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Archived questions from: April, 2018 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Why does my ex married lover want to fix things?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 2400 days ago

29 April 2018 (F) - I really don't know what to anymore about my situation. I left my married lover because it was the right thing to do and it was hurting me. We are both military (one outranks the other) so it complicates things in terms of actually having a ...

My uncle says I remind him of my abusive father

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2401 days ago

29 April 2018 (F) - I feel like ive caused a massive family rift by asking a silly question. Ive had a difficult relationship with my uncle for many of my adult years. He is often very sullen and angry around me. I get short snippy answers to anything i say. He is 48 ...

A choice between Craig and Tom

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2396 days ago

29 April 2018 (F) - I’ve been with Craig for over three years and I do love him, although I’ve never been sure he’s the one. He’s a great support among many other great attributes, however he has no drive and never will, he’s lazy, he doesn’t dress properly for work ...

I thought we were friends but he blocked me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2400 days ago

29 April 2018 (F) - I had met this guy 2 years ago. He came up to me at school and asked me if I wanted to study the bible. He was with a group of friends. So I Said yes.at that time he was our campus minister for the young adults In out church. And for the longest ...

My girlfriend doesn't care about the here and now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2402 days ago

28 April 2018 (M) - Hi guys, I am really frustrated and stuck. My gf and I have been together about 5yrs. When we got together she was unemployed, I was studying. We have not lived together since after 2yrs due to money I could not afford having her. (she was very ...

Should I ignore the photos found on his laptop?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2362 days ago

28 April 2018 (F) - Hi there I was looking for a movie on my husband's laptop and instead found a folder of celebrity nudes he downloaded at the same time. I'm a bit shaken. I don't mind if he watches porn, but most of these photos are ones which would have been ...

Is my time to get pregnat running out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2403 days ago

27 April 2018 (F) - Can I have children later on in life? Hello aunts I am turning 32 this year and I have no boyfriend and no prospects. I believe I would like to have children but I always fear time is running out. Honestly I HAVE tried everything in the dating ...

My best friend tried to kiss my girlfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2403 days ago

27 April 2018 (M) - Hey guys. Last night my best friend (of like 8 years) tried to kiss my fiance (of 10 years). We were all out drinking, but I had left early because i was feeling gross. I had no trust issues leaving them. They didn't know i was there, as i had ...

Is it fair to let past experiences influence tis relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2402 days ago

27 April 2018 (F) - I've been seeing a guy for about a month now and we started to talk about the future and what the relationship is and he tells me that last summer he was accused of raping his ex. At the time he was telling me with I had just had consensual sex w...

Partner's dad flirting with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2403 days ago

26 April 2018 (F) - I've been with my partner for 4 years. I have noticed in the past few months that his dad may be 'flirting' with me. We get on pretty well and I find it easier to chat with him than his wife. We tend to laugh and make jokes. Sometimes, I notice him ...

Long time friend wants to be more than friends.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2404 days ago

26 April 2018 (F) - Hello agony aunts. Im facing some troubles and dealing with my guy friend's behavior towards me. My guy friend is being cold, sarcastic and mean to me in the past few weeks. Okay well let me start with this, he actually loves me, he told me before ...

He earns three times more but wants to split the bills 50/50

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 2401 days ago

26 April 2018 (F) - my boyfriend has recently asked me to move in with him. we had a conversation about our finances and his expectation of what i should contribute to the household expenses. He wants to split everything 50/50. We got into an argument over this because ...

We are both too shy to say hi to each other?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2403 days ago

24 April 2018 (F) - There's this guy that I like and I know he likes me back because he always walks past me and a bunch of other signs over afew weeks, explaining these will defeat the purpose of the question. The main question is we are both too shy to talk to each ...

I'm tired of being the other woman but love him too much to let go.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2406 days ago

24 April 2018 (F) - I have been seeing A married guy for nearly 8 months. He spending every free moment with me we do things we go away sometimes, we talk on the phone multiple times a day every single day. He has been great fI me, He’s caring, attentive, Generous ...

I offered an adult student help, now he constantly contacts me.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2399 days ago

24 April 2018 (F) - I would like to preface my question by saying that this isn't exactly a "relationship" question, but I am reaching out for advice because I know that some of you are really qualified to give advice about interactions with people, in general. I te...

I have feelings for my ex but he just wants to be friends.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2404 days ago

23 April 2018 (M) - dear cupid i have recently got back in to touch with an ex boyfriend we Broke up on bad term yrs ago but as i said we got back in touch and we are friends but i have realised i still have feeling for him and he said he just wants to be friends ...

Should I tell him I’m gay before moving in or not say anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2406 days ago

23 April 2018 (M) - I've never had many guy friends but I've become a bit closer to a guy I knew since about college but only starI've never had many male friends but I've become a bit closer to a guy I knew since about college but only started getting friendly with ...

Every relationship ends the same way ....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2408 days ago

23 April 2018 (F) - Hello, I'm 23 years old (f) suffering with anxiety and bipolar. In my childhood and teenage years, I suffered from emotional and physical abuse, and it's affecting my relationships with people right now. My dad was one of the people who made me feel ...

Their Grandma wont drop the subject, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2407 days ago

23 April 2018 (M) - A few years ago, my sister-in-law's grandmother and her boyfriend went to Alaska on a vacation (the boyfriend is now decease). We talked about Alaska and I mentioned to her that Alaska is my dream vacation. I did my research and realize how much...

Did I do the right thing, I think he is still involved with his children's mother.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2407 days ago

22 April 2018 (F) - I was seeing a man who lives with his 18 year month twin boys and he still lives with his kids mother.He told me they have broken up but staying together for financial reasons for now. Well he wouldn't see me outside working hours so I calle...

What should a person do .....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2408 days ago

22 April 2018 (F) - What should a person do if they are falling for someone, and that person tells them they have a certain type a woman they like, and it's not you, and they don't have time but maybe one day a week, they are to busy to see you more then that, you live ...

I muust have a "hate me" sign above my head.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2408 days ago

22 April 2018 (F) - I’m unlikeable it seems, people don’t “take” to me land aren’t friendly. I feel like giving up on people. I Try to be nice and get ignored, uninvited, dismissed and forgotten. Please, how can I be more likeable? I listen, I smile and...

A mutual friend has boundary problems

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2409 days ago

22 April 2018 (M) - I have this problem with a friend of mine (we are both gay men). He is very close to my best friend. This friend, who can sometimes be great and at other times be utterly creepy. He can be the kindest, most helpful person and in a whim switch to a ...

My boyfriend, I and his so called lesbian friend who's slept with him, fancies him and doesn't like me. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2411 days ago

19 April 2018 (F) - Been seeing a guy for 7months now. Started off casually, us both not looking for a relationship, but it naturally progressed into one that we both are enjoying. We have had to redefine and communicate a lot about what our needs and expectations are ...

I have an ex that wont let go.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2412 days ago

18 April 2018 (M) - Me and my ex girlfriend split up 4, maybe even closer to 5 years ago. In the end, she got quite nasty and I ended up blocking her on Facebook. Fast forward a few years and I get a message request from a previously deactivated account of hers,...

I'm still being picked on at school, one girl said its because I'm clueless.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2411 days ago

18 April 2018 (F) - THIS IS WHAT I WROTE BEFORE: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/please-help-me-stand-up-for-myself.html These friends are the only friends I have and when they give me the silent treatment or start rumors it really hurts! I pretty much end up begg...

A guy I was seeing went quiet on me, he says he is following legal advise.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2411 days ago

18 April 2018 (F) - Im just wondering what are peoples thoughts. I was seeing a guy who went quiet on me we had been seeing each other for 6 month. i heard from him a handful of times in 2 month and didnt get to see him . I didnt sit about waiting for him i got on with ...

My boyfriend is all about himself during sex, but never about me.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2410 days ago

18 April 2018 (F) - Hello, I was hoping I could ask for some help regarding my sex life. I have a wonderful 2 year relationship with my boyfriend. Genuinely feel like I've found the one for me, I think he's amazing. However, he's the first person I've slept with...

Should I be thankful for the little I've got?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 2403 days ago

18 April 2018 (F) - Yes, mod, I’m 17. The only person I can talk to about my depression and anxiety is my boyfriend but I’m stuck in a polygamous relationship with him and his girlfriend. However, I love him and I’m getting tired of sharing him. I just want his body ...

I'm back with my ex but sometimes he is not enthusiastic!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2413 days ago

18 April 2018 (F) - My ex and I were together for 2.5 years. I ended the relationship about a year ago due to his immature habits (gambling and binge drinking on weekends). After the break up we tried working on things but ultimately not enough time had passed and ...

No kids, no spouse, and nearing 30.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2411 days ago

18 April 2018 (F) - Does anyone else freak out that their hitting their thirties with no kids and husband/wife? I have tried online dating and that hasn’t worked (honestly most people I have met look for sex) and I am traditional ( I would at least like to date a b...

My hsband left me for another woman but wont considera divorce.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2414 days ago

17 April 2018 (F) - My husband left me with other woman his (mistress) it's been 2 weeks now since he left. I'm 37 yr old My husband is 54 and his mistress is 45 year old she's older than me . I want to divorce him coz I don't trust him no more . But my husband ...

Why is she so attention seeking??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2414 days ago

16 April 2018 (F) - Yesterday a 44 yr old female work colleague with 5 kids had her wisdom teeth out,she posted a post surgery selfie of her swollen face on our works fbook page, Is this pure attention seeking? She’s a quiet and good worker, invisible.. like...

How do I handle my girlfriends past?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2415 days ago

16 April 2018 (M) - I would like to start out by saying that I consider myself very open minded. I am divorced from a 6 year marriage and am on good terms with. I have even made good friends with my ex-wife’s boyfriend and we hang out occasionally. My current ...

My boyfriend doesn't tell anyone about me but wants me to move in with him ... what should I do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2414 days ago

16 April 2018 (F) - I've been dating a guy for 5 months and were exsclusive.. I'm finding myself in love with him he treats me well except for one issue he doesn't tell anyone about me, not friends which he only has a few not co workers not his family... He tells me ...

Am I being self sabotaging or are my feelings enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2415 days ago

16 April 2018 (F) - I feel like i'm going through a bit of an internal crisis and i can't understand why i can't just be happy. I'm 23 and only been with my boyfriend 7 months, however I knew him for a yr before that. It took me a while to take the plunge and allow ...

My eccentric fiance's behaviour is starting to concern me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2405 days ago

16 April 2018 (F) - Hi... I am looking for some outside advice/perspective on my relationship with my fiancé. We've been together for two years and are just recently engaged. When we first met, we clicked immediately and have been mostly insperable. I grew up in a v...

My girlfriend left, I want to fix it but she is ignoring me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2415 days ago

16 April 2018 (M) - My girlfriend of 12 years has just left me. For the last 4 years we've lived together in our own place after a spell living with her family, we moved in shortly after my father passed away. I really struggled to deal with my father's passing...

He compliments others and insults me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2415 days ago

16 April 2018 (F) - My partner of many years verbally attacked me for the things I do to 'beautify' myself such as have hair nails and skin appointments etc done . I have never had cosmetic surgery and am not going to. He says I'm insecure and he wants someone who is ...

Should I try harder to make up for his lack of effort?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2414 days ago

16 April 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years. I love him and I want to spend the rest of my life with him. But for the past year now, I feel like he's been neglecting me. He's a hard-working man and I love that about him. But he doesn't ...

I'm still sexually attached to the guy that my ex pretended to be. How can I get over this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2412 days ago

15 April 2018 (F) - Thank you for reading this. About 10 years ago, I broke up with this guy after a few months when I realized he was abusive. I felt betrayed because we had supposedly been childhood friends. I broke all ties with him. Like most abusers, at first he ...

Should I sue my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2416 days ago

15 April 2018 (M) - I broke up with my boyfriend 2 weeks ago, It was not a nice relationship at all . We have been together for 2 years, he cheated on me twice, he stole money from me, he used my bank card several times without telling me, and the list goes on and on, ...

Is his message to me a cry for help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2414 days ago

15 April 2018 (F) - It's not that we talked much, but we were friends, well acquaintances at least. Anyway, it's been years since we've talked. We were in college like 9-10 years ago, but friends on social media. Anyway, out of the blue, he randomly sends me a message ...

Why me? Why am I excluded?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2414 days ago

15 April 2018 (F) - Everyone I know sees me as boring, esp my younger coworkers and my younger sister and anyone I meet socially, friends of friends etc..aquantances.. Should I cAre and what to do?? ??? No one talks to me, though I to talk them when one to one. I...

I'm dating a 48 year old man who lives in utter filth and doesn't know what he wants from life

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2414 days ago

14 April 2018 (F) - I've Been seeing a 48 year old man for about 5 weeks now. He is not physically attractive in anyway. I looked past all this because I am actually pursuing a serious relationship and my criteria isn't based on looks. It would help but doesn't matter. ...

What does this married man mean when he says he finds me physically attractive?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2416 days ago

14 April 2018 (F) - I've met this guy at work. He is married. We have a lot of things in common.He is a very private man. He doesn't talk much to anybody until I started working there. He said he likes me and enjoy being his friend. He is always careful about what he ...

How do I accept that he doesn't want to be my friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2406 days ago

13 April 2018 (M) - I started speaking to this guy 'M' online around 3-4 years ago. Our conversations were very fluctuating, and never particularly in depth but I really like and admire M as a person. We get on great, have so many similar interests, and for a while I ...

My online guy has been professing his love for me but I've found out he has a girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2416 days ago

13 April 2018 (F) - Basically I've been with a guy for 8 months and we're long distance (he's also from a different country than mine we just met in the summer) . It was his choice for us to stay together although we are far from each other and we always skype and keep ...

We're having sex, he has another girl and I have feelings and a third girl is spreading nasty rumours.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2366 days ago

13 April 2018 (F) - This is a little bit long winded so i do apologise in advance. I went to the pub one with my friend and she introduced me to one of her guy friends and kept teasing us both that we are both single. That night i plucked up the courage to messa...

I laid my cards on the table and he backed right off!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2415 days ago

12 April 2018 (F) - I met Mark 3 months ago. We had both gotten out of 5 year relationships a year before that, and he told me that he lived with his ex during their relationship. She broke up with him because she didn't feel a spark anymore, and he was very hurt ...