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writes:I've worked with this guy for about 2 months now, and i've liked him for quite a while. The more i try to get mad at him, or try to find a flaw or a fault. I seem to get drawn in to him even more. But, me so scared to tell him how i feel, I'm being told by everyone we know, that theres something there, i should just tell him, that he likes me just as much as i like him but i was scared. Now, i found out that this girl i know, also likes him, but the thing is she only likes him because she wants to sleep with him. And the problem is, i dont know if he likes me, or likes her, or if he's gonna sleep with her because she wants to. He knows how i feel. But i don't know if he feels the same, were going to a movie or out to eat or something tommorrow. And she and a friend of hers are supposed to go to a club with him on Saturday, he asked me to go as well. I need advice!!!!!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Oblivia  +, writes (28 December 2007):
 I think you should definitely go with them to the club on saturday. Were there more people than just you and him out to the movie? If it was, then ask him out again to go only the two of you.
And don't be afraid to tell him that you like him. If he wouldn't feel the same it might feel awkward for a while, but remember that to have the courage to approach someone you like is something that will make you stronger and more confident in the long run. And he won't hate you for liking him, who would? Anyone with a heart will feel very flattered and do their best to not make you feel awkward if the feelings would not be mutual.
But this was the worse case scenario, you might get a much better answer from him, so it is worth a try ;).
So yeah, keep ya head up!
Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous woman +, writes (28 December 2007):
anonymous woman is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think you should tell him how you feel, if he feels the same he'll come around.
Good Luck and Keep ya head up.
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