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41-50,
anonymous
writes:why do i only seem to attract ( i use the word gently) problem men. i mean it in a way as they have mental health problems , i dont mind they have problems and thats part of who they are and i can manage life with them easily but after a short while they blame themselves and leave . i dont mother them im there when and if they need to talk i dont demand anything from them i try and live in a positive way so i dont 'assist' in getting them in a low mood. most recently i guy i had been seeing messaged me saying he wasnt feeling good and he was ending it and that i can do better than him , i havent done better than him and want him in my life ,i know he was feeling really low when he said this so im not taking it at face value yet as i know when people get low they say things they dont really mean. ive been at a very low point once in my life but i came back and in the best place ive ever been and i want ot show him theres hope but how can i do this if he wont reply to me Reply to this Question
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reader, Katie26  +, writes (5 December 2017):
First of all, it is very sweet of you to be there for someone while they are struggling. But,life is only once, the world is too big, the most important person in your life should be you. And as a woman, you deserve a man who will take care of you, love you and value you more than anyone else. I am not saying you should abandon him,continue what you are doing, give all your love but do not hurt yourself in the process. Be selfish, be happy with yourself...you deserve it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2017): I am the same as this man I push every guy I dated away they only thing you can put is I am here when ever you need me and hope he comes back ..
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