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Archived questions from: August, 2010 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

Will my self esteem issues get in the way of a relationship I've built online?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Hey agony aunts and uncles! I have a question and I apologize for the novel I am writing. However, I feel the background information is necessary for my question. I have spent my years as an adolescent feeling like an old soul in a very young she...

Don't want the problems from my past relationship to follow me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I just got out of an intense relationship that lasted off and on for almost two years. The man I was dating and later engaged to was ten years older than me and was sometimes verbally abusive. At the end of our relationship I found out he had a ...

How can I get people to accept I am with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5188 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - Hi, im a 19 year old female and around 5 months ago at a work function i ended up hooking up with my 36 year old manager. we both decided against going home together and it happened under the influence of a serious amount of alcohol. but after that ...

He is 23, and I am nearly 16, how do I tell my dad?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is 23 (24 at the end of october) and i will be 16 in less than a month. I just recently told my mom about the slightly large age gap and she was not really impressed. I have no idea how im going to tell my dad cause i know he will ...

I give her all I can but I am at my breaking point.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - Hello all not sure who im talking to! OK here goes, I am 39 my partner is 29 we have 3 children all aged under 10. I loved this woman with all my heart, i gave her everything. For the past 2 years my partner has changed, she wont come near ...

What is myth and what is real?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - I'm really interested to know, if a man in their 50 s are highly suspectable to become impotent. I, in my twenties, and my boyfriend is 56. I love him, he is great lover, he can do it twice a day, and he wants all sort of things from me. Like ...

Stay 'friends with benefits' or ditch him...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5189 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - I met this guy about 4 months ago - he fell in love with me, and I had never felt so comfortable with anyone before. Only problem - he's 34, I'm 19. We had what would qualify as a whirlwind romance, however I can never rush into relationships and I ...

A twisted relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - Ok so i do not know what to do so i thought i would come here for some help. I am 18 years old and in a very confused state of mind. It is really a long story but i will shorten it and please any feedback to this is great because i need som...

My older BF said "I could be your dad...". What's going on??

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

27 August 2010 (F) - I'm 18, my bf is 34. We've been seeing each other for six months. I'm happy with him and he seems happy too. Lately though, we never seem to go out anymore. We cook at his place, read, watch movies and go to sleep and he clings to me like crazy and ...

How can I date a mature woman when the society I live in is very conservative?

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26 August 2010 (M) - first of all i will like to say hi. well i will like to admit here that im still a virgin and i've never had a real GF and i just had 3 kisses in my life.I get horny almost everyday. I can just help my self than just to masturbate.i've asked so many ...

We are at different stages in life and I know I should just be happy being friends, but I cant help but feel sad about it....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - Hello my dilemma is this: I'm 24 years old, I just turned 24, and I met an absolutely amazing guy. I completely feel like I can be myself around him. He is wonderful in many ways. The issue? He's 39. So when I turn 25, he'll be 40. I just want to ...

Two years age difference..not bad at all right?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - okay soooo.. i have been talking to this guy since the summer before i was going into eighth grade it's the summer before tenth grade now, and my mom still wont let me date him.. i'm fifteen and he's seventeen.. its TWO YEARS! why wont she just lig...

Is this type of guy a creep?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

24 August 2010 (F) - i need desperate help i fell in love with a american man who goes for elections i tought by him having this backround that he would be a good guy yet everyone is saying those sort of men are creeps is this true ??? ps im 19 he is 49 ...

In love with much older man over the internet! Will people laugh?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

24 August 2010 (F) - hi everyone i am in love with a man over the internet he is so funny sweet and kind he has done alot of work on polling for elections and ive seen him on a tape why he should be elected meaning he isnt a creep he has a good backround etc but my only ...

I'm attracted to older men

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

24 August 2010 (F) - I could really use some advice and guidance. I don't know what is wrong with me. It seems since I've been about fourteen or so, I have been attracted to older men. This attraction for older men keeps intensifying as I get older. My friends have ...

Is 30 years and 3000 miles such a problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

24 August 2010 (F) - ok everyone when i was young i had a fake profile on a dating site i fell in love with a man on that site at the time but i could never tell him who i really was now i am 19 and i see he is still on the site i am so happy he is still single as i ...

Should I love this man who is 30 years older?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - ok hi everyone im just so confused at the moment i feel in love with an american man over the internet he is sweet funny and kind and has always said the right thing he offered to take me and my baby which i am expecting at moment he has told me a ...

Is it bad for a woman to date someone 3 years younger?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - I am 20 years old, fixing to be 21 in a few weeks.. and I really like this guy who is 17 years old. He can act pretty mature for his age but i'm not sure what others would think? Is it bad for a girl to date someone who is 3 years younger? ...

Insecure girlfriend, need help fast!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

23 August 2010 (M) - I've been dating with this girl for 6-months now. I can feel our affection is growing day by day. However, she has some insecurity issues. She is 28, and I'm 24, she was divorced a year ago (kind of lost faith in men). Yesterday we went to t...

Having trouble getting into the dating scene!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

23 August 2010 (M) - I put forward a question here awile back and received excellent suggestions/opinions/advice. I thought I'd do it again. I'm a 55-year old male. For whatever reason, I've inherited the "youthful gene". No complaints about that. When people gues...

Has anyone had a relationship work out w/ an age difference of 10+ yrs?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - Why does everyone say that a relationship with a huge age difference will never work? I have been dating Greg for 6 months, I will be 20 next month and he is 32. EVERY ONE always says that he is only in it for the sex yet our relationship is NOT by ...

Why do I like older guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - help. i like older guys. but not as old as like 40 just younger then that. im not sure if its because of my recent relationship just ending and im so upset about it still even though it was 3 months ago but i just love flirting with them and i love ...

I'm 16, I like a girl 3 years younger than me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

22 August 2010 (M) - What you are about to read was quite quickly written so please try to make sense of what i wrote lol. So here is my position, i recently moved to a new area and i started volunteering at a Vet Clinic and Humane Society because i love animals bec...

Younger woman messing with my head!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

21 August 2010 (M) - Ok here is the deal. I am older than this lady, yet I don't feel that way at all on the inside (and people tell me that I look younger than I am, and when I work out alot, I can easily pass for someone in their 20s). Ok, well, we have been friends, ...

Confused student- Teacher Relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

21 August 2010 (F) - Hey, I'm new to this. First post. Before I start I guess I should give some background on my situation. For the last 8 years of my life I've lived with my mother, who has untreated mental problem, we think it's bipolar personality ...

Can a relationship with a younger man work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

20 August 2010 (F) - Can a relationship with a younger guy work I'm 33 been married (divorced now for 4 years) and have 2 kids (age 5 and 10). My boyfriend is 26 never been married and no kids. We love each other .... my kids love him. Our life together is gre...

I need advice for an 11 year age difference!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

20 August 2010 (F) - I am an 18 year old girl and I am extremely attracted to a 29 year old, and he is crazy about me. We haven't gone on a date yet. I know my family will go crazy when they find out his age. My sister is 20 and is dating a 25 year old and my mom didn't ...

Is he with me just to boost his ego?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

20 August 2010 (F) - I'm 20 in November and my partner is 31 in January...Is this relationship weird at all. It doesn't bother me...but I'm thinking maybe it should? I don't know. I do genuinely like him a lot and it's early days yet so I haven't told many people about ...

Can any men give me some insight to this please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

18 August 2010 (F) - My bf Anthony is acting strange...hes 15yrs older so I can't really guess why having noo experience with men his age :p I've known him six months and he told me he was forced to live with his folks because of the bad economic situation. But, I've ...

Does he love me? Do I love him? What do I do? So many questions...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

18 August 2010 (F) - There's this guy I like. he's a leo and i'm an aries. our star signs are supposed to be cool together. but I don't know if I 'love' him or if he 'loves' me. he's a year younger than me, i met him in april and he's the one who first came over to me ...

I love my boyfriend but I think my boss is interested in me, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

18 August 2010 (F) - Hi there.. I have no idea why i'm asking but i'm a bit confused.. Ok, i'm 20 and i'm dating a guy thats 12 years older.. His away on business and will be away for another 4 weeks, and been away for 3 already.. The thing is, my boss a wonderful ...

Is a 6 year age difference too much to date someone?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

17 August 2010 (M) - if theres a 6 year differance in between you and someone else would it be ok if you date them? this is just a random thought im not actually saying i wana date a 10year old, im just saying is a 6 year age differance too mutch? i have a friend and ...

Why do I always go for the older man?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) - I feel troubled. I can't seem to get attracted to men my own age or near it. I actually feel repulsed sometimes when they try and flirt with me. I try and feel something, anything but no go. I'd never go for someone twice my age or anything, but for ...

He thinks I'm too young, should I give up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) - I play baseball on a co-head team and I'v started getting close with one of the guys on the team. Needless to say we've had sex a few times now. Wouldn't be so bad if I wouldn't start having feelings for him. Biggest problem here is that i'm 17 and ...

Would it still be okay for us to date but NOT have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

15 August 2010 (M) - Okay im a guy that is 19 years old and i know a girl that is 15 that really likes me. Im really starting to like her back but don't know about our age difference. The age of concent here is 17 but we wouldn't have a sexual relationship. We both ...

Some tips for entertaining a married older man

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

15 August 2010 (F) - I'm 18, and have been seeing a 42 year old man. He is married with kids. It all started when I spent the whole night working with him on his truck that broke down. He's a mechanic witch is what I would like to be when I'm finnished highschool. A...

He's 39 and I love him, but he has a real questionable history! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

14 August 2010 (F) - First off: I know it's impossible to judge, but PLEASE try to help me. I don't need to be punished more than I have been recently. I've fallen in love with a 39 year old man. I met him online two years ago, and we have been talking practica...

I'm 19, he's 16, is it even a good idea to date him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

14 August 2010 (F) - Hello...I have recently fallen for a guy who is about 3 1/2 years younger than I am. I recently turned 19 years old and a college freshman. He is a high school sophomore. I never would have even considered a relationship with someone with that ...

Is my boss just flirting, or is he interested?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

14 August 2010 (F) - I have been at my job for about 8 months now. The first 6 months it was just work between my boss and I. But the past 2 months something has changed. He calls me Blondie and no other co-worker has a nickname of any kind. He has been touchy feely. ...

Is it wrong for a 24 year old to go out with a girl under the age of 18?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

13 August 2010 (F) - On holdays we argued alot. Is it wrong for a 24 year old to go out with a girl under the age of 18. Because at 18 you are classed as an adult. Im just wondering because my cousin is a bit of a perve he hasnt had a girlfriend and i think hes desprate...

She says she feels like I'm her soulmate, but that I'm too young for her, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

13 August 2010 (M) - Hi all, I met this amazing lady about 2 months ago.....we met on the dating site.....and it was a fluke as she doesn't go there often and she was about to log off....I instant messaged her and she replied and we hit it off from the start....nor...

She's 15, I'm 21, I know its wrong but I like her!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

13 August 2010 (M) - Hey im 21 im a guy...im not a retard i dont do crap that isnt wrong...i work im just a good guy but the problem is that i really like a girl and the thing is she is 15 we click so well and i know its illegal and to me its wrong but the fact that i ...

I'm 21, He's 58 and been divorced 3 times! Could we be happy together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

12 August 2010 (F) - I am currently in a relationship with a 58-year old man. I just turned 21. We've been together for 7 months, and most of the time I think our relationship is very good. We are very comfortable with each other and have a great sex life. This is the ...

Is it weird I'm in love with someone four times my age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

12 August 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid I was wondering if this is weird or not. Well I just started a new job at my local convienence store. My boss is really nice and I started to like him about 3 weeks ago. But now I have fallen in love with him. The weird part is that he ...

It's important to me that he accepts my friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - I need some advice. I have been dating an older man than myself now for over a year. We both have the greatest time when we're together and both have committed ourselves to one another. We haven't told my parents yet, because my parents are extr...

How do I get over my abusive relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5195 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - My ex boyfriend was very emotionally abusive and after seven years together I left him. It took me leaving him to realize how bad it really was. I was so low on myself I wouldn't even look in the mirror. It's been awhile since we broke up and I've ...

My boyfriend's mum wont give me a chance because of my age, but I am only a year and a half younger than my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend's mother thinks I am too young for him. I am 15 and he's 16 (turning 17 next month). She doesn't know me at all aside from my age and feels as if my relationship with him will be unsuccessful because of me. I don't really blame her; 15 ...

I'm having second thoughts about this relationship, should I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5207 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - I did a google search and read something on this site which was really close to my situation. I am 20 years old and I have been in a serious relationship with a 40 year old man for 8 months now.We actually have a long distance relationship an...

Is Internet hook up with older guy safe?!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

10 August 2010 (F) - [Mod Note: OP's own title] Hi, I'm 17 and from the uk. I've known a guy for a year and a half off the Internet. He is older than me (46) and I'm going to meet him soon, he's driving up to where I live and were meeting in a hotel. My friend knows an...

Which of these 2 older men should I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5203 days ago

10 August 2010 (F) - I,m 18 and i like 2 older guys one 24 other 28. One i,ve not seen in 2 years and one i see near everyweek. I know for definate guy number 2 likes me. ya see Guy number one we,ll call James(28) is a sweet and caring guy who is a strong believer in ...