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writes:Hey:) Heres whats up. I'm 15 and im in love with a guy 29, he's not a teacher or nothin either. I met him when I was 12 yrs old but I didnt think much of him I was just starting to get into boys my own age. When I turned 13 I started getting intrigued by him, but by the time i was 14 I started to REALLY like him. He worked at a store I go to nearly everyday he would look at me and we would talk like we were bestfriends or something and everytime I went to his cash register we had this little hand shake thing we would do then Id have all my stuff and id leave then he would bend down and whisper in my ear "ill see you later". My little brother opened his mouth and told him I have feelings for him and i dont know what he said to my brother. Then he switched stores and sometimes ill go see him but i havent seen him in about 3 months he has a gf too but for some reason he told me it wasnt anything serious. My mom tried to tell him I like him but he didnt understand what she was saying. He's always concerned about me too. Its so many examples of things it would be way to long for me to type on here. I just dont know what to do. Should I move on or should I follow my heart and wait till i'm the age of consent and get even closer to him? Can someone give me some advice or input on this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008): I had a similiar situation where a younger girl had a crush on me. If you want to have a second try at a relationship when you are of age that is your choice but realize that he might already be involved with someone. In the mean time, try to have relationships with guys your own age and move on for now. Worry about it when you come to age.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOh yeah and my mom doesnt want us actually together, she doesnt even know how i really feel but whatever.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice everyone. Oh yeah Tcasc i said he wasnt a teacher lol. Also he had no choice but to switch stores because the other store was low on employees and the corprate manager made him. But i think ill just follow all the advice given to me. THANKS.
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reader, uh oh  +, writes (30 December 2007):
i think its fine to love someone either alot younger or a lot older within reason - your at an age -like me when you start looking at the opposite sex in a different way - however at this stage i would try to move on. You have a lot to live for and your whole life ahead of you - its to early to get tied down with commitments skl is hard enuff as it is just enjoy your youth and freedom while you can
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2007): I would move on. The fact that he changed stores makes it seem like he thinks it's a bad idea. Sorry :(
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reader, LouLee +, writes (30 December 2007):
 I think you should move on, he's twice your age and probably knows that you are too young. Even if you did wait til the age of consent he still has a girlfriend. I think him whispering in your ear and saying 'ill see you later' and talking like you were best friends is probably just being really friendly, nothing more.
I have a friend whos a couple of years older than myself (male) and he's exactly the same, coming up behind me and tickling me in the street or generally being friendly just makes me feel proud to know him and that im safe x
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reader, hello1 +, writes (30 December 2007):
 Your too young for him, I have no ideal why your mum wants you two to get together! he properly just sees you as a freind, and he properly think its childish your mum told him you fancied him.
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reader, tcasc +, writes (30 December 2007):
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You probably don't want to hear this but i think you should move on and forget about this teacher. I am a teacher and i have to tell you that we don't like or respond to this sort of attention. Any response would be unprofessional and unfortunately the age difference between 15 and 29 is just to big at your age. If you were 20 and so he was 34 then i would say you would have a chance but i don't think you can wait until then and i am sure he wouldn't. Don't put your self or him in an embarrassing situation! Wait if you want too but you will be wasting your time!
Sorry hope that wasn't harsh, i did want to be helpful
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2007): i suggest find someone your own age, don't worry love it might be a crush (am not saying it is as i don't know) but just give it a try and forget him and if it is that you can forget him then that's good if not then you should try doing something eg telling him yourself
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