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female
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30-35,
*evonique
writes:Alot of people think i'm pretty but i can't see what there talking about, i look in the mirror and see a girl that is over weight (116lbs) to short (5'0) and just very ugly. i have small boobs a ghetto booty (not proud of) and i think the rest of me looks to fat or to muscular. i also hate my ethnicity which is mainly black/white but i cant stand my skin color its so ugly most of the people around me are white and then here i am the little girl that everyone ask "are you adopted" even adults ask me. aftetr all the years being made fun of andbeing asked rude questions i can never feel good pretty enough or good enough. Is this normal to think my body is ugly and deformed?Is it wrong 4 me to hate my skin color?
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reader, x-Happy-Feet-x  +, writes (31 December 2007):
 everyone is beautiful in there own way and you sound beautiful just like mother nature we are all pretty in diffrent ways you are who you are so you should be ashamed someone out there loves you for who you are so dont be ashamed about your weight.colour or looks
xx hope this helps i fink you just need a boost of self esteem
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reader, honkifuluvnicole +, writes (30 December 2007):
 Its normal for girls your age to hate the way you look. I certainly have days where I cant stand the way I am or the way I look. I am 17, and I think that you never really grow out of that self image worry.
But you are not overweight at all. Dont let anyone tell you otherwise, even yourself! And second, those questions are VERY rude, and uncalled for, so maybe you should say something to someone. Just say it isnt funny and it hurts you.
You ARE beautiful, NEVER forget that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2007): The above three answers are all right. Notably, like "Salad Barbarian" said, in other words, we all pick ourselves apart over one thing or another. Either our nose or ears are too big/little, our too straight or whatever (mine's too wavy), or our eyes the wrong color, etc. That's why there are so many people and companies out there selling stuff (often a scam) to change things about people. I think a big part of happiness in life is just accepting who we are and how we look, but it's ok to look the best you can. Accept what is impossible to change and move on. Don't worry, be happy, as Bobby McFarin says.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2007): Sadly it is normal to think your body is wrong at your age. Between the start of puberty until the early 20s this is how most people feel. If they aren't too big they're too small, either too dark or too pale. No matter what hurtful thins people might say to you try to remember that they are only putting you down to try and feel better about their own self image. Also know that real beauty, lasting beauty, the thing that people love and care about you, is inside.
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (29 December 2007):
 okay can i just tell you one thing your not overweight for a start...ur BMI is just right... and there is still chance to grow, hormones are still taking place by the looks of ur age on here... however we dont no what u look like the aunt that said about being 7"3 and purple has a point...you would still be beautiful, because there is something about everyone that makes them...them
give ur body some loving babe you will probably feel better for it... try doing something different that will give you excitement....all these things can help in different ways.
be proud to be who you are, we are all different and fab in our own ways!!!!
I think in a way theres a girl in there thats just waiting to shine...so let it babe!!
xxxx
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