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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: Hi, I hate my job, I am leaving in May, as I am enrolled on a course from September, so am planning to take summer off and relax, but that is still 6 months away and I feel like I am cracking up, I work 8am to 7pm, very stressful and since 3 girls left, I am alone and feel like I can't take it, I cry most days and hate my life, I have also just made a major msitake with regards to a campaign for the director and when they find out I will be screwed! I would like to leave, but then because I know I am going in May and it is diffcult to get job and have money (it is bad pay though) I should stay for another 6 months, In feb I would of been here 2 years. Please help me with words of how I can cope the next six months in this hell
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 November 2009):
First of all, are you sure there is no way you can get away from this job? Even if you can find something else to do that doenst' pay as much but that you find a little more interesting, that will make you feel much better. If not, then when you're away from work, really spend time on yourself. Go out with friends, have weekends away, go for a massage or anything like that, that will allow you to feel great about yourself. Spoil yourself! (But don't get into debt!). And focus entirely on that new course. Whatever it is you're doing, can you start learning for it at all now in spare time? Your work will be difficult if you hate it, but if you can focus on everyting out of work and feel great when you're away from there, it will make it easier. I hated working for my old boss, so outside work I took up photography to calm me. Maybe you could try that. You'll get there. all the best.
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