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Should I hide my emotions from my boyfriend?

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Question - (16 November 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 November 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *azzy924 writes:

Hi im 18 and sometimes i get emotional and i just want to cry my eyes out cuz either im happy or mad and have no other way to let it out.

But i dont like to do it around my boyfriend because i think he might think that i am a cry baby or something is that bad?

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A female reader, Jazzy924 United States +, writes (16 November 2009):

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Thanks for your answers they helped me out

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A female reader, Emaz help United Kingdom +, writes (16 November 2009):

Emaz help agony auntI think that sometimes you need a good cry. It depends on if you feel comfortable crying infront of your bf because of course he'll ask why you're crying and if you don't actually have a reason then you might feel a bit embarressed of silly. Only because men usually don't understand us women like that lol but if he loves you then he wont care whether you cry infront of him or not

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A female reader, Another_Kapiti New Zealand +, writes (16 November 2009):

Another_Kapiti agony auntOf course you shouldn't hide your emotions from your boyfriend, he loves you! When you hide your true self you partner is only seeing half of you, the always happy half. That's not reality!

I can see your point, and I used to hate crying in front of my boyfriend (basically because I look like a drowned rat and my nose spreads!) but he loves it because he can look after me (he likes being caring and protective and comforting) and make me happy again.

Denying your boyfriend this chance to make things right in your world again is silly, it'll make him feel so much closer to you and will only strengthen your relationship!

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