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writes:part one; in aug 08 my then finance added some guy to her facebook and when asked about it she said she thought she knew him, she then deleted him and i thought that was the end of it, or so i thought.part two; in jan 09 she went to her work christmas party got drunk, she talked to me at approx 2:30 am said she loved me, then approx 20-30 mins later she went home with a coworker, tried to have sex but had problems with the condom.end result was she caught chlymidia from him, but what she didnt tell him was she has hsvpart three; as it turns out the guy from part one and her were having sexual talks via emails, he was leaving gifts for her at her work, she wanted to meet etc.after telling me about her coworker she emailed this other guy that she could not have any link to him but still wanted to talk to him, so they came up with him creating a a new facebook account under a girls name.over her life time she has yet to have a relationship where she did not cheat, my question is can she be trusted again, is it possible to respect her again or am i just waisting my time
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reader, defeated +, writes (22 December 2009):
i thank you all for your comments and advise, i beleave i know what i have to do.
in all this there is a major problem to go along with all this, we have a family, she has a child i have a child and we have a child together it pains me deeply to seperate the children and the tought of not seeing my other child regulary
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2009): Drop her like yesterday's newspaper.
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reader, april1116  +, writes (17 November 2009):
 honey you are wasting your time seriously, let it go. cause if you don't shes gonna wind up giving you something you can't get rid of and i know you don't want that, but anyway she has showed you repeatedly that she is not gonna change not even trying to make in effort. anyway stop wasting your time and effort, cause she is only bringing you heart ache. for real so baby please let that go cause you can do bad all bye yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2009): get rid and find a girl who loves and respects you, this one obviously has her own interests at heart.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (16 November 2009):
 Sure, you can trust her. You can trust she is going to cheat again.
Do you mean that?
Stop wasting your time and more important, your heart. Stay with her and you will become a bitter man. And you can trust me on that.
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reader, Lola1 +, writes (16 November 2009):
 People can change. However, she won't change while she is with you and may not change ever.
Don't you think you deserve better, whether the capacity is in her to change or not? Have you not alread ybeen patient enough?
Good luck, my friend. :-)
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 November 2009):
No, you're totally wasting your time with her. If she's cheated this much and lied to everyone, she'll hurt you more and more. There is a woman out there who will commit to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2009): Waisting your time, brother.
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