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Archived questions from: December, 2007 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Why would a man remark the relationship has no future, yet carry on with it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6173 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - can anyone explain why my boyfriend says we aint got a future together yet he wont finish with me...

Should I choose the high school sweetheart or the stable friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - I am getting married in a couple of months. Today we had a high school class reunion and I saw someone I kinda liked back then. The thing is he kinda liked me too. He is still single and we started talking and I got to asking myself whether I ...

What does an emotional relationship involve?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6174 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Hiya i'm just curious here. But when people say they have been having an emotional relationship what do they mean? Well what does it involve?...

Don't men still do old-fashioned things for the women they love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I'm a little irritated with my b/f. For two weeks, I've asked him 3 times to air up the tire on my car because it looked low. Each time, he blew me off saying, "Yeah, yeah, yeah..." and then doing nothing. Today I had a flat and he was pissed at me ...

How do you 'grind' dance?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Okay.This is my first time doing this sort of thing so here i go. A guy i really like is going to ask me to a dance.(at least, thats what he is telling everyone) The dance is in two weeks. my school does alot of grinding and i just don't know h...

Are these extreme yoyo moods normal or is there something wrong with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - hi. this is quite an odd question i suppose and i dont know how many people will be able to answer it but her goes: im 13 years old and this really weird thing happens. one second im feeling so happy, like im on top of the world and nothing can ...

My husband has molested our daughter for years. What should I do now?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I would like your opinion on this serious issue. I was in bed with my husband over 20 years ago when my daughter, then aged about 2, climbed into be between us. After some time, I noticed my husband was getting aroused and I thought he was masturba...

I want to be able to get better at dating relationships, how would I get better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6173 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - I've got this problem. It's not a sex/relationships type problem, more a social skills/confidence one. I'm a 21-year-old man from England, have a good social life and enjoy my work, but I have confidence issues. People say my social skills ar...

Does this sound like an orgasm??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I'm 18 Years old. Recently started rubbing and tickling my clit. After a few minutes i get a strong urge to pee and my body tenses up. I can also feel and see my vagina beating. Is all this normal ? Does it sound like an orgasm ?...

He is really nice and good looking and I am not...so I really doubt he is interested in me...but is it possible??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I am a 17 year old girl, and I have worked in a small cafe for the last 4 months. One of the guys there is 32, and I always thought he disliked me. But over the last couple of weeks we have been a lot more comfortable around each other... he is ...

I am so scared to ask boys out because I feel they will reject me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I am scared to ask boys out as i am afraid they will say no. because i am fat and ugly. I don't know what to do. I always have this same dream about going out with this boy i really fancy and we end up kissing in the end. but to make matters worse. ...

Should I tell her to leave me alone??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - hi, I'm 22 and broke-up from my longterm gf a few weeks ago as she was cheating on me and i found out she started going out with the lad she had cheated on me with. 2 weeks ago it ended between them and shes textin me wanting to be my friend but...

How can somebody go from loving you to being with somebody else in the flip of a switch??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6175 days ago

29 December 2007 (M) - I have had a relationship with a girl who has been a long-time friend of the family. I have been married once for 19 years and in a relationship with another woman for 8 years. The woman that i was seeing has been married twice and is legally ...

Should I move on or follow my heart and wait??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - Hey:) Heres whats up. I'm 15 and im in love with a guy 29, he's not a teacher or nothin either. I met him when I was 12 yrs old but I didnt think much of him I was just starting to get into boys my own age. When I turned 13 I started getting ...

Does avoiding my ex make me a coward??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

29 December 2007 (M) - Am I a coward? I'm avoiding contact with my ex-girlfriend, and so I'm avoiding MSN messenger all together. I've tried to be her friend after the break up, but I get too upset to keep doing it. It's been months since she broke up with me, and I just ...

How do I keep her in mind but not irritate her independance??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6175 days ago

29 December 2007 (M) - My girl broke up with me after thanksgiving. She admitted she just not sure what she wants. She does need to get her life straight no doubt. But i'm in love with her. She admits she loves me too. She is just screwed up and I know it. I knew it ...

Do you think this flirty guy loves me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - I'm a 13 year old girl. This guy always flirts with me but when he says he loves me it hits me with a good feeling inside. One time he asked me If I loved him back. I shrugged because he made me feel shy. I like him a bit. Do you think he really ...

What makes a good relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - I am kinda curious of what makes a good relationship? We all know Trust and communication but there has to be more layers than this? does anyone Know ...

I know I should move on from my long-distance ex but just feel I can't.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6175 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - How to i get over my ex? We split a month ago after going out for 4 months, it was long distance but we fell in love but he broke it off as the distance was gettin to much and he couldnt keep affording to come up as i'm only 16 and not allowed ...

How do I get through these situations and improve me self-esteem??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6176 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - My daughter is two years of age and is it still possible to go through post pardum depression? When is rains, it pours. First situation, I left my daughter's dad because he cheated on me twice. He cheated on me once and I forgave him. He cheat...

Is it wrong for me to hate my skin colour?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - Alot of people think i'm pretty but i can't see what there talking about, i look in the mirror and see a girl that is over weight (116lbs) to short (5'0) and just very ugly. i have small boobs a ghetto booty (not proud of) and i think the rest of me ...

How do I refrain from reminding her all the time of her infidelities, as I do want to continue together for the children's sake but it's hard to bury the past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

28 December 2007 (M) - i have been with my partner for 11 years, and she has cheated on me three times,the last one was the worst cos it was with my best mate,i love her to bits,but every time we argue i always bring it up i dont mean to but it happens,how can i get it ...

Is it all in my head? Are there signs that he likes me? What do these dreams mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - This is really two questions in one. I'll start with part one. Ok ive been at this college for about 3 months and made loads of new friends. There this guy there in my class who is dead nice but i'm not sure if i like him or not one minute i don't ...

How do I keep a New Year's resolution?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

28 December 2007 (M) - I know this isnt a sex etc related question but if possible can i have sum advice. Im planning to do the old new years resolution thing, and i was wondering if any1 has actually managed to keep theres, because i hear of everyone saying thet will...

We had a little scuffle of a fight. Should I end it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6177 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - i've been dating a guy for 7 months who's going through a divorce. until two days ago we had a normal relationship with its ups and downs but were doing fine then he had a little to much to drink and we had a physical scuffle. i only got a scratch ...

Was I being ungrateful?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

28 December 2007 (M) - This is quite strange but I will explain. For christmas this year my gf said that her brother would be purchasing me a leather jacket. She said it would make up for the past christmas's that he has missed out on buying me a present. She said it ...

What are the pros and cons of having separate bedrooms when living together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - hi i am wondering what are the pros and cons of having separate bedrooms when living together. any views / perspectives etc. ? thanks J...

Tips about men attracting women and the mistakes generally made during the process?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

27 December 2007 (M) - I HAVE A QUESTION AS TO WHAT ARE THE SECRETS TO ATTRACT WOMEN. HOW CAN MEN ATTRACT WOMEN AND WHAT ARE THE MISTAKES COMMONLY FOR MAN? [Moderator's note. Caps off next time, please.]...

Am I in love or only feeling jealous of her moving on? Why are my mind and heart going in thousands of directions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

27 December 2007 (M) - I would like to know if I am still in love or is it just being hurt. Please let me explain. My ex and I broke up 5 months ago, after 7 years, because I cheated on her with a friend of hers. I know I am a very bad person and I pray all the time...

I've known him ten years and we have different birth sigs. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6178 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - I have met him 10 years ago, he is my first love. We dated back in 1998, then we split up bcoz he was seen with a girl while I was away studying abroad. Then we dated again briefly in 2000, and went out again for several months in 2005. The last ...

I'm a teacher and have formed a good online friendship with a quite mature teenager(17). Am I wrong to want to meet her - or even to be talking to her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6172 days ago

27 December 2007 (?) - hi there. i am a 28 year old teacher..been working near London for about 5 years.. problem is I met a girl on line about 4 months ago..she is 17 doing 'A' levels in a different school (about 100 miles away) i might add, and is quite mature.....

The only person that ever notices me is my fiance. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - o.k. so here is the thing I'm completely invisable to my family. They don't care what i want or what i say they just go on about their lives like i don't exist and i don't know what to do. I extremely close to lashing out but i don''t want to do ...

Would you let your husband go away for the weekend with a woman he fancies?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - I have been with my husband for eleven years now, and although things are fairly good between us, he has developed a crush on another woman. He met her on a weekend away with the boys in the middle of summer, and has been sending odd messages her...

How do I tell my boyfriend that I slept in the same bed as another guy, even though it was platonic?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6172 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - I went out with my friends a few days before xmas, and it got quite late, so i stayed at a friends house. There were only two double beds, and four of us. The couple got one, and i was left to the other one, having to share with my male friend who i ...

Is it true that if you can't love yourself you can't love someone else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - Is it true that if u can't love yourself then you cant love someone else? i thought i disagreed but now i cant get it out of my head....

He knows how I feel about him, but how can I tell if he feels the same about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - I've worked with this guy for about 2 months now, and i've liked him for quite a while. The more i try to get mad at him, or try to find a flaw or a fault. I seem to get drawn in to him even more. But, me so scared to tell him how i feel, I'm being ...

Should I continue talking to customers outside of work, or will that be considered inappropriate for business purposes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6179 days ago

25 December 2007 (F) - I keep attracting older guys, like in their 30's, I'm 17. I work at a family business and get noticed by a few older guys a couple times a month. Sometimes they give me their myspace, phone number, or just...call up the store and have a little ...

Is this kind of fighting my fault?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

25 December 2007 (F) - I am in a loving but emotional rollercoaster of a relationship that can get verbally abusive and extremely hurtful. It's been 3 years and we are both tired of it, recognise the problem, but somehow haven't worked out a way of dealing with it. Let ...

How can we show them it is for real and how can I find out if all he wants is sex??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

25 December 2007 (F) - Ok I'm 14 and he's 14 we have been together a lil over 3 months, we met through my ex and he and my ex are really good friend but while i was with my ex he asked me out and at first i didnt know what to do but in the end i broke up with my ex to go ...

How can I show her a good time and hopefully hook-up with her??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6180 days ago

24 December 2007 (M) - Ok well I like this one girl, she has been a good friend and she recenly has been dating guys but no luck and I want to show her a good time to cheer her up and hopefully be with her. What can I do? We are going to hang out neer the beach where th...

We broke up and every day it gets harder and harder to breath...when will the pain stop?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6179 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - So.. Basically, my boyfriend and I broke up. It's been about two months now, but I still love him. Or at least, I think I loved him, and the feeling won't go away. I'm not quite sure what love really is, but I think I loved him in some way. He...

What should I do about the attached older guy that flirts with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - There is this guy who flirts with me but has a girlfriend and is older than me by 3 years. Help!!!! What should i do ?...

Is it ok to restart things with my ex??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - Ok so i was dating my boyfriend for a short while, yet i was very attached to him. Then i found him with another girl in his bed. 3 months has past and i still have tons of feelings for him. He says he does to and he regrets it so much and hes feel...

Who do random people always stare at me, everyday? Sometimes I accidentaly flirt with them, though I don't realise. Is this a cause?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - I get this like almost everyday, including going out in publics and where i attend school. i get people from both genders looking, glancing, starring,.... at me. I just mind my own business like everybody else. I also get the same reaction...

What should I do so he chases me for a change??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6179 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - Hi, I am a girl and i like my guy flatmate at uni. He's, funny, attractive and intelligent. He knows how i feel, but since we moved in i have made too much of an effort wih him...like i do his laundry, wazshing, ironing etc. Basically, now...

Why have no guys tried hitting on me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - I think im not the only one out there with this problem. I'm 17 and i have never had a boyfriend before. now almost all my friend either have a bf or had a bf...i feel bad inside that no one wants me and no one wants me to be theirs...i ask my mom ...

Is my crush rejecting me or is their chemistry??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6181 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - im confused!! I had this party yesterday and i invited my whole class, my crush was invited as well. The guys at the party(who were more btw)did not want to dance but instead sat together and chatted, so one of them asks for playing cards. I went...

What can I get him for our anniversery to show I am serious??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6181 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - For Christmas, my bf of 9 months got me this really beautiful necklace with my birthstone and everything from a fine jewelry store.I wasn't able to go out and get him something, so i made him this thoughtful gift. He loved it, but I really wish I ...

My ex took my virginity and would like to have sex again but now he has a gf.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6181 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - When me and my ex were together 6 months ago we had sex for the first time. Since then we hardly talk execpt on the phone. He says he loves me and wants to have sex again. I don't whether to or not? I don't want him to think i'm a whore and i no...

How can I get over my gf having slept with other men??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6181 days ago

24 December 2007 (M) - I have trouble accepting that my girlfriend has had sex with other guys besides me. I know that I shouldnt care. I have had sex with just as many woman as she has men. I dont judge her because of it, I think she is amazing. Although, it i...