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writes: There's this guy I like. he's a leo and i'm an aries. our star signs are supposed to be cool together. but I don't know if I 'love' him or if he 'loves' me. he's a year younger than me, i met him in april and he's the one who first came over to me and said he likes to talk to me. now he's a great friend on facebook mainly cos i don't see him every day. he always tells me i look pretty and nice and he confides in me. he even told me that his parents yelled at him for talking to me. now, i like him very very much. i'm very concerned that he might get into trouble with his family, cos they're a bit tough and i get the feeling they don't want him to have much to do with me. i feel like i can't get through the day if i don't get a message from him on facebook every day. do i love him? and is he attracted to me? if so, is it long term or just a little crush? and anyway, his parents obviously don't like it. what do i do?? i just don't know.. i'm lost...
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2010): Attraction is not love, love is not attraction. Attraction is Nature's automatic chemical trick based on LOOKS that lasts for some time, whereas love for someone's PERSONALITY requires conscious effort and can last for a lifetime.
Learn it now, or you are doomed to jump from relationship to relationship for the rest of your life, like it or not. I am not being harsh; I am being realist here. But most people will never understand or accept that, and because of this their life will be a total mess and they'll NEVER blame themselves for it.
Oh and horoscopes are pure bullcrap. It is YOU, not the stars, that determine the success or failure of your relationships. Start taking charge of (and responsibility for) your own life, no one will do that for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2010): Thanks, Blod. I feel like I could love him. I mean I feel more for him than for any other guy I've ever met. it's the thing with this family though. thank you :D
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reader, Blod  +, writes (18 August 2010):
 I'm not sure if I'd go as far as love, but you definitely like him very much and he clearly means a lot to you. You'd know if you were in love with him. As for him, he seems to feel the same way about you. He wouldn't make an effort to talk to you every day if he didn't like you, especially if his parents don't like it.
I think the main problem is the issue with his parents. You don't need to worry about how you feel. That comes naturally so just go with the flow and see what happens. But I think you need to find out what the problem is exactly with his parents. It could be easily sorted, e.g. if they don't like that he's talking to a girl on facebook. But if you want to take your relationship further, then you should try to sort things with his parents. Good luck.
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