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Archived questions from: April, 2013 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

Why does someone leave a good marriage, or relationship for someone yonger?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - i need help understanding something. why does someone leave a good marriage, or relationship for someone yonger? and i dont mean just a few year either. im talking 20 years or more. and why would anyone want someone that much older? i have read all ...

My boyfriend/boss might be let go at work and now, he wants to officially meet my family, go out more etc., but I have some big concerns!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4222 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend/boss might be let go at work and now, he wants to officially meet my family, go out more etc. No one knew about us but some did suspect a little not because we did anything but because one time, during a small meeting where it was a bit ...

Is she being practical or shallow? Dumping me for a rich old man? Can our relationship be saved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - Yeah, I'm a 25 years old guy working as an architect, ambitious and I love what I do. Always recommended by higher managers, you can say that I make good money compared to a new starter, and receiving better job opportunities from other companie...

What do you think? Is this slightly older guy at work just trying to be nice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - I just want to know if he's just trying to be friendly. There's this guy at work, he's a bit older than myself. I've noticed him around the office but never thought much of it. He sits a few rows in front now and everytime he goes back to his seat...

So hung up on my ex that I can neither move forward nor ask for closure

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - Hello, let me just say that I appreciate any and all advice I may receive on here. Three years ago when I was just seventeen, I met a man in his thirties and we spent the next seven and a half months together. I was entering my senior year of h...

Is my older boyfriend just realistic or pessimistic?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - HI there, I am 22 years old (female) and my boyfriend of two years is 32. I know the age gap is big but so far its not worked too badly. My BF isn't very experienced and so it sort of works. My question though is this: I am a very positive person,...

Where is my marriage ending? Unhappily ever after?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - I'm unhappily married to a man more than twice my age approaching his 70s. While we dated, I knew he was not the right person for me. I however admired his maturity and intelligence. I was at downnest point with no money, career and basically messed ...

Involved with a married woman. So why is she acting this way? Why is she treating me like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

24 April 2013 (M) - hey guys i need advice. ive been involved with a married woman for about 7 months. i know its wrong but hear what i have to say please. we started off as friends good friends. talking everyday spending a few hours together. and i started falling ...

Am I worrying too much about this since it's been so many years since he was my teacher?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

23 April 2013 (F) - I currently am separated from my husband and we are in the middle of a divorce. It has not been finalized but we have not seen or spoken to each other in over 5 months, my attorney just sucks and is really slow. Anyway, I recently ran into my form...

How do I ask him to hang out? I'm quite inexperienced and also are there any excuses I could use to touch his hand or something next time we're together, to gauge his interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

22 April 2013 (F) - Just need some quick advice :) So there's this guy, he's lovely, a couple of years older, and we get on quite well. I'm never sure if he's flirting over FB but in person he uses a few excuses to touch my hand, like when it was snowing and he gave ...

My parents don't like my Bf who's older. They're suffocating me with their over protection and treating me like I'm still a child. What to do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

21 April 2013 (F) - I live at home still because I am in post secondary and cannot afford to live on my own and I am fortunate enough to be able to live a home for free. But my parents are extremely over protective of me. I have tried sooo many times reasonin...

Is he holding out on me? He's kind and funny. But it seems he might also has Erectile dysfunction.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - So I've met a new partner and everything is going amazing! He's kind, funny, everything I could ask for! Until we got in the bedroom! He's 54 and can't get it up! Well he can because I've felt it and in foreplay he's been hard! There's a bi...

How do I stop this crush? Met him at AA meeting, but he's way older than me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - Have a crush on a guy at an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting! I'm 18 and recently got out of rehab about a months ago and started going to the local AA meeting. AA meetings is the last place I thought I'd devolp a crush on someone. But for the past 3 ...

40 something year old girlfriend embarrassed by 24 year old boyfriend- How do I fix this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

20 April 2013 (M) - My girlfriend and I have a bit of an age gap. I'm 24. She just turned 40. I went to hang out with some of her grad student friends (we're both in grad school) and she introduced me as her roommate. We do live with each other; but, we're ...

I feel we should be communicating more. What can I do to change that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - I am 22. My boyfriend is 39. We've been dating for almost four months. He is my first sexual partner. It's all so new to me so I just want sex almost all the time. He doesn't mind...most of the time. ;) But I feel like we're not talking enough. ...

I'm the first guy he has seriously pursued -- how can I be sure about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

19 April 2013 (M) - Me: 24 y/o gay male, ended a 2 year relationship last August. Law school student. I started dating my new boyfriend Feb. 27 of this year. Boyfriend: 23 y/o gay male. This is his first serious relationship. Graduated from ******** Universi...

Guy, if a girl is 19 and the guy is a few years older, then what are the issues for guys to consider when dating a younger girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

19 April 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, I am 19. My boyfriend of almost 3 years recently broke it off and I'm trying to move on, and I am ready to date again and just have fun. I am really attracted to this guy I go to school with, but I found out he's 27. I thought he ...

I'm tired of being judged about my lifestyle

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

18 April 2013 (F) - hey all i just need some opinions so here we go im a 23 year old girl who was in a relationship with a guy a year younger than i. we had a baby together and he did not step up to the plate to be a good dad. just a typical dead beat, yes he love his ...

I'm 19 and my parents wont allow me to date my boyfriend who is 8 years older than me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

18 April 2013 (F) - I just need to vent a little and am hoping to hear some others' inputs on the situation. I am 19 years old and am in college, but I am staying at home with my parents. I work part time and help pitch in with bills (not much but as much as I can do ...

In love with an older family friend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

16 April 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, i'm in a bit of a sticky situation hopefully you guys have some good advice for me. Okay so here the deal, i'm in love with this guy (not puppy love), but he is a close family friend. He is the son of my dad's best friend, but even...

Is it possible to have a relationship without having sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

16 April 2013 (M) - I'm a 24 year old guy. I met this girl, who's a couple of years younger than me, about a year ago. She's verbally impaired (mute, I don't like to call her by this name). We have been very good friends. I don't mind her disability at all. She's ve...

Is it possible to get back with your ex if you are still on talking terms

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

16 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend has broken up with me after living together for one year. In this time some was good some bad plenty of verbal abuse near the end. He is 32 I am 44 I understand it is a big age difference but it just happened. He is a party hard person ...

How to seduce a man in his early thirties?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

15 April 2013 (F) - I'm nineteen and I have a huge crush on a man who's thirty one.. Whenever we're together it just feels right but I can tell we both keep questioning the age difference and it's kept us from moving forward. How can I seduce him and get the ...

Should I ask her out? Or is the age difference too much?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

15 April 2013 (M) - So a bit of a random question, I have moved offices at work and now am at a office closer to home. Of which is next to a bakery.. over the past few months I have been in for my lunch and have met a nice young girl, who seems nice and has a nice ...

How do I let this older man know I am interested without screwing things up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

14 April 2013 (F) - I have recently found myself being really attracted to a man I have got to know through social media. We have a lot in common, share lots of interests and there is an age gap of about 20 years. How do I let this man know I am interested without ...

Married for nearly nine years, together with my wife for eleven and a half years and I've fallen for a 20 yr old girl

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

14 April 2013 (M) - Hi, I have been married for nearly nine years and together with my wife for eleven and half years. Recently the marriage has been going through a lull and I fell for a 20 yr old girl. We get on really well and cant stop wanting to be together...

I'm falling for my boyfriends father!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

14 April 2013 (F) - I'm 15 years old about to be 16 and I used to date this boy that is now 19. We broke up because he wasn't in a stable environment at the moment. We still remain extremely good friends, though. We talk almost everyday. Now, I don't know what has ...

Age difference

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

13 April 2013 (M) - I like this girl and really looking forward into having a relationship with her.I am an Egyptian and she is a tourist so i think i can do a lot for her to see my country like taking her to the red sea,watching the sunset from the pyramids,cinemas ...

Why did this guy change? We used to be so close!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4239 days ago

12 April 2013 (F) - I am so confused as to what i have done i am lost. Before i use to like that 46year old , he was protective, caring would defend me at work, was my main support and we use to flirt so much. Every one noticed and we was just tight i fell for him. ...

"To go or not to go" that is my question?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

12 April 2013 (M) - I've always gotten solid reliable from you guys, I expect nothing less. I work in a very small office..38-43 folks. I'm mid 50s, blessed with good genes, high metabolism, very active, bikes to work everyday rain, shine, snow, etc., you get the pict...

Am I a sugardaddy or is possible for a relationship with a woman 20+ younger than me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

12 April 2013 (M) - what are your opinions of an older man getting with a younger girl and getting her pregnant? i met a girl who is 20+ years younger than me. we have talked and not having any children of my own, she said she is in love with me and will have a baby ...

I'm afraid he won't date me because of the age difference

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

8 April 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, this 24 year old and I have been talking for over a year. He's an amazing guy and he is a gentlemen. We are very alike personality wise and we are always happy together. We both went on a group trip recently and we saw each other but ...

A 3 year dead end relationship. Should I end it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

6 April 2013 (F) - Ok, here is my situtation and i am finally here and ask for help. background: i am 23, graduating in college in may, he is 49 yr old,college graduated, never married no kids and has a 9-5 job(not rich at all, i am saying that just because i do not...

I have a crush, but is the age difference too much?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4246 days ago

5 April 2013 (M) - This is not like me but I've got a crush on a girl who is 18. I have never been attracted to a girl with that big of an age difference and I kinda of feel weird aboit it. I'm 30. When I first met this girl I thought she was 22-24, and that is right ...

My fiance seems to have no goals or ambition

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - I'm 24 and my fiance just turned 30. He lives at home with his parents, going to community college for the last 10 years now trying to get his bachelors, and has no work or real relationship experience. His 'income' comes from his parents by working ...

He's taking things slow, tooo slow!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4247 days ago

3 April 2013 (?) - Hi, am 21 years old and I met a 40 year old man 2months ago, he told me that he was interested in me so we exchanged numbers. Since then we met only twice but he communicates with me everyday. We never have serious conversations, he always asks how ...

My much younger girlfriend goes dancing with her ex boyfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

1 April 2013 (M) - I have had a girlfriend for over six months and in all that time she has been very affectionate at times but never once said she loves me. She likes to go dancing and occasionaly has men call her and ask if shes going. Recently ske has had an ex bo...