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female
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30-35,
*ady doom
writes:I think im not the only one out there with this problem. I'm 17 and i have never had a boyfriend before. now almost all my friend either have a bf or had a bf...i feel bad inside that no one wants me and no one wants me to be theirs...i ask my mom am i pretty and she says yes...although she my mom she has to say so but i mean i can trust her on that because she's not the first one to say so. I have many girl and boy friends who say that i am goodlooking. they even compliment me on my pics...my mom says because i am not slutty and that boys my age want slutty girls..i mean, there are so slutty girls who get hitt on all the time.Why havent guys tried hitting on me?? Is there something wrong with me?? What do guys like most in a girl?? Maybe i can adjust that so i can have it for boys to want me..plzzz help!!no guy has even asked me out before(seriously and not joking that is)why is that?? And i am not fat!!
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reader, truly_unique  +, writes (26 December 2007):
DONT CHANGE FOR BOYS!!
thats the best advice i can give u...and i can agree with the comment that mayb boys are just intimidated. i can hardly speak to boys who i am attracted to let alone ask the on a date.
all things happen in good time.
someone will be brave enough to ask you out..and if your really impatient organise and outing with your friends and some boys and just get out there and meet new people. more people you meet the more likely you are going to meet the brave one
and dont change for boys.. they will respect you so much more for not being slutty.
goodluck
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2007): maybe guys do not approach you is because you are so darn attractive and goodlooking, that guys feel intimidated by you. they are probably afraid to talk to you because they feel you might reject them. i know that i am goodlooking but guys tend to be intimidated by me.... so don't worry about it, you will get asked out one day.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2007): hey hun. i can relate to how you are feeling. Don't worry i was 18 before i was asked out on a proper date by a guy. And no i am not ugly or fat either. I thought there was something wrong with me too but looking back on things now i dont think there was. I was over the moon when he asked me out and the date was really good. Look things will happen, you have the rest of your life to be worrying about dates and guys. And your Mam is pretty much right a lot of guys your age want slutty girls but dont turn into one just to get a guy. Be yourself, hold your head up high and im telling you a guy who really likes you for you will ask you out. Hope this helps xx happy christmas
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