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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My daughter is two years of age and is it still possible to go through post pardum depression? When is rains, it pours. First situation, I left my daughter's dad because he cheated on me twice. He cheated on me once and I forgave him. He cheated on me, again...I left. Second situation, when my daughter's dad and I were together, my finances were at a comfortable level until my daughter's dad got kicked out of the navy. I had to put my bills aside (college loans, credit card bills, car note, car insurance, daycare)to pay all of the main bills (rent, main utilities,etc). I basically, took care of a grown azz man who is 40, his two kids from his first marriage, myself and of course our two year old. What I am trying to say, I am financially in a rot. Third situation, my daughter's dad signing over his rights. How can he blame me for giving up his rights to his daughter? Fourth situation, he's been coming in and out of our lives. Every time he asked me for his rights back, I tell him no..he doesn't talk to me. He tells me to don't call him when he's the one calling me, wanting me back, etc. Fifth, situation, family in need of financial help when I am the one who needs help, too. But I don't ask them for help. Sixth situation, I use to look forward to going to work, now...I don't. My boss won't admit to what he knew, told us to do, etc. to the higher boss. The higher boss believes him over myself. My co workers were around when shyt went down at work. He knew about it, he told us to do it and now,he's not admitting to it. So, I told my co workers to write statements to have it to show the main boss. The way people are acting at work is I think I might get fired for something he knew about but denying it. I am overly stressed, depressed, financially in doubt, heartbreak, tired of being taken advantage of, lied to....etc. How can I boost my self esteem level?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you very much for your advice. Sometimes, I just don't know what to do. I want to be happy, again. I wanna be free from the pain from my daughter's dad, work, my financial situation, etc.
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