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writes:i have been with my bf for almost 3years now the one time we broke up because he was a player and i figured i had to move on.i fel for his friends kindness and mistook it for love he heard im dating his friend and he came back to fix thingsits been a year and a few months since we fixed things but he can't seem to forget i had a thing with his friend i dont expect him to forget but i don't like it when he uses it as an excuse for his behaviour.he says he loves but when ever he looks at me the past comes back to him he even said he has started having dreams about us breaking up.last month i went to my uncles place and had a holiday fling with "mr g" for the first time in a long time i felt so good about myself like somebody cared and found me attractiveever since then i have started to doubt my love for my bf...im not sure if i love him and im starting to notice all the bad things about him!have i fallen out of love? or am i just confused?
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reader, imogen1068  +, writes (16 November 2009):
 it sounds as if you may have fallen out of love with him because your noticing all the bad things about him, when your in love you always see the good things. he obviously cant let go of the past because everytime he looks it you it probley haunts him when you had a thing with his friend. i think its best to let go of eachother if it carries on this way, but you could always try and work this out if you still care. but to me it sounds as if you have fallen out of love
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reader, jessica-lea +, writes (16 November 2009):
 Hi :),
Its only you that knows if you really love your boyfriend or not. Deep down you will realise if you are still in love or not.
The only advice i can give you is be cautious of your relationship at the moment and dont do anything stupid because then maybe he wont and you will both realise that you are meant to be togher.
Im sure that if you have been together for that long he still loves you otherwise he wouldnt be with you ;)
I hope this helps :D
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