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*avj
writes:hi there,pls i need some advice.i'm 25yrs and my man is 47yrs old.weve been in this relationship for almost 4yrs. we even have a boy of 2yrs.we were planning to get engaged this november. But two days ago.we had a slight misunderstanding and then he told me to pack and leave his house.he said he was lying to me,he will not marry.i'm still leaving in his house.when he come home,he only greet me.he will not talk to me.he wouldnt eat my food neither will he sleep with me.what is really happening?is he angry with me?could he be angry to that extent for him to say all those things?what do i do.should i leave his house or will he come back to his right senses?i'm very confused.does he really loves me?pls i need some advice on what to do.thanks
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reader, mavj +, writes (6 October 2011):
mavj is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe whole issue is.i went to his room twice that morning to pick somethings,although we sleep together,i wake up early to do some house chores.but he locked the door and told me that he wants to enjoy his sleep.it was around 7am. so i confronted him later that why did he locked the door or is it that he doesnt want me around anymore.thats when he said i should leave his house. i'm very grateful for your contributions.
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reader, skyleo  +, writes (6 October 2011):
Well, i think i should be able to say better this, but i dont know the cause of your misunderstanding, but to me this man is an elderly man who knows quite sure that he needs to love and care for you but if the story is now this way that means there is a problem somewhere, and you are the only one that can throw light into the darken room. Express yourself better in other to have a better advice. Goodluck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2011): If you can, could you please give some more information on the misunderstanding so that we can give you better advise? You said he's told you to pack and leave with no explanation but nobody ends a 4 year relationship like that without motive. Since it's his home I suggest you do what he says but not with out giving a fight. I don't mean a real fight, I mean be as nice, sweet and loving as you can be. No matter what he says to you or how he treats you, you need to treat him like he means the world to you. Hurt people hurt people, and in exchange, if you make someone happy they will make you happy.
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reader, Uncle Charlie  +, writes (6 October 2011):
Your description of the event that caused him to tell you to move out seems incomplete to me. A guy with a 4 year relationship that has produced one kid just doesnt tell his woman to get out of the house on a whim. This problem sounds like more than just a "slight understanding" to me. I have the feeling that you are bein purpously vague on what the problem is. If you need help then you need to be more honist, because I don't believe that you are giving the whole story.
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