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anonymous
writes: Hello Cupids.Im a little curious about your opinions.Today I found out a boy I use to go to school with likes me, hes really nice and everything I don't know him all that well.He gave me his number today and well the only thing that is stopping me from sending a text over is the age difference. Hes three years younger than me and I dont want to be a ypocriteh because I would date someone three years older.What do you think would it be weird or should I not care?
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (14 October 2011):
If he's fifteen, he's underage. If he's 18, go for him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2011): Thanks everyone, and yes we are both adults. I think I will just try talking to him and getting to know each other.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (13 October 2011):
He's 3 years younger than you
are you 18 and he's 15... I have some concerns.
if you are 21 and he's 18 then I'm fine with it... although even then there are some big changes coming for him...
that being said.. my boyfriend is 13 years younger than I am... meaning when I was 18 he was FIVE....
now at 51 and 38 it's no big deal.
as long as you are both legal go for it.
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reader, N91 +, writes (13 October 2011):
If you like him, go for it, why would that age difference matter? There will be people who are in a relationship with 33 year age gaps, never mind 3.
Give it a chance and see where you end up!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2011): Age is really just a number. I mean, by the time he's an adult, it won't make much of a difference. If he is an adult just like you, then there shouldn't be much of a problem. I say you should get to know him better, and find out if he's really the one for you. I mean, it's worth a try, isn't it? The only thing that you have to keep in mind is sex. In the case that you are an adult and he is a minor, you guys cannot have sex. Other than that, you're good to go.
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