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writes: I'm wanting to continue make my younger boyfriend happier in bedroom we been together five months he says I don't work my back or hips enough in bed give me tips to keep man in my bed we stay complete I thought I was doing good he says I only got one rhythm please help me keep my relationship intact I love him I want him be pleased i need know why I'm not reaching climax often he worries about me not being satified either I love him need help I'm older woman Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (5 October 2011):
how much older? I'm 13 years older than my boyfriend and he worries about satisfying me too... but since I do not orgasm from penetration, there is not much he can do...
Sex is a natural thing.. if you have ONE rhythm then that's what you have....
Ask him to show you what he would like... tell him to teach you the way to please him... every man is different as is every woman... so what pleases him may not please another man... it's so individual you need to get him to show you what he means. Think of the fun!
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reader, kaiti30 +, writes (5 October 2011):
Well, you being on top you can be in control and help yourself climax, since you know more about your ORGASMS than he does. Do you have problems with your hips? that is causeing you not to be able to work up to expectations? OR maybe just need to find different positions, or something completely out of the ordinary? like letting him watch you please yourself before? or during foreplay, and using his hand to please yourself? Sorry if my answers are for problems your not having, but a lot of the time foreplay helps :) you can loook online for different positions, and ways to help him and you climax :) or use some fire and ice condoms? to help stimulate both of you? I hope i helped evern a little! good luck! Just look online hun :) there are many options out there to try :)
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