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What should I do about this guy my girlfriend is hanging out with?

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Question - (21 October 2011) 6 Answers - (Newest, 21 October 2011)
A male United States age 30-35, *cor92 writes:

So my gf meet this guy on a dating sight just like she meet me. But this guy is 30 and says age is just a number. He buys her whatever she wants and she hangs out with him i know she hates this guy. SO DO I. But he keeps touchin her and picks her up. My gf is only 18. What should i do i have so much anger in me and i want to beat this guys ass i know i can. But my gf says she dosent want drama. Im a jelious person. also my gf wont tell him we r together because she needs money. she isnt havin sex with him or doin anything. What should i do about the guy? HELP

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A male reader, doublejack United States +, writes (21 October 2011):

Sorry, but I also have to say the problem here is your girlfriend. I absolutely do not believe a 30 year old man is going to take an 18 year old girl out and not have sex with her. A guy that age wants sex, and he knows how to get it.

You need to break up with her. She has no self esteem and is disrespectful to you. You deserve to be treated better!

Best of luck!

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A male reader, serenity80 United Kingdom +, writes (21 October 2011):

You need to dump your girlfriend ASAP. What a bitch!

She is totally disrespecting you, and playing this other man. She sounds like the worst kind of girl to know.

You don't need this kind of drama in your life. It will only end one way, and that is badly.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (21 October 2011):

Honeypie agony auntI wouldn't do ANYTHING about the dude.. but I would dump the GF.

She is obviously using the other guy as some kind of SugarDaddy.. Sooner or later he will want "payment" for all his "good deeds"... Sorry your GF is a user with nasty skanky behavior.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (21 October 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntSorry to say I agree with the previous aunties...

Your gf is no gf to you.. she's using another person and lying to them... if she lies to him, she lies to you. maybe she's using you too.

we either lie or we don't. it's a personality thing.

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom +, writes (21 October 2011):

N91 agony auntWhy is your gf using a dating website when she has a bf? I'd dump this girl immediately, sounds like she could jump ship at any moment as she's materialistic.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2011):

The dude isnt who you need to be angry with. Hes not doing ( to his knowledge) anything wrong. SHes telling him shes single and acting interested. WHy would he not go for that? He knows nothing about you. SHES the one disrespecting you, acting like money is more important than your feelings, relationship, and even dignity. She isnt respecting you at all. SHe is using and leading this dude on who is probably falling for her just like you did. He is just as innocent in this as you are. SHes the one causing trouble just for the sake of money... If she needs money so bad she can take out a loan, or get a fucking job (a new one or a second one) instead of walking all over you and this other guys feelings.

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