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writes: Ok So about 2 Months Ago I Met This Girl Through A Mutual Friend. Now She Has A Baby Daddy Who Is Abusive And I Have Had To Get Involved Before. She's Ready To Leave Him And The Other Night She Told Me That She Has A Guy Friend Who's Really Good To Her And She Likes Him. She Said IM Not Sure Of He Likes Me. I'm her onlyfriend Who Doesn't Try To Take Advantage Of Her. But I Think She Was Scared To Ask Me Out Directly Because IM Such A Good Friend To Her. what Do You Guys Think. How Should I Approach The Situation despite there being an abusive Baby Daddy Involved. And Do You Think She Was Trying To ask me if I like her? Or hoping I would reveal if I like her?Because I Think She Likes me Reply to this Question
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reader, riotyamaharacer +, writes (10 March 2015):
riotyamaharacer is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe Whole Kid Thing Is Complicated I've Thought About Most Of The Situation And Accept All Responsibilities That Will Come WithThe Situation.bBut Im Just Interested Of She Likes Me By What She Told Me, And She's going To Bounce One Relationship Into Another She's Co Dependent.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (9 March 2015):
 If she is still involved with someone she is i no place or condition to start a new relationship.
even once she leaves him she is going to need time alone to heal and should not be getting involved with someone new.
when you say abusive... what do you mean?
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (9 March 2015):
 She's calling him baby daddy, which means she still lives with him but no longer considers her boyfriend. Don't you think when she tries to date other people it would cause the baby daddy to be even more abusive? They many not be in love but he will feel his territory is violated. If she wants to move out she needs help from her family or even get the police involved. Either that or he moves out or goes to jail. If you help her move out he would be asking, "did you fuck him?" and that wouldn't be pleasant. You can be emotionally supportive but try to stay out of his sight. She can like anyone, play games with guys all she wants but her priority now is her and her child's safety. After the separation is complete and she has talked to court about custody then she can think about dating.
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