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writes:I genuinely cant see a future for me and my boyfriend. When I have visions of my future he's never in it. Should I end my relationship purely based on this fact or should I just live for the here and now and see how it goes?All opinions appreciated. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2010): It depends, if you have feelings for him still then you should stay with him, the future is so far ahead, he may not be the one you marry and spend your life with but he could be the one you love for now, if you love eachother and care about eachother then you should stay together and not worry about the far futre...just the near. Good luck with whatever you choose xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2010): I think you should just see how it ends up. You never know, he might do something really special to change your mind about everything. Just go with the flow.
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reader, LaLa911 +, writes (29 July 2010):
Ok im reading this and thinking... Your seeing your future in your mind but your partner is no where to be seen in your future?? Are you going through a rough patch or has your relationship come to a stand still? You really need to think about what your future holds for both you and your partner if you feel that it is going no where then you may as well end it and spare both your feelings. The other option is to see how he feels see what he wants in his future? You have to make the right decision think about it before you do anything drastic it could just be a mad thought which may never appear again. Hope this helps
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reader, romany +, writes (28 July 2010):
 I think the fact you can't see him in your future speak volumes, however, You've not stated why.
Does he make you feel that he is not going to be around for the long haul, or does he have annoying habits and just dont do it for you.
I'm just wondering if your inability to see him in your future is based on your insecurities, or because you just dont have the love there for him.
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