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writes:Why would someone who you have told them no and they know you don't want to do the unreasonable request they asked you keep pressuring you and pressuring you to try and do what they want. You have even blocked their calls and they still phone you off a different number. They have told you that you have a certain time limit to comply and you still have ignored them .They accuse me of bullying them. They stand to lose everything by keep on doing this to me, where as I have everything to gain by losing this person.Why does this person not stop harassing me. Reply to this Question
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reader, Billy Bathgate  +, writes (19 November 2017):
Start keeping track of the harassing calls etc. Go to your local police station and file a complaint then get an order of protection against this person.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (19 November 2017):
 You go to the police, OP
Seems like there is something really shady going on and if this doesn't get nipped in the bud you can be in danger.
While I don't get the whole story as it's so very vague - I don't really think you have many options other than contacting the Police.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (19 November 2017):
 Because " they" want the money, duh- And because
" they " know that you are quite a softie who is eager to please and appease, as already shown by the fact that you have already done a lot for " them " - without " them " having to appreciate or reciprocate. In fact , maybe without even having met " them " yet ??
They- but he's a he , I guess ? - thinks that if he keeps pushing you'll cave . He did not take seriously your first refusal, and/ or he's a person who does not take " no " for an answer because he does not respect boundaries , and he does not respect boundaries because he does not respect you, since you have been so eager to help out in change of nothing, which a person like this sees like a proof of weakness.
Keep him blocked and keep ignoring him; eventually he'll get tired. Just do not answer phone calls from numbers which you don't know or aren't in your contact list ( like most people would do ANYWAY ). Since this person lives abroad, I guess - you don't even need to involve the police , because what can he do ? He is surely not going to show up at your door, since the whole argument-cim-blackmail started precisely... because he is not willing to come to you !
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2017): Hi,I am the OP and to add a bit more info, they want me to go somewhere dangerous to see them, where as there is no reason as to why they can’t meet me somewhere else and if I won’t go they are wanting a large sum of money instead and then they will come meet me somewhere else.
And no they don’t need the large sum of money to be able to come and see me.
They want it to pay their debts and keep members of their family happy, and I’ve already done to much for them as it is with no appreciation.
So if I have blocked them as to say leave me alone and they know I’m not going to do what they want then why keep contacting me then.
They have set the rules and a time limit to comply by so why keep going on at me.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (19 November 2017):
 As you have not given the slightest clue what this is about (personal or business?), I think people will find it difficult to give opinions/advice.
Perhaps just a clue on what it is about might help?
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