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Archived questions from: September, 2006 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

I still love my ex but he is getting married soon!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - My my frist and only ex-boyfriend is getting married soon and I can't stop thinking about him? We had a perfect relationship when we were going out, I can say that he is like a soulmate to me! I know for sure that if it wasn't because I had to l...

What does it mean when a guy gives you the once over when talking to you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - I am asking a question which might seem obvious to some but need people with more experience to answer. When a guy is talking to you and you really see him give you the once over as he is talking to you does that mean he might be attracted? ...

She wants to wait before we make something of us...how can I change her mind??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

30 September 2006 (M) - i fancy a girl at my school but she says that she will only have a boyfriend when she has pass her GCSEs but im hanging out with her a lot and i want to change how she feels....

I need some tips as I'm clueless when it comes to boys.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6663 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - hi i am 15 years old nd in my last year of secondary school. I have never done any thing sexsually(never been kissed), never had a bf and im quite shy. here is where you guys come in, i realli fancy a boy who is in my year but i dont know how to ...

Im confused, does he like, me or was the touching up just because of the moment ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6306 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - last night me and 3 of my friends went to my house to watch the grudge, and well obiously it is a scary movie so me and my really good guy friend were like hugging, and cuddling really closely. i would move one of my legs like over his legs, and he ...

I dont know whats wrong with me and Im scared!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6491 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - I am so lost right now i don't know how to begin i am making such a mess of my life i am unemplyed i am messing things up with my boyfriend,the only man who has ever been loving i cause arguements everyday now he says he is sick of me an he is not ...

Chatted on MSN for ages, I want to meet up, but we are 2 days away from each other!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6658 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - For about 6 months I have been chating to a guy I met online. We have talked on line through msn instant messenger as well as through our phones. I am 17 and he is 19. I have also seen him on web cam so I KNOW he isn't some old pedaphile. We hav...

The guy I love could be moving to the USA!! What should I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - im dating this guy and hes moving...to USA!! we both live in london and his mums company has transferred to new york and the whole family is going im in the middle of my studies doing my A levels and he loves me as he told me 3weeks ago but i do...

I love him, but hes not affectionate to me, others say he slags me off, I dont know what to believe!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - I have been going out with this boy for around 2 weeks now.I really love him. Before we were going out, we got on so well. Now, he hardly talks to me, unless I'm on my own. He's only hugged me 3 times and never kissed me. I really don't know what ...

We are both from different religions we love each other we are in different countries! Whats the solution to be together ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6663 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - Dear whoever is reading this. This is hard for me because usually i advice people but i am blind to my own problem. or to the sollution anyway. I know i am in love and i know the person i love loves me too. i mean even when we are asleep if someon...

I really like my tutor, I know nothing can come of it but its making me depressed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6664 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - Hi, im 16 and I have a huge problem thats making me depressed. The problem is my course tutor in college. I really like him! But I know nothing would ever come of it. Recently thouhg I have cuaght him looking over at me when he thinks im not lo...

The friend I want to get to know more left a message to say I love you on my phone! Not sure I feel that way!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6664 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - I have a friend that I liek more then just a friend. We don't know much about eachother and we want to know more about one another. But today he left me a message on my phone and he was saying, "I love you!" Over and over again, I asked him if he ...

Other peoples negativity towards my long distance and age gap relationship is driving me insane!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6658 days ago

30 September 2006 (M) - Hi, I think this is more of a personal problem than a relationship one, though it deals with a relationship. Without going into specifics, I'm in an LDR and age gap relationship. The age gap is relatively small (less than 8 years) but since I'...

It is heartbreaking to seem what is happening to her....how do I handle this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - Not sure that this is the right type of question for this sight but have read some answers here..a lot of sweet people with good insight respond. My mom has alzheimers and I try to go and see her every second weekend. She is not in this city. I work ...

It's been 2 years and she has a boyfriend, but I still want to try again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

30 September 2006 (M) - Really miss my ex-girlfriend. Its been 2 years want to give it another shot but she has a bf what should i do cant lose no more sleep from this please help thanks...

I love her but I'm scared to be honest with her about how I feel and what I want from us.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

30 September 2006 (M) - i love my girlfriend more than ive ever told her,she is always telling me how happy she is an wants to be my wife,so why am i so scared to be honest with her and avoid answering her marriage question.lately i have been searching her computer looking ...

He can't stop staring at other women, what does this mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - my fiance has a really bad staring problem. even if he just hears a womans voice on tv it gets him checking her out. i'm not ugly. and he's not great looking! can you tell me what it might mean? we are engaged and i'm thinking of calling it off. he ...

Everything she has accused me of she's been doing herself, is it worth all the trouble?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6663 days ago

30 September 2006 (?) - Me and my girlfriend of 3 years had another tiff and broke up for a week.We are both mature(early 40`s).Her pc was playing tricks and as usual i was trying to mend fix it.I was shocked to find a messenger from a chatroom,in which she was ...

What does "pulling" mean..other than the usual usage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

29 September 2006 (F) - What does "pulling" mean..oher than the usual usage...

I broke up because I was so depressed with her, she says she will change, but Im confused!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

29 September 2006 (M) - i am a 21year old male who just got out of a relationship. when we first got together we were so happy together my weight was around 180. Now my weight has gone down about fifteen pounds. We used to be so happy together and when we get around h...

Does all this mean that she does actually like me ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

29 September 2006 (M) - well theres a girl that i like, we have been talking over msn for about 4 weeks now, and we talk for about 3-4 hours a night (maybe more on weekends), we have a real good laff and stuff, and she says and does things which make me think she likes me, ...

How can I get his parents to change thier opinion of me!??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

29 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend of a year last night told me that his parents really don't like me. He said that they think i'm very needy and a bit physco. They don't like things that I say or things that I do. I love my boyfriend completly to bits and I want to be ...

Just been diagnosed with Diabetes, does this now mean a downward climb plus impotency ??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

29 September 2006 (M) - I'm an otherwise healthy male, but just been diagnosed as diabetic! I think of myself as generally healthy, I'm careful what I eat. wholefoods, veg, etc., I'm not over weight at all, I exercise either a 2 hour work out in the gym or 50 lengths of...

Bothered that my girl has had a threesome before we dated..

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 2692 days ago

29 September 2006 (M) - I have a question involving threesomes. My girlfriend has told me that she has been in a threesome in which she was with two guys. One of the two guys was just who she was dating at the time and the other his friend. She told me it was great. I told ...

Denied sex, as he looks at porn!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

29 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend needs to look at porn on a regular basis, and has denied me sex to do so before is this a real problem?...

Im attracted to my Science professor, should I act on it ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

29 September 2006 (F) - Hi- I am deeply attracted to my science professor in college in so many aspects primarily sexually. I think about him so much,especially the sexual part. We have become good friends and I desperately want to express my feelings. What should I do...

First girlfriend...what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

29 September 2006 (M) - Hi, im 14 and have recently been asked out. i have never met her and only talked over msn, however it was 'set up' by my best friend. basically this is my first girlfriend, and we, and my best friend and his girlfriend are going to the cinemas, i am ...

How do I act at a wake...will I even be welcome?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6663 days ago

29 September 2006 (F) - i have a (hopefully) simple question to ask. what are you supposed to do at a wake? my boyfriend's grandfather died this morning and he is devastated. i'm doing my best to support him, by comforting him, cheering him up, and lending him a sh...

I trusted him to look after my girlfriend but he made the moves on her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

29 September 2006 (M) - My girlfriend (she's 17) and I ( I'm 19) have been going out for 10 months, and we're very much in love. Recently, we had a little argument and we decided to just be friends for a bit and see how we go. We're both very keen on motorsport, and ...

In long term relationship but now feel strong attraction towards someone online

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

29 September 2006 (F) - I've got a serious crush on someone over the internet, but I'm in a long term relationship. I met the person on an online game, and he was always nice to me, though we were never close friends. Recently I started using voice chat with the game as...

My cousin doesn't like my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6666 days ago

28 September 2006 (F) - hi, i need some advice about my cousin. her and i have been quite close expecially the last 10 years (shes 25 and im 22), problem is that i began dating one of her work colleagues whom she doesnt get on well with...even though she introduced us in ...

Why is it so hard to move on after broken relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

28 September 2006 (M) - Why is it so hard to move on from a broken marriage / relationship? Thought of ex with new partner is soul destroying. Why is it so tough to let go?...

I have a girlfriend that I love and I'm infatuated with another girl...what are my options?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

28 September 2006 (M) - i've been going out with a girl for nearly 6 months and i really do love her, she seems to be perfect and could picture myself spending the rest of my life with her. However i have always had a wandering eye but i would never act upon, recently i've ...

He knows I exist so why won't he talk to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

28 September 2006 (F) - I am a Single mother. i have a liking for this man who is 5 yrs younger than me. We are working in the same company but different dept. We do not talk to each other but he knows that i am existing. Just wonder why he does not want to talk to me? Can ...

In what ways can I infect someone else with herpes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6196 days ago

28 September 2006 (F) - I had a herpes test done recently and I called my doc. to get the results and I found out that I am positive for herpes I but negative for herpes II. Basically I have cold sores inside my mouth, they don't appear outside my mouth though and I was ...

Im have difficulty trusting people after what the ex appeared to turn into..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6667 days ago

28 September 2006 (F) - I started to go out with a guy and everything seemed perfect but he then disappeared and did not even answer my text messages I though something could have happened to him, A couple of months later I went to visit my granfather to hospital as he ...

Worried I have mental problems regarding sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6667 days ago

28 September 2006 (F) - Is it normal not to get the horn when you get off with a really good looking guy whose personality you don't like even if you feel just to have a go with him just for trying? This happen to me witb my ex when trying to initiate intercourse I ...

My bf is fed up with work, how can I make him feel better ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

28 September 2006 (F) - Hi everypne Need a bit of advice My bf is quite pissed off about work at the moment I know its not about me but somethimes he can come accross a bit harsh because of this What should i do Should i try to talk to him about it or leave...

Is masturbating healthy or is it best to have a sexual partner ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

28 September 2006 (F) - Do you think masturbating is a healthy thing or is it better to have a sexual partner? I would like to find someone who cares but it's difficult for me at the moment. Which are the best ways for a lady to do it if she has never made love before? I ...

She told me she didnt fancy me, we havent had sex for ages, but said she wants to stay and work it out!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

28 September 2006 (M) - hi, i have been with my girlfriend now for 1 .5 years, we do have to odd argument here and there.. but other than that wer fine. now i was getting quite worried recently, cuz we aint done the dirty for ages.. months in fact and wer both under 2...

Is he acting this way because he does indeed fancy me and he is flirting ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

28 September 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I need some advice. There's this man that I think is flirting with me. He always makes sex jokes in my presence and asked me 1 day to sit next to him and he showed me a sms telling me I'll apppreciate it. Then sometimes he'll stare at my ...

Should I pursue her or stop wasting time ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6667 days ago

28 September 2006 (M) - Well, I'm a senior in high school and I like this girl who is a freshman in college. Thing is, she is home for the fall term and possibly then some. We got pretty close this summer but I never asked her to go out with me; I took her to my high ...

My BF will go in the army for 6 months, Im worried for him and myself!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6305 days ago

28 September 2006 (F) - Hey everyone Im really in need of dome help here My bf is in the army and due to do 6 months in iraq Im terrified. Not only for him but (and i know this sounds selfish but myself) How do i cope without him Its not like i wanna see him every d...

Will this have affected me long term ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

27 September 2006 (F) - A few week ago i got close with this boy and he fingered me, ater a while it started to hurt when he was trying to put more fingers up. And it stil hurts abit now, im still a virgin and could this have had any affect on me or could i have lost my ...

How can I stop my mum being so controlling and stopping me from living with my brother ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6667 days ago

27 September 2006 (F) - Hi everyone, i have a serious and important question that i need advise. Im 20 and i been together with my bf for 3mo but been best friends since 8th grade. Recently back in june my mom and me got into a huge fight and she kicked me out but i was ...

I have a vaginal odour despite cleansing, anything I can take to reduce this ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

27 September 2006 (F) - i have recently found that i have vaginal odour problems and when i have sex it comes up more. I wash all the time but how can i get rid of the problem ? Are there any tablets i can take for this ?...

How can I get it through to my ex, that its well and truly over!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

27 September 2006 (?) - I am hoping that some of you can help me with this problem – you see I was with my boyf for 9 years, for 2 of them we were engaged to be married, we broke up 18 months ago after I found out he had been sleeping with my supposed “Best Friend and ...

What do girls in general like to see in guys ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6667 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - just wondering why do girls in general like to see in guys...

We act like a couple even after past history of breaking up, things are great, but we are not a couple and she's moving out! What should I do ??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6667 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - LONG BUT I AM DESPERATE FOR ADVICE Hi there, I am in a right old mess. I was with my gf for four years, lived together for much of it. We had usual ups and downs and had a baby last Xmas. Our ups and downs took a toll on her and her feelings cha...

My girl suffers with depression and bulimia, I support her every step, but she keeps pushing me out!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6645 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - Hello. I broke up with my ex-girlfriend back in December to date a new girl i know from work. It was not a clean break on my part with my ex and if i am being honest i liked the security she was offering me by wanting to stay and sort things out, i ...