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writes: Dear Cupid, I need some advice. There's this man that I think is flirting with me. He always makes sex jokes in my presence and asked me 1 day to sit next to him and he showed me a sms telling me I'll apppreciate it. Then sometimes he'll stare at my front part of my lower half and I'll catch him staring. It's like he wants me to see him staring. He'll grab me by the hand and pull me closer to him and ask me where can we go where it's nice. I had a pants on that had a nice picture on it and he touched my leg telling me that it's very nice pants this. I'll drive behind him, then he'll pull over so I can pass him, then he'll drive behind me. Is it what I think it is? He always puts his hand around my neck or stands next to me? Is it what I think it is?
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reader, Pammie +, writes (28 September 2006):
I have to agree.This man sounds like a total perve!
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reader, Skat +, writes (28 September 2006):
Skat is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDon't know him very well, but thank you for your advice. It helps to ask others! Thank You!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2006): I mean there's flirting and there's perving and this guy is obviously a perv!! How well do you kno this guy? You should ask around and find out more about him from other people but personally I'd be very wary of him to be honest & make sure that you are never alone with him!! If he's acting like that in public - what would he do in private??? I don't mean to scare you but you never kno with these guys...
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reader, Skat +, writes (28 September 2006):
Skat is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for your advice. I will however open my mouth & tell him to get a life! Thank you again!!!!!!
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reader, Toria +, writes (28 September 2006):
I agree with camille he does sound like his behaviour is alittle strange and too full on for flirting, if your interested in him he is more than giving out enough signals to say he is interested, I would becareful as to what he is after as his behaviour sounds like its a sex thing not a real true interest in you as a person.
Good luck :o)
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reader, camille +, writes (28 September 2006):
Fancy you? It sounds like he's being a sex pest! There's flirting which can be really good and feels nice, but this guy is staring at your crotch for goodness sake, he sounds like a bit of a perv. He wants to have sex with you, but this isn't flirting, it's blatant coming on strong. If you like him, then he has given you more than a green light signal. If it makes you feel uncomfortable, you need to ask him to stop. If you fancy him too, don't necessarily expect a relationship with him, he may only be after one thing. So if you want more, don't jump straight into bed with him. He sounds very unsavoury to me though! (If you're a lot younger than him, please be careful).
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2006): He is doing more than flirting, he is interested in having sex with you....watch out if you are expecting more....maybe find out more about him first
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