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writes:Okay so this might sound complicated. I known this guy for as long as I could remember. On my last year of high school I had several relationship problems with a certain ex. So my friend who I known for ages was there with me all the time. He listened to all my problems and hung out with me all the time at school. Little did I know he liked me for a while since freshmen year. I think 4 years. So like I was unaware of this. At one point we were in a relationship for a day..I know how ridiculous as it sounds, but I didn't feel okay about it. I didn't want to hurt him. On the first day we went out I kissed him. Then I avoided him for a while. Then after that a few months later I found out he found another girl, but she ended being this "rebound" girl so he could forget me, but he couldn't. After that on grad night we held hands. For those moments, it felt right, but somehow I felt weird. He told me he'd wait for me for a year for my answer.I ended up ignoring him for 4 months..(weird that the number 4 is used often) Anyway for those 4 months I wanted to clear my mind and calm down, but one day I tried calling him. I felt fine talking to him but somehow he sounded different. When I saw him on Friday... I couldn't stop looking at him, he changed in a good way. I broke his heart before. Now, I think he broke mine too. Just now I found out he found himself a girlfriend, and I don't know what to do. My feelings were confused, but now it's clear I really have fallen for him. I believe it's too late. I'm too slow! Now that I found out, I'm afraid Should I tell him how I feel? Or should I just leave it and move on? He said he'd wait for me for a year, but maybe his answer is no.
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reader, AskLadyJuJu +, writes (28 October 2009):
 you cant expect someone to wait for someone else..life just doesnt work that way.. and its sad that now that he has changed in a good way you find that you like him.. anyways i think you should tell him how you feel and how you werent ready at the time and you didnt know what you wanted and that your also not trying to mess up what he has now... and if he has moved on i think you need to move on because he might have gotten tired of waiting for you and has got over it already.. but you never know what hes feeling unless you talk to him. goodluck
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