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*nonyous
writes:Hi, I am a girl and i like my guy flatmate at uni. He's, funny, attractive and intelligent. He knows how i feel, but since we moved in i have made too much of an effort wih him...like i do his laundry, wazshing, ironing etc. Basically, now i feel that that this has drawn him away becuase he has no respect for me as i have made too much of an effort. So, now i want to know how to back off a bit to make him like me because i don't want to seem rude by refusing to do things for him. I don't mind doing things for him but I want him to respect me and i think that that will only happen if i seem more of a challenge. So how should i go about this...wothout seeming rude and making him think i hate him?????? What should i do around him to make him chase me, instead of me chasing him all the time???? Please help!!!!
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reader, anonyous +, writes (26 December 2007):
anonyous is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey. thanks for the advice, but the thing is that i like him a lot snd thats why i do things for him. if it was someoone else i wouldn't care how he feels, but now i'm scared that if i refuse to do things he'll like me less, but i want him to like me more so what should i do???
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reader, muffy  +, writes (25 December 2007):
 well,this really shouldnt be about chasing each other.if you want respect from him,then stop doing everything for him.it isnt rude at all.make him do his own laundry and if he doesnt,then let him smell cuz hell eventually get sick of it and do it himself.let him do his own ironing and washing.all you should do is cook dinner but make sure he does once in awhile as well.dont let anyone ever push you around.trust me,he'll start giving you respect cuz you wont be such a push over.i hope i helpedlove and kissesfeel free to message me if you ever need anything
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