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writes:I HAVE A QUESTION AS TO WHAT ARE THE SECRETS TO ATTRACT WOMEN. HOW CAN MEN ATTRACT WOMEN AND WHAT ARE THE MISTAKES COMMONLY FOR MAN?[Moderator's note. Caps off next time, please.] Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2007): I'll be honest every woman is different based on her experiences and her age and what she wants and what she has been through. If she has always had the upper hand in relationships or not makes a huge difference on what a girl wants.
What initially attracts me to a guy is physical attraction and if we click real good. Like our minds and bodies are in sync. That is something I know in the first five minutes of meeting a guy. But then after that, FOR ME, it depends on his job status, his education level, and his goals in life. If he is jobless and his biggest goal in life is to party with his friends in cancun, then clearly he is not the guy for me at this point in my life cause I would like to get married soon.
THEN after that, the next thing I notice is like his manners, make sure his stories are consistent, just little things.
Dating is a process that takes time for me. It takes all in all about 3 weeks of seeing you everyday for me to decide if I like you or not.
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reader, mama2three  +, writes (27 December 2007):
 Don't try to be someone you're not. Confidence and self-assurance are always turn-ons. Don't be too aggressive or forward, either, that could come off the wrong way.
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reader, anon_e_mouse  +, writes (27 December 2007):
 "SECRETS TO ATTRACT WOMEN"
There is no formula. I think there's someone for eveyone out there.
However, what works for me is just being me. JUST BE YOURSELF. I'm completely honest, quite funny, and like to enjoy myself (good dancer too even if I do say so myself). I don't take myself too seriously and I like chatting and listening to people - so I tend to have some brilliant conversations and I think that can be attractive.
Nothing worse than meeting a girl who has no sense of humour and can't even hold a decent conversation.
I think if you can make a girl laugh, and talk about all manner of things it can do wonders.
At the end of the day JUST BE YOURSELF and someone will like you for who you are.
"COMMON MISTAKES"
* Trying to be something you're not
* Lying
* Showing off
* Being too forward (like a predator)
I'm afraid there are no REAL secrets and positive there are loads more common mistakes.
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