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writes: I have a question about when to say I love you. I have read that women should never say it first. Fair enough. But what if your guy is always saying things in regular conversation like, "You know I love you babe to do this or that for you." or "That's why I love you baby." Does that qualify as saying I love you first? It confuses me that he does this but won't say it to my face. I feel like he does love me by his actions, but...
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks both of you for your replies. They are both from different perspectives but both make sense. There are times I have the urge to just tell him I love him because that is how I feel. I've heard that one day it will just come out. I will let nature takes its course.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 October 2009):
Trying to get a man to say 'I love you', is like trying to draw blood from a stone. He did say he loved you, just in a very manly way that meant he didn't suddenly come across as vulnerable. (We men can be difficult to understand sometimes). But, what is important, is that his actions show he does love you, which is better than him saying he loves you, but then not showing it. Just relax, he'll say it when he says it. Meanwhile, enjoy knowing you're loved.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2009): i really had no idea if he was going to say it back, but he did so im glad i said. the way i said it i basically told him completely how i felt about him, everything. maybe it would be easier to write him a letter as sometimes it is easier to say how you feel in writing then out loud. then after he has read it, you two can talk about it and how you both feel. i wish you good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2009): yes he did. i love hearing when he says he loves me, it makes me very happy. and he loves it when i say it too. though i know he is a bit shy when he says it as he hasnt ever felt like this before (though neither have i) and doesnt normally show his feelings. it is wonderful when you know that the person you love loves you back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDid your man say it back? I think that's my only reservation. I would be embarassed if he didn't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2009): i understand your problem, some man are very hard to read. in my opinion it doesnt matter if it is the man that says it first or the woman. if you feel that you love him than you should go with it and tell him. some men find it hard to express how they feel and tend not to show their emotions. i know this from experience, as the man i love doesnt show much emotion and i was the one that first said that i loved him. and it turned out that he had been feeling the same way but didnt know how to say it. so it may be that your guy does love you but just doesnt know how to say it or show it.
good luck for what you choose to do
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