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Archived questions from: March, 2015 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Would a single man of 45 who has never settled down give up his 'freedom' now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

31 March 2015 (F) - Hello and Thank you for reading. My question is about men/a man and I'd appreciate hearing from the male perspective as well as females. If a man is single at age 45 and has never felt ready to settle down but is now kind of shifting in that...

Should I try to win him back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3526 days ago

31 March 2015 (F) - I dated a guy for a month and it was going so well at the beginning and we were both really into each other, but then he started to get too serious too fast after 2 weeks he told me he loved me and wants marriage and kids asking those kinds of ...

Do you think I've made the right decision to not attend this wedding, where my Bf will be the Best man?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3528 days ago

30 March 2015 (F) - this may seem like a minor situation but it's stressing me out and im a grad student so extra stress is bad. A few months ago I had a falling out with my ex flatmates who are a couple. My boyfriend took their side which upset me. I posted on herea...

How can I get through this mountain of pressure? A new baby, difficult birth, my mother died unexpectedly and my husbane and my sister have betrayed me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

30 March 2015 (F) - Please help! Hubby and I have been having marriage problems since the birth of my 2nd child and a difficult pregnancy and long recovery time (8 weeks) from an planned c section which ended up being an emergency as the surgeon made a medical error ...

His (now pregnant) one night stand is causing angst for us. Do I stand by my man and help him through this difficult time or leave?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3528 days ago

30 March 2015 (F) - Please help. My boyfriend of 5 years and i took a break. During this time he had a one night stand with a condom. Two months later we started going to counseling and everything seemed to be working out. He even proposed marriage and our...

Is he stringing me along or is he serious about having a relationship with me? I miss him so much.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3527 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - Hi all, I really need advise, I can't stop thinking about this guy. I've known him and have been out with him and apparently he says we are still together. He lives elsewhere now since leaving for a job. and we havent really seen each other. We ...

What are the signs when a man has serious intentions to marry? How can I be sure he's serious about us?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3523 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - How will I know if a man has the intention to marry me? My boyfriend of almost 2 years, has at some point said he wouldn't want to marry again. When we broke up and wanted to get back together, I pointed this to him and he said he changed his ...

He was my first boyfriend. 11 months together. Then it ended badly. What help would help me deal with all the hurt I feel over this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - 2 months ago my boyfriend and I broke up. I am struggling so badly, and Ive almost gone to see a psychologist. He was my first boyfriend; he was 26 I was 24. We were together for 11 months. He persued me in the beginning and even though he was t...

How dare she lecture me about our quick visit where my son barely did anything, when she allowed her son to continue his disruptive behaviour for 30 minutes!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3530 days ago

28 March 2015 (F) - I'm so annoyed about something that's happened at work and I'm not sure whether to confront the person, speak to my manager or keep quite. I work in an office 3 days a week- Monday's, Tuesdays and Thursday's as I have a 3 year old son. ...

I do still love my Gf. Yet I'm having feelings for another. Should I talk about this to my Gf?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

27 March 2015 (M) - I am in a relationship of 5 years and I'm in my final year of university so I am away from my girlfriend weeks at a time. Recently we have been arguing more frequently and we both recognise the spark is going out and so are currently trying to ignit...

What else? Tried anti-depressants, counselling and contraceptive pill to try to control side affects of heavy periods. Any further suggestions before I see Dr next week?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

27 March 2015 (F) - Hi, I have had some great advice on here before relating to periods and anxiety - people suggested fish oil and cutting out caffeine and these have really helped me a lot - as a result I am nowhere near as anxious as I was. However, I won...

Why is he so insistent he made me jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3532 days ago

26 March 2015 (F) - If a guy asks you if you he made you jealous one night and then proceeds to list a play-by-play of your every reaction from that night justifying why he thinks he made you jealous, was he trying to make you jealous or is making people jealous a ...

How to overcome the sudden void left behind through my decision to have my very loved sick cat euthanized?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

26 March 2015 (F) - Hi, I know this is not a relationship question or even a question but right now my world is just in ruins. I have decided to euthanize my baby cat. He was very sick and I did not have the money to make him better. I feel so guilty. I stayed with...

How do I leave a job that needs me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

26 March 2015 (F) - I work in a small company of 12-14 people. Besides my manager, I'm the only one in my department. There's two other depts. I've been here 9 months. My position requires negotiating rates and contracts, and maintaining a good relationship and...

My sister's rage is out of control

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3534 days ago

24 March 2015 (F) - Before our studies commenced we had both decided to live together in a two bed flat in the Student Village. I thought it was going to be amazing... But it turns out that she gets angry and violent really, really easily. I have concerns that she's ...

Is this a break-up? Why did he threaten me and say such cruel things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3535 days ago

23 March 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf has told me he has some work related problems, and wanted me never to talk to him anymore. Long story short, he always make mountain out of mole person and he lies often, I don't entirely but his story. Still wanted to be the...

Stable relationship, no ups and downs, but no excitement either.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3535 days ago

23 March 2015 (F) - My boyfriend told me he's missing excitement in our relationship. He dosen't think it's a problem, but I'm thinking that if only we could add some he'd be more happy. His past relationship (his first one) was pretty explosive, arguments, probl...

Why do white guys always flirt with me and then I find out they have someone?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3533 days ago

23 March 2015 (F) - Im African American. Whenever a non-black guy flirts with me, its the same scenario over and over again that I've learned to play along with it just for fun. He'll be overly flirtacious with me, (one would blow kisses at me) I'd take the bait an...

Am I too young to be with one person forever, even if he's perfect?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3536 days ago

22 March 2015 (F) - Hi all, I am a 24 year old female who has been with my boyfriend going on 7 years. He was my first proper relationship and the only person I have had sex with. Everything between my boyfriend and I is what I presume all anyone could ever as...

Which is more important - love or compatibility?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3537 days ago

21 March 2015 (F) - This is so difficult. How important is compatibility in a relationship? We met online (not dating site). Neither of us were looking for a relationship at the time. We chatted, we clicked. He came to visit me. Being with him in person was the exact ...

I broke up with my girlfriend of 8 years but I just feel so upset. Help me please

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3536 days ago

21 March 2015 (M) - I'm in abit of a mess.. I finished a relationship with my ex girlfriend that lasted about 8 years, she was my first love, we were like soul mates. Unfortunately, over the last year or so we argued and issues began to arise, I started to think that ...

Does the bride buy the groom the wedding band?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3535 days ago

21 March 2015 (F) - I am getting married in a few weeks. It's kinda rushed because I am pregnant. My man lives in Germany and is relocating. I have pretty much paid and planned for the entire wedding. He promise to pay me back. I feel sad that this is happenin...

My boyfriend came back but what about this other guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3537 days ago

21 March 2015 (F) - Hi, I have been a relationship for almost 2 years now!lately things have been going downhill,we began to argue a lot and started fighting every single day..after one such major fight we stopped talking to each other for 3 weeks during which I got cl...

Will the over-sexualization of women ever stop?

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 3536 days ago

20 March 2015 (F) - Why are there so many expectations for women? I've started to notice a trend that women are mostly valued by their attractiveness. We're expected to shave, wear makeup, be skinny, have larger boobs and a nice butt, etc. The list goes on and on. I ...

Should I push this matter to be handled further or let it go since its my last day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3538 days ago

19 March 2015 (F) - Hi all, Some advice would be great. I've recently qualified as a nurse and have been working 8 weeks at a time in various areas as part of a scheme before I choose the area I enjoyed to take a permanent role. I started a new area 8 weeks ago n...

He's young, not on medications and he's not a virgin. So why could he not maintain an erection after some caressing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3539 days ago

19 March 2015 (F) - So I met this great guy at work. he's the nicest man I've ever met. I do enjoy sex, but to me there's definitely way more. He's 25 and I'm 26. If this helps when we worked together it was through a temp agency. So we don't see each other daily...

Why do some people twist everything around to make themselves look the victim?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3538 days ago

19 March 2015 (F) - So last year I was in a bind. I needed some cash. Asked my baby daddy to help me call a few friends to see if they can help out. They did, except for one friend. This is the one friend who always acts so concerned and caring, always wanting to know ...

How do I ask my employer for fewer hours to work my other job? I am leaving this employer

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3541 days ago

16 March 2015 (F) - I'm a full time Nanny that works with a work from home mom. I work 9-5 Monday through Friday with no benefits (no vacation days or sick days and no contract). Since the job is going to be up in May, I went job hunting to make sure I'm not jobless in ...

Comments about his best friend's new girl really upset me, am I being too jealous?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3540 days ago

16 March 2015 (F) - I don't know if I'm being stupid or not with this but I would like help and advice as these sort of things go over and over in my mind. My boyfriends best friend moved to Australia a couple of months ago and he messaged my boyfriend the other da...

I have a huge secret crush on a woman who has become friends with my own fiancee. Do I reveal my crush, or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3542 days ago

15 March 2015 (M) - I'm engaged to a wonderful woman that I have been with for 8 years (since I was 18). She is a beautiful person, inside and out, and I feel terrible guilt about asking this. She has become friends with a girl (let's call her Jane) over the past two ...

I'd like to live alone but I'm afraid as well ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3543 days ago

15 March 2015 (F) - Is living alone at age 21 a bad decision? Basically I'm living in an apartment with my roommate but during the last semester of our senior year at college, she will most likely (if she is accepted) be studying in another state, meaning I will h...

How do I get back on the path to really enjoying my life as I did in my youth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3542 days ago

15 March 2015 (M) - Is it normal or even healthy to remember my ex wife of 20 years even though I'm happily remarried and on a better path overall? It's been about 5 years since we split. I don't think of her too often, maybe every few days to weeks, but I do miss her...

He thinks I'm bitter and a gossip. Have I put him off for good?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3544 days ago

14 March 2015 (F) - My ex use to think I was hot - until he started chatting up other women. So I became bitter and jealous. We were together losely - nothing serious, but I guess I was annoyed he was looking elsewhere. However now he has gone off me altogeth...

Can a relationship really survive without desire

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3545 days ago

12 March 2015 (F) - After 9 months of an on off relationship we have settled onto seeing each other two or three times a week due to distance. I feel its not enough for me as we never spend whole week ends together or go away as he's too focused on his business. He is ...

What should I include in a CV/Resume to make it look good?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3545 days ago

12 March 2015 (F) - Hello! As a lot of you know I have been on this website for a good couple of years now and have ended up having a rather difficult time when it has come to education. I have suffered from various mental health problems since the age of 13, and d...

He hasn't text me all day but he's been on WhatsApp very regularly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2898 days ago

11 March 2015 (M) - Hello. I can't really find a question anywhere that relates to my situation so I will ask it myself. I am a gay man, at around January last year - this guy started talking to me out of the blue (I do know him anyway, but haven't spoke to him in y...

How can I improve my social skills so that I can hold on to a job and improve my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3546 days ago

11 March 2015 (F) - I am scared what will happen to me as I have no useful skills and no future. I am a social pariah, so out of 100 desperate job applicants you would not pick me. Lucky for me I have a nice family and my mum lets me live in the house, but at 27 I need ...

Should I keep working or put myself through college?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3547 days ago

10 March 2015 (F) - I'm not sure how to explain this but here it goes. I got into a full time job right after High School, I never went to college. This was mainly because I needed/wanted money because I wanted a car, needed to put some money into savings, and oth...

My grandmother's medical condition is dire. But have we, her family, let her down by accepting medical advice that her body cannot hold on much longer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3547 days ago

10 March 2015 (F) - Hi everyone. I don't really know if anyone will be able to help me but I thought it was worth a try. I wrote in a few days ago about feeling really stressed, one of the reasons being that my Grandma is really ill. Well, over the last few days sh...

Curious, maybe even suspicious...

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3540 days ago

10 March 2015 (M) - My girlfriend constantly calls me daddy during sex. She also likes to role play that she is 13 and I'm her father coming to her bedroom when everyone else is asleep. Her father is deceased but I know from her mother that they, my gf and her dad, ...

Will men still fancy me if I get a short hair cut?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3528 days ago

9 March 2015 (F) - I feel like doing something brave and unconventional, and one thing I'd like to do is to cut my shoulder-long hair to a dramatic, very-short hair cut. But I'm afraid that if I do so, men won't fancy me any more, as people sometimes assume short-ha...

There is an abusive baby Daddy in the background. Do you think she was trying to ask me if I like her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3549 days ago

9 March 2015 (M) - Ok So about 2 Months Ago I Met This Girl Through A Mutual Friend. Now She Has A Baby Daddy Who Is Abusive And I Have Had To Get Involved Before. She's Ready To Leave Him And The Other Night She Told Me That She Has A Guy Friend Who's Rea...

Two sexual encounters and since the second one I've lost my mojo. Have I closed down emotionally? Why would this happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3549 days ago

8 March 2015 (F) - Dear Cupids. I don't know what's wrong with me. I'm 18, and at uni. I have had two sexual encounters in my life, the first of which was good, the second very average. But I've completely lost my mojo. It's been such a long long time since I've ...

These ladies are all home owners and take pride in their home- why couldn't they respect mine?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3549 days ago

8 March 2015 (F) - Hi, Something happened recently which annoyed me some what and I would like opinions as to whether I'm being too sensitive or not... 2 weeks ago my work organised for us all to have an evening out- now seeing as I lived closest to the venue whe...

Where else can I get help? What else can I do to stop her recurring bullying?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3549 days ago

8 March 2015 (?) - I am in desperate need of some advice here, I'll try and keep it short, thank you in advance. For the past 18 months, I have been dealing with a problem that I thought I had solved. I started off university with a girl I'll call H who became a goo...

I met the long-lost, love of my life after 20 years...but I'm married with a son

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3549 days ago

8 March 2015 (M) - How can someone I hardly knew from 20 ago capture my heart again? But I'm married with a child. 20 years ago (I was 18) I met the most beautiful girl I had ever seen at a carnival. We swapped numbers and met up a couple of times and for the next...

I am not happy with the size of it!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3548 days ago

7 March 2015 (M) - Hello people, this maybe a daft issue but it really gets to me. I have been depressed for ages now and well I feel the most of it is I'm not happy with my penis size. My first relationship ended with the girl dumping me and then spreading th...

It went to trial. He was found not guilty. The case is over. why do some people think it's not rape if it was non-consensual but not violent?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3551 days ago

7 March 2015 (F) - I was raped about 18 months ago, people believed me, the police believed me and it went to trial. Unfortunately he was found not guilty. Every now and then I notice some people who I bump into just completely ignore me when they used to talk to me ...

Why does my Bf deliberately set out to upset me? Everythings has to be on his terms

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3551 days ago

6 March 2015 (F) - My boyfriend tends to upset me on purpose. What I notice about him is he would sometimes do what he knows i dislike, or sometimes refuses to do things that I ask of him and these are really small things. I just dont seem to understand how he alway...

How do I move on from his lies? We loved each other, yet now he's married another girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3551 days ago

6 March 2015 (F) - I was in love with a guy. We both loved each other but unfortunately he got married with some other girl from his locality as He told me that his parents arranged his marriage already and he is sorry because he can't do anything.He can't go against ...