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writes: Well, I'm a senior in high school and I like this girl who is a freshman in college. Thing is, she is home for the fall term and possibly then some. We got pretty close this summer but I never asked her to go out with me; I took her to my high school homecoming though. I thought we were hitting it off and was going to ask her out the day after the dance, but out of nowhere she tells me that she recently started going out with this guy from a different college (freshman as well) and that she was unsure of us working out because she knows a lot of girls who like me at my high school. Well, I stayed as her friend (with feelings of course) and I felt that we still had a connection. One day she even admitted to me that she still had strong feelings for me. We freaking talk like everyday for over two hours, but we are still not going out or anything because she is with that other guy. Everytime I hang out with her I feel as if she wants to do stuff, she admitted that she has wanted to kiss me several times after she has started going out with this guy. I am confused as to whether or not I should pursue her or go about my business and stop wasting my time. (I do intend to stay her friend though.) Help please. Reply to this Question
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reader, Toria +, writes (28 September 2006):
 I would talk to her and tell her how you are feeling, I would also tell her that no much how many girls she knows of that like you at your high school doesn't mean you would do anything or even be interested in any of them so that shouldn't be a problem or issue as to why she won't give you two a chance.
When it comes to it you need to know so you can either both do something about this or so you can move on yourself knowing where you stand.
Good luck :o)
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (28 September 2006):
 KISS HER AND ASK HER OUTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT
SHE'S TELLING YOUUUUUUUU WHO'S THE SENIOR?
C'ON BE BRAVE
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2006): That is a tough one, it would be specuoation on anyone's part what the future will hold for the two of you. Sounds as if the fact that you are behind her in school may be holding her back from getting more intimate with you, maybe she is afraid of hurting you...if you are enjoying the friendship, I would go with that..if you start trying to get more romantic with her, you will risk losing the friendship if the romance does not work out...I guess you should ask yourself if you are wanting to risk losing that over having some sex .... if you are then make your move and see what happens....but I don't hear you saying you are pursuing her because you think you love her, which would make it worth the risk.
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