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36-40,
*k06
writes:I have trouble accepting that my girlfriend has had sex with other guys besides me.I know that I shouldnt care.I have had sex with just as many woman as she has men.I dont judge her because of it, I think she is amazing.Although, it is painful.Any ideas on how to get over this? Or is it just a common thing that one must deal with? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2007): I can see that you do have a problem with her sex-life before you came along,but then that wasn't any of your business then,and it's none of your business now. She doesn't have a problem with your sexual track-record,and if you love her neither should you. Now, I'm 80 years young,and soon will be gone,like dead. And I wish that my wife would take another lover besides me, while I'm still living. Then after I'm gone, I would know that she had someone to love and care for her, that's what I call really loving your mate,in this life and beyond it.
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reader, superhoopschick +, writes (25 December 2007):
 Its hard to accept it. I have the same situation going on for me n mine. just make sure she isnt contacting other males and get over the fact that she did it. It was in the past and leave it there. Think, she is with you now, and if she cares about you, she isnt going to be with anyone else. She wont want anyone else. but face it, she doesnt like it that u had been with other girls too. If you are a good guy, she will be a good girl. AS people get older they will start doing things and experimenting. However, for now...just hold her and love her and jst thing she is yours..all yours
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