and small and didn't hurt anyone but still, I lied. After trying to reconcile ...

All I've done for weeks now is chase after him and try different tactics to get him back. I desperately need advice on how to get him back...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Well mines a long story. Really hope you can help. This is th second split from my boyfriend of 7 years. The first split was in 2008 at christmas and alsmost killed me, i went completely mad and was totally heartbroken. I ended up moving miles away ...

Dumped because I got too close to another guy! How do I get my bf back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - ok well basically my boyfriend broke up with me 6 days ago and im actually devastated. The reason he broke up with me is because he saw me being a bit 'too close' with another guy who is my friend and broke up with me right there and then. I know I ...

Do you think i"ve made a mistake?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Mod Note:Posters Title was not available I just broke up with my boyfriend of four years and I already feel horrible. I've been waiting for him to get his act together for years; he was a high achiever when he was younger and now he's stuck in a rut....

This is just a rant but I really need your thoughts and suggestions...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - this is just a rant, but suggestions and thoughts are appreciated. My gf has trouble letting go of her ex, no matter how nasty he is to us and our friends. She dosent see that he's pushing my friend base away from her....they dont want to speak to...

I broke up with this strange girl, now she's stalking me, what can I do ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Hi ,i have a issue almost a 1 year now, i had a relationship with 2 year younger girl when i was 16 and we were together for 1 and a half week , i was not attracted to her at all ,but it impressed me that she asked me out and i said she seemed nice ...

I am not convinced why he wants to break up with me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me saying that we don't see things eye to eye. I have a 4 year old son, not with him. He feels bothered when my son acts up at the dinner table and wants to walk around. He believes children should be seen, not heard. My ...

Should I wait this year out to be with him even though he may break my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Ok sooo. Last year I dated this guy who I was totally in love with but he basically broke up with me a week after we had sex. I felt totally used and hurt. Though he promised me it wasnt something he liked doing but he couldnt do long distance he ...

We dated for 2 years, broke up and are now together but she's unsure of us

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and i were together for 2 years. just after our 2 year anniversary she dumped me. She had a list of things that i did wrong during our relationship. And she was right. i took a lot for granted. didnt respect her feelings. I never ch...

Are soulmates always destined to be together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - *OP's Original Title* Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl, and about 4 months ago I've met a guy one year younger than I am. Initially it started as friendship, but soon enough we developed a very strong bond, and we started hanging out more and more unt...

Should I tell him I had sex with someone else during the break?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I have been dating the same guy for 2 years. One time when we broke up he had sex with one of his good friends and I didn't find out till 6 months later. we broke up for about 3 weeks because i said i couldnt handle it but during those 3 weeks i had ...

Why do I always get stung by those I'm nice to

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - ok so i'm a really nice person, probly the nicest person in my whole skool, i'd do anything and everything in my power for the people i care about and i'm pretty much friends with everyone worth talking to. My problem is is that i get so close to ...

How can I get over this man that is in my thoughts from morning to night?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - How can I get over the man I love, We have not spoken for 5 weeks and he is all I think about. We have alot of history and have spent most of this year together, he is separated and it's getting very messy. The ex has found out about me a...

Why did she say these things after a break-up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - IF YOU DO READ THIS AND HAVE AN OPINION I THANK YOU IN ADVANCE... Ok I've been going out of mind over a girl I've wanted for 4 years maybe. We were friends for 3 three years before anything happened between. The first time she was close to an ...

How do I stop feeling hurt about the fact that he's off and dating now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - He's dating a new girl a few weeks after we broke up. I am very hurt and he wasn't emotional at all during our break up, it was very easy for him. How do I stop feeling hurt about the fact that he's off and dating now?...

Why can't he see how much I miss him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5239 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - Okay so I went out with this boy and then I broke up with him and I spent my whole time regretting it.. and then a year later we started texting again,he was like my best friend and then after a few months we started scoring and stuff..and we even ...

Do you think theres any chance I could be with this girl again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - Ok 2 years ago i met this girl and kinda went out with her, she was very obsessive with me totally always wanting my attention, She kept asking me a few weeks in if i fancied her, and i didn't say anything,i was scared and didn't ask her out, i ...

Why does he keep changing his mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I recently wrote to you about how my boyfriend liked me for two years then very quickly changed his mind about "us". Well, once again he seems to have changed his mind its, strange after he told me he didnt feel right being with me now that he has ...

Why has my ex called twice in 2 days?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - my ex-boyfriend has called me twice in two days. he wont talk talk on my voicemail. why is he doing this.what does this mean? i still have strong feelings for him. we dated a year. it has been a little over a year since he broke up with me. he was ...

I lost everything because I was to blame for the break up, now I cant seem to get over him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - Hi, It would be great if I could get some great advice from this site. Several years back i met a really great guy, we were together all most 5 years. then he decied to get up and move to califorina he need to get away from us. well when we meet he ...

I have gone from having lots of contact with my ex and to nothing! What is going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I need some help and some advice! My ex of fifteen months broke up with me a few months ago. The only reason I've had since then was that we argued too much. However, he cancelled our holiday, made me lose money and even burnt my things. Thin...

I'm hurt my ex is moving on so fast!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - So when my ex broke up with me (only a month ago), he said he wasn't breaking up with me for any girls or anything, and he wasn't going to start dating any time soon. I just found out theres one girl he's been texting all the time and talking to ...

We broke up because we never see each other or speak often, then I found out he texts my friend all the time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - So recently me and my boyfriend broke up due to NEVER seeing each other (literally). We hardly talk to each other now because he works all day everyday and has football.. He told me he still really likes me and we can "try it out" when school starts ...

Why is it so difficult for me to break up with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - I've been in a long distance relationship for 2 years now. We get along very well for the most part. I've never experienced anything close to this before and it's confusing me really bad. I've been in 8 relationships over the past 20 years and ...

It's so hard seeing my ex-boyfriend suffer because of our breakup, please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up 2 weeks ago after a 3 year relationship. I saw him as the love of my life, and I know in my heart that he has never loved anyone as much as he did me. We were gonna get married, there was even a point where I took him ...

Why does he want to take a break?

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29 July 2010 (F) - Why does my bf want to take a break? We've been dating for almost a year and I have to admit that things aren't that great between us right now. And I think it's mostly on his side, he doesn't seem as receptive and into the relationship right now. ...

Will we ever get back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I have been "seeing" this guy i met online for a while, things were going good until he lost his job and moved in with his parents he became really depressed and i was there for him through the whole thing, well a couple days before my birthday he ...

He slept with another girl whilst we were broken up, I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me from Oct 09 to Nov 09. He came back towards the end of November and left on October 8, 2009. We have been good since his return in late November. He has really been so amazing. We love each other so much. But, two ...

Will she ever end her relationship with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - I have been waiting for this girl for 2 and a half years already. She is in a relationship with her bf for 4 years plus. She knows her relationship is unhealthy. There have been couple of break ups in between these 4 years but they patched backed. ...

I think I might still have feelings for my ex, even though I'm engaged to his best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - About a year in a half ago I started dating a co worker. It ended because he went back to his ex. I was heart broken but eventually moved on myself, with his roommate/best friend. I don't know exactly how it happneded. But now we are engaged and ...

What kind of person does this to someone?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - Hi this may seem a little long but bare with me and maybe i will get an answer that fits the profile,I have once again split from my baby`s father for the very last time in nearly 7yrs as a couple,when we got together he warned me that he was a ...

I don't see a future for us!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - I genuinely cant see a future for me and my boyfriend. When I have visions of my future he's never in it. Should I end my relationship purely based on this fact or should I just live for the here and now and see how it goes? All opinions apprecia...

Why is my ex ignoring me and hanging around with lots of other guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

28 July 2010 (M) - Hi ok im actually at the point where i have been having an emotional breakdown almost every day and dont know what to do anymore. I broke up with my girlfriend 3 weeks ago and I have been left feeling very confused and hurt and need some advice...

I want to break up and don't want to hurt him but he won't let me go!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - I was on here asking for help to break up with my live in boyfriend a couple of months ago. Last night i finally was breaking up with him. I cant go on in our relationship anymore even though i love him because i need to find myself and just be ...

Long term relationship gone forever???!!??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - Mods Note, OP's own title: im 18 and i have been seeing this boy for 5 years of my life. hes 18 also. we've been getting into small arguments lately because he took a promise ring back from me because he thought i lied to him. they have been my faul...

Why am I obsessed with hearing stories of my ex cheating on me with other men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

28 July 2010 (M) - I have broken up with my girlfriend as a result of her infidelity. Of late she has taken to telling me all about how she used to cheat on me and with whom and how-in some cases with exact dates. The stories are crude, chillin, heartbreaking and ...

Did she break up with me because of her friends ot because she had met someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

28 July 2010 (M) - Hello anyone who reads this, I have been in a recent relationship, and I thought it was going great, we talked everyday, we are at most times happy together and we had our great moments, but then she decides to break up with me because her friends ...

Should I let my ex bf back in my life...or go it alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - I'm in a tough spot. Here's some background... I got with this guy when I was 17, we were together for 6 years, and had two kids together. The relationship was.. rocky, to say the least. It was always him cheating on me constantly, leaving me for ...

My partner left me after I asked for him to show me more affection!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - I am posting this topic to receive as much advice as I can. I have been involved with a man for 6 months now, he was an ex cop but left the force in order to take care of his child full time and I had taken on the immediate role of an unofficial ...

Your honest opinion but being open minded?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - OP's own title. Hi this may be some what long and may not happen often but I have to ask you guys how do you feel about the situation im going to talk about. First of I got married to my childhood love at the age of 18. He was my world and had drea...

Am I Fighting a Loosing Battle??? PLEASE READ!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - OP's own title. Ok so...Me and my now ex-boyfriend had been dating for a little over a year. He is 22 and i am 20. He is white and i am black(this alone has caused some strain with my family but not enough to break us) We broke up because I t...

My ex girlfriend is making me crazy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

27 July 2010 (M) - My girlfriend of one year broke up with me a couple weeks ago. I was very good to her and all she did was take. She wanted some space which I had a hard time giving to her and after some fighting she told me that she did not love me anymore. She ...

Advice needed! :)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - OP's own title. hey, i had been with my boyfriend for a year and 3 months. We broke up about 3 weeks ago because i met up with some guy, nothing happened, i just wanted a chat and me and my boyfriend had argued. About a year ago, me and my boyf...

Should I run away, or keep rescuing her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

27 July 2010 (M) - I met my former fiancee four years ago in a philosophy class on a community college campus while we were both still seniors in high school. We were both in emotionally fragile states at that time. I was recovering from an alcohol issue, she was ...

I need help to see the light through the trees, Help!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

27 July 2010 (M) - Grrr I have so many problems at the moment, this is my 3rd cry for help in 24 hours, let me see, I have almost lost my girlfriend, I have had to take out an IVA to pay off debt, I have a default now with a company, and I am having to take a loan out ...