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Archived questions from: November, 2017 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Mental health issues: he wants to let me go but I don't want to give up on him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2547 days ago

30 November 2017 (F) - why do i only seem to attract ( i use the word gently) problem men. i mean it in a way as they have mental health problems , i dont mind they have problems and thats part of who they are and i can manage life with them easily but after a short while ...

Is he really out of town? Was I played? Did he really like me at all? Or was I just a girl in his back pocket during the few months we were together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2551 days ago

30 November 2017 (F) - During the summer I was approached by a guy in the city. He complimented me on my outfit and we started up a little chat and we exchange numbers. Fast ward we eventually went out on our first date a few weeks after meeting. We talked everyday pretty ...

How do I become a more submissive girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2552 days ago

30 November 2017 (F) - My personality has always been very jokester and very sarcastic (think of every character on Roseanne type of sarcastic) and I? know when to be serious and turn it off, but in my everyday life it is just who I? am. But I’ve been dating this guy for ...

I want to have fun but it leaves me feeling guilty

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2549 days ago

29 November 2017 (F) - Im on my first twennies, basically my parents are pretty strict. I've always been the good girl that never hides anything from her parents. I've never lied to them about anyhting or done anything that they dont approve with. I moved from australia ...

Back in touch after 6 months but still confused where I stand with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2550 days ago

29 November 2017 (F) - Hey all - this is a long one so please bear with me. About 6 months ago, a guy I knew started flirting with me and I told him I liked him and he replied that he thought I was fit but just wanted "laughter". There came a point where he wanted to do ...

Can we get back to normal after swinging?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2549 days ago

28 November 2017 (F) - Do you think there’s any hope of a relationship going back to normal after swinging? My husband and I have tried it - yes we had a lot of fun - but the lifestyle isn’t for me. When I tell him I want to stop we fight because he doesn’t want to stop. ...

How do I escape this rut?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2554 days ago

27 November 2017 (M) - I’m reallt stuck on what to do. I have been with my girl for 5 yrs. However I can’t have courage to get married. I’m always making excuses, but I’m reality I don’t know why myself. I have tried to think about it a lot, and the only conclusion ...

Am I selfish for not wanting a relationship? My parents are desperate for a grandchild but I'm not so sure I'm ready

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2546 days ago

26 November 2017 (F) - I'm just curious as to what others think about this situation or if anyone else has had a similar problem. I'm 23 and I've never dated nor been in a relationship (and therefore obviously a virgin), but that is mainly by choice as I have no desire...

I thought I could taste latex condom on my husband while giving him oral, he says I'm crazy but I'm ready to file for divorce

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2232 days ago

26 November 2017 (F) - My husband asked me to give him oral sex. He had just taken a shower. We’re about to have sex, I go down on him and I put his penis in my mouth. I tasted the strangest taste of condom. I was in disbelief. I pulled away saying to myself I’m. Crazy. ...

I've been hooking up with my ex and now he wants proper sex but I'm hesitant because I want my first time to be with a boyfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2547 days ago

26 November 2017 (F) - I am a 16 year old girl. I dated this guy for a year and a half, but we broke up in January when I found out he had been sexting other girls. Over the summer, he changed a lot, and he decided he wanted to get back together with me. I told him I'd ...

I just don't want to give much attention to guys

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2554 days ago

26 November 2017 (F) - Hi I have been single since 3 years but didn’t go on many dates. I feel attracted to hot guys and have had one fling as well but I can’t stand more than 2 dates with anyone . I met a nice guy and we went on 2 dates but then calls started pouring ...

He cheated on his boyfriend, do I tell?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2547 days ago

25 November 2017 (M) - I used to fancy a friend of mine, he knows but clearly has no interest I’m coping with that. Now his started going out with a guy 10 years younger than him, he told me they were fun buddies cause he couldn’t go out with someone younger than him...

Staying with his mum is taking all out savings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2547 days ago

24 November 2017 (F) - Hiya.. I currently have been with my boyfriend for just over 4 years.. we are in a very happy relationship- no problems and we get on like a house on fire.. we are currently saving to buy our first house and are currently living together at his mums ...

Head over heels in love with my teacher!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2557 days ago

24 November 2017 (M) - Hello everyone, I'm a bachelor student. I am sorry for my grammar mistakes. First of all, I want to say that during my school and HS years I've never had this feeling before. Last year, I met one of the best persons and teachers in the world. She is ...

Any advice on Dear Cupid burn-out?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2549 days ago

22 November 2017 (M) - I know I'm not the most active poster here and I'm not hoping that anyone would recognize me but I'm just gonna post this here for a message and maybe some advice. I'm thinking of leaving DearCupid for some time, all this posts about cheating...

Co-worker's stories make me green

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2559 days ago

22 November 2017 (F) - I have recently got a new job and long story short I noticed my other co-worker in my team gets 20k more (out salaries are visible because we work in hr and do the same job ) I must tell you I am trying to mind my own business but it bothers me - he ...

I'm married but starting to get obsessed with the guy my husband and I had a threesome with

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2551 days ago

21 November 2017 (F) - Over a year ago my husband and i had a sexual threesome with a single male friend of ours after a night of drinking...this was totally my husbands idea..I was always attracted to this friend but had no intentions of taking it any furthur, even ...

Was it inappropriate for my wife to wear the revealing dress just to get back at me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2553 days ago

19 November 2017 (M) - A short time ago me and my wife had an argument just before we were going out to meet friends for some dinner and drinks. She wasn't quite ready, so she said she would meet up with us later. So I went and met with our friends. She came in about a ...

My world has come crashing down because my wife just told me that the daughter we've been raising is not mine but from her affair after the marriage!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2553 days ago

19 November 2017 (M) - My wife and i have been married for 3 years, 6 months ago she told me something that rocked my core. the daughter i have been raising is not mine. she had an affair 2 years ago. the reason she cheated was that she was a virgin when we got married ...

Am I reasonable to choose money over potential happiness?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2554 days ago

19 November 2017 (F) - Dear aunts, I am in a fix as I type this. I made a first attempt at online dating about 7 months ago and the only guy I really had an interest in, we hit it off. It was rocky at first but we are amazing now and not a day goes by without us chatting ...

Sick of being ignored, what do I have to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2562 days ago

19 November 2017 (F) - I think I give off a “don’t be my friend” vibe, though I say hi and am polite? All my life people have avoided me, socially and socially at work and in group or social events, like I have A flashing sign “avoid her” I was bullied and social...

Why does this person not stop harrassing me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2563 days ago

18 November 2017 (F) - Why would someone who you have told them no and they know you don't want to do the unreasonable request they asked you keep pressuring you and pressuring you to try and do what they want. You have even blocked their calls and they still phone yo...

We had plans, should I keep him as a friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2560 days ago

18 November 2017 (F) - I have been friends with this guy for a year now and we have recently gotten pretty close. se seemed like a really easy going person and cool guy to hang out with. He really opens up about his life and we have many deep conversations. Well this past ...

My boyfriend doesn't last long in bed, wha can I do to help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2557 days ago

17 November 2017 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend only a few months, been best friends for a few years.. we have had talks before and hes pretty open about this issues with me only... He can’t last very long while having sex, my question is what are some options to help ...

How can I learn my value?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2565 days ago

17 November 2017 (F) - How Can I learn my value? I am insecure and I have let people walk over me - use me- and leave me - friends and lovers . I have worked on the outside (lost the weight - got the degrees - got a better corporate job) but I still fear saying no- I ...

How important to you is respect for and trust of your manager?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2565 days ago

17 November 2017 (F) - A work based question for those of you with years of experience of the workplace. How important to you is respect for and trust of your line manager? I ask because I am in a job I don't want to quit (for a number of reasons) BUT I have al...

Gossip mongers got me going

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2566 days ago

16 November 2017 (F) - How do u act around people that gossip? I recently started a job and I noticed that two of my coworkers are partaking in chit chat - one of them first asked for my social media accounts right away (I only knew him for a month) and he wanted to add ...

Could this relationship be wrong?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2565 days ago

16 November 2017 (F) - I am falling in love with my soon to be step uncle and I don't know what to do. Do I end things now before it gets out of hand or do we carry on being like we are and tell people about us ? Is it forbidden to date him ??...

Does she really love me like I love her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2557 days ago

15 November 2017 (F) - I just recently found out that my wife, I'm a lesbian, only watches straight porn. I'm questioning a lot now, not so much about how I feel about her but if I could ever truly make her happy or if I have ever truly satisfied her. She's brought it u...

My dad intentionally tried to shame and humiliate me at my wedding.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2568 days ago

14 November 2017 (F) - I've had a very distressed relationship with my family since I was born really. It's pure dysfunction. My mom is mentally ill and I no longer communicate with her. Leaving me and my sister to look up to and rely on my dad as a sole parent for most ...

Would it be lame to send him a thank you card for the interview experience?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2560 days ago

14 November 2017 (F) - Ok lame idea or not? I posted before about the fact I completed my masters degree in creative writing recently, and I choked whilst writing my final project. As I suspected, my grade for that project was terrible and while I still passed, I’ve bee...

Accepted a job but I feel over qualified

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2568 days ago

14 November 2017 (F) - Hi. I have done my postgraduation in biotech in 2014. Since then till now at end of 2017, I am continuously giving interviews for research post. As some people may know, there are very less jobs in biotech in India and that too ask for NET ...

Why do I seem to be flavour of the month?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2569 days ago

13 November 2017 (F) - I have an ex whom I've been split from for about six months. He's since been off and on with a new girlfriend and I've been single. Here lately a few of his friends have been flirting with me like crazy. One is even married! The married friend ...

Walked into an awkward love triangle

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2568 days ago

12 November 2017 (F) - Hi, for the last 6 months or so I have liked one of the men (call him Tim) from my workplace. He is one of quite a few men and women that are in our lunch group and we all go out for drinks and things like that fairly often. He has been in a co...

How much does having a girlfriend actually cost?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2569 days ago

12 November 2017 (M) - So, I was telling my roommate about my plans to build a new computer and media center for the living room, and he told me I should get a girlfriend (instead of appreciating my contributions to the house). While he might or might not be right, I ...

Now he seems interested in finally setting a date I don't want to marry him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2568 days ago

11 November 2017 (F) - Hello, new to the site. hoping for some help. I 39 years old and my bf is 46, we have been together for almost 3 years and engaged for 2 of those. When we got engaged i was so happy that i would be planning my wedding, but every time i mentioned ...

My best friend is faking he is straight even though we had sex.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2533 days ago

10 November 2017 (M) - I'm a bi man and in the last year I've had intimate moments with my best friend, for whom I have always had doubts regarding his orientation. It's true that we have both enjoyed it but recently he seems to distance himself from situations where ...

Why didnt he just tell me he didnt want o be with me anymore?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2573 days ago

8 November 2017 (F) - My ex of 5 years and I have recently broken up. For a couple of months I noticed him being extremely distant. I'd confront him about it and he tells me things at work aren't good and it's not allowing him to spend time with his son like he use to. I ...

I've always been a people pleaser ... how can I stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2572 days ago

8 November 2017 (F) - I can’t stop worrying about what people will think of me - I have always been a people pleaser and have followed the “rules of life” to the T. I got two degreees and got a corporate jobs followe the path. Lately I have fallen in a financial hardship ...

I have feelings for a recently married woman.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2571 days ago

8 November 2017 (M) - I recently realized i have feelings for a woman who has not long been married, it is at the point that i can't think of anything else, i'm not sure if she has picked up on this by my body language, i am dying to tell her how i feel but..i can't ...

There is no intimacy in our marriage .... is my wife having an affair?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2573 days ago

7 November 2017 (M) - I have been married for 15 years. Beginning of marriage the sex life was great. Then all of sudden I had to wear a condom didn't want me to orgasm inside her. The kissing stopped was only just a peck on the cheek or lips. Once a month she has dinner ...

Does he like me? He has a girlfriend but what's with his behaviour towards me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2551 days ago

7 November 2017 (F) - There's a guy who I work with, we work at a recreational centre for youths. I've noticed he's been acting different around me when we work together. I'll list a few examples: whenever we talk, he'll make eye contact and then he looks at my lips, he...

My husband really wants a dog and I couldn’t think of anything worse!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2571 days ago

7 November 2017 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 1 year and dating for 2 years before that. He really wants a dog and I really don't want one. (Both of us don't want kids). 3 years ago, when we met and began dating, he had just moved from another state an...

I am male and I have no sensational feeling during sex

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2559 days ago

6 November 2017 (M) - Hi, I have a very big problem - I do not feel anything during intercourse! Please help me! I am 35 years old and i have had this problem since my sexual debut. And the problem is really simple, yet very complex - I do not feel anything! When I...

My boyfriend thinks he should be consulted about my mother's estate

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2574 days ago

6 November 2017 (F) - Is it wrong to not consider my boyfriends opinion regarding my house? My mom passed away last year and my cousin is helping me get the house in my name. He and I agreed that refinancing the remaining amount of the mortgage was the best option for ...

Is my husband's panty fetish out of control?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2575 days ago

5 November 2017 (F) - Is my husband’s panty fetish out of control? I just discovered that my husband has been sneaking my underwear as well as my 18yo daughters underwear. I don’t know exactly what he does with them I can only imagine. He swears it’s not about who wear...

My husband is flat out lying to me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2576 days ago

5 November 2017 (F) - Is it ok to snoop if i am being lied to? My husband keeps telling me that his 'penis is broken'. We havent had sex in two months or so. Hes massively stressed out. The thing is that in the last two weeks i have given him two blowjobs and we have act...

I'm 30 years old and my mother tries to rule my life!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2492 days ago

4 November 2017 (M) - I’m thirty years old and I don’t know how to deal with my mother anymore. She has been a fantastic mom to me, offering emotional support, taking care of me, making sure I’m okay, but lately I can’t stop fighting with her. And it’s always over...

How do I tell them I'm moving out without making it worse for myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2577 days ago

4 November 2017 (F) - So I have a friendship question here. I am currently in uni and live in a uni house with three girls, however it is a bit icy between some of us at the moment. Now, a bit of background, for the past few days/weeks I have felt like I am almost...

How do I find a man who won't cheat on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2576 days ago

4 November 2017 (F) - Thing is, I was cheated by two man before both I have child. Both men are the same age like 6 years older than me. First man, he made other woman pregnant that’s why I separated. Second man did not tell me he is married. Both man I did not get ...