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Archived questions from: October, 2011 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

I'm bored and frustrated with my relationship! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - I've just divorced my husband of 20 years then met this man 16 years older than me. Im attracted to him because he's more caring and understanding than my ex-husband. He has no kids and has his own home and car and still working with a good ...

I am afraid to lose her but I think its certain!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

30 October 2011 (M) - i feel like a dummy for asking but...some people, including my gf are convincing. i met a young lady half my age a year ago online. fwiw, she spoke to me first and the first few times after meeting her, when i'd go online she'd be the one to ...

I wouldn't act on it, but am I attracted to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

30 October 2011 (M) - I'll get right to the point here... I'm 16 and have been talking to this girl of 13 for a few weeks. It is purely chit chat, the simple hello and few questions, but as of late I have been noticing myself staring at my phone waiting for her reply. Is ...

When someone loves you, how do you really know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - hello all. I am going to be completely honest because I truly need advice or insight. I'm 33 will be 34 in january and I just broke up with my 21 year old ex. he just turned 21 this month also. But I guess I'm just confused about everything that ...

What can happen if you are found guilty of kissing somebody of 13 years old, and your 20.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

27 October 2011 (M) - OK a simple question. If somebody is 20 years old, and they kiss somebody underage (13), and there is evidence of it, such as witnesses, or pictures, etc. And if Police do get involved etc, what can happen?? As far as I know, (but this is ...

How can I make my wife accept financial help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

26 October 2011 (M) - I am 33 right now and my girlfriend is 23. 8 years back, when she was 15 , I fell in love with her and within 2 weeks she accepted my proposal of being her Boyfriend but I acted more like a friend than boyfriend since she was too young th...

My friends tell me he's dangerous

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

25 October 2011 (F) - dear cupid, i take guitar clases once a week, and i've been with this teacher for over a year. at first he seemed normal, but like he has become really weird now. He calls me stuff like princess and my love... he tells me he loves me and tha...

He's my emplyee and the apple of my eye. Can we be more than that? Do you think that it's all wishful thinking on my part?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

24 October 2011 (M) - I recently hired a new male employee (I am a gay male) who is 16 years younger than me. We have a great relationship at work and have even hung around together after work on a few occasions. He knows that I am gay, and single, and he is well over ...

Why is my husband calling me names and being so mean.? He's the one who has been secretly visiting and talking to my "friend"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4768 days ago

23 October 2011 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 2 years, he's 41 and I'm 32. I had this friend, or so I thought she was. We were great friends, but we did hang out a few times. My husband and I started having some marital difficulties, and during that tim...

Why not? he asked his friend to ask my friend for my number ... But he DIDN'T call me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

23 October 2011 (F) - Hi! Three weeks ago I went out with my friend, a friend of hers and a friend of this friend. We had a blast and i finished sleeping with this second friend. During the night he was telling me about going out together after work (we live very cl...

I normally go for older guys but now I like a guy 17 months younger than me but can't see it going anywhere?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

21 October 2011 (F) - Hey :) well basically, I find guys who are older than me very attractive and they are the people i normally develop feelings for. For example, I am 16 and I have "liked" guys of ages, 18,21,24. But recently,about 2 months ago I got talking to a...

Sex with my younger boyfriend sucks. How much time should I give him to improve?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4768 days ago

21 October 2011 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend and I have known each other for almost a year. He is a very lovely and caring guy. He is also tall, handsome, dark hair, and muscular (ok he's really my type). He just moved from Poland to US when we first met. Since I came fro...

What should I do about this guy my girlfriend is hanging out with?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

21 October 2011 (M) - So my gf meet this guy on a dating sight just like she meet me. But this guy is 30 and says age is just a number. He buys her whatever she wants and she hangs out with him i know she hates this guy. SO DO I. But he keeps touchin her and picks her ...

34 year old Saudi woman dating a 50 year old American man for 9 years.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

20 October 2011 (F) - iam 34 years old woman dating 50 years old american man for 9 years,i met him when i was 26 and he was 42 and we are completly commeted to eachother. we are trying to be married 5 years back but my family refuse him for 2 reasons,one, he in not saud...

Can't find the perfect woman (or near perfect woman).....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

20 October 2011 (M) - I'm quite a perfectionist, granted. I've had several girlfriends throughout my twenties so far but I can't seem to find the 'complete package'. My ex girlfriend was perfect in respect to the fact that we had an amazing physical connection from ...

He's a senior... I'm a freshman...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - I have a thing with a senior, and I am a freshman (we're both in college). I really, really like him. People say that you meet the person you're supposed to be with in college (now I know this doesn't apply to everyone). People say that you "ju...

My younger wife is having sexual problems. How can I help her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - I am a 53 year old male married to a 25 year old and we are having sexual problems not by me but her. we also have 4 children. Can you give me some advice? ...

Is age really just a number

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

13 October 2011 (F) - Hello Cupids. Im a little curious about your opinions. Today I found out a boy I use to go to school with likes me, hes really nice and everything I don't know him all that well. He gave me his number today and well the only thing that is...

I'm 22 and my girlfriend's 25. Is that a big difference?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

12 October 2011 (M) - Is this weird? My girlfriend is 3 years older than me. I'm 22 and she's 25. Is that a big difference or no? We have a good relationship and all (sex is great :P) but compared to all of my friends in relationships, the guy is older than the girl. ...

Holiday romance or more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

10 October 2011 (F) - hi, I would very much appreciate your thoughts and advice on my current situation. I am a single mum of two. Recently I went on holiday with some girfriends and met a lovely man. He is a DJ and ten years younger than me, I am 33. We had a rom...

Why didn't he want to have sex with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

9 October 2011 (F) - dear Aunts, i have a boyfriend, we're "official" for about two months now, so not that long.there's quite big age gap between us, he's 16 years older than me (i'm 24). my problem is....i think he doesn't find me attractive.we get on really well, ...

I don't want to have sex all the time!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

9 October 2011 (M) - Hi Everyone thank you for reading this even if you cant help me. I recently turned 18 and im in a relationship with a 30 year old women. She treats me well and i feel close to her, loved and respected but i still feel like there is something ...

We's been together for 4 years. But is my 22 year old partner losing interest in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - Hi I've been with my partner for 4 years he's 22 snd I'm 34 , we always had a spontaneous sexual relationship but for the past year and half we hardly ever have sex I am gettin frustrated with him as I caught him pleasuring himself , why don't he ...

Would an older guy be interested in someone mature or innocent?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm 18 and I usually like older guys, like who are in their mid to late twenties. This is a step up for me as before I used to like my middle aged teachers. I don't know if it's because I grew up without a father or what, but I tend to act very ...

If I'm 17, is it OK to be in love with a 26-year-old man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

7 October 2011 (M) - im a 17 year old woman in love with a 26 year old man and he is in love with me we both live in indiana is this legle we need advice cause my parents told us both that if we continue our relationhip that they would have him arrested please help...

If I was so repulsive then how can he not think that now?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - My spouse is 1/2 my age and had an affair with a woman closer to his age (actually his step daughter, my own child). I am 40 and durring his affair he told her, and his best friend and a few other people that touching me was disgusting. He ...

He has told me to pack up and get out with no explanation. We've been together for 4 years and have a 2 year old child!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - hi there,pls i need some advice.i'm 25yrs and my man is 47yrs old.weve been in this relationship for almost 4yrs. we even have a boy of 2yrs.we were planning to get engaged this november. But two days ago.we had a slight misunderstanding and then he ...

I think I might be falling out of love with my boyfriend, but I don't want to hurt him. What do I do

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - I'm in a dilemma and really need some help. Although I have a boyfriend, I've started to fall for a different guy, which sounds really shallow I know, but please read my explanation of the situation. I truly don't know what to do. :( I'm 19, a...

Age gap relationships and family pressure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - i met a guy 17 years younger than me on the internet 2 yrs ago. im 43 hes 26. hes catholic and unconventional and lebanese (lives there). we had a passionate two year relationship talking every night on cam and on phone each day. we were ...

Is is wrong to date a 17 year old? I'm 26

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

5 October 2011 (M) - Hi there. So basically I've got 2 questions here. 1/ I'm 26 and there's this girl I like but she's 17, would you think there is anything wrong with that? If not then read question 2. 2/ I've been talking to her for a few months now, but have never ...

I need help making my younger man happy in bed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

4 October 2011 (F) - I'm wanting to continue make my younger boyfriend happier in bedroom we been together five months he says I don't work my back or hips enough in bed give me tips to keep man in my bed we stay complete I thought I was doing good he says I only got ...

Age gaps while dating in school?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

4 October 2011 (M) - My mates younger brother asked me a question the other day that i couldn't answer properly so I thought I would ask the dearcupid community. In a rough round about way he is 15 and he fancies a kid a 2 years younger but he was getting stick fr...

Is it because of age factor or something else? Please help me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

2 October 2011 (M) - i fell in love with a girl, who was just 15-year-old when i was 22. It has been more than 1 year having this relationship. She is about to be 17 in october 22 and i have been 24 lately. She loves me alot. She claims to love me more than all the ...

I'm 13, and I want to kiss my teacher!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

1 October 2011 (?) - I have a huge crush on my form teacher and no one knows but every day when I come in to form I get more and more desperate to kiss him. I dont know how to do it though, or to do it at all. Also i really want to tell my friend but i am also worried ...